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Quintessentially All the Queer
#2 The Queerly Trans Quintessentials updates and articles

Queerly Trans: Because trans does not equal straight!

In this Update (click on links):

Editor’s overview
Hey all! Welcome to the second Quintessetials for 2022. We have a HUGE edition for you this time — all the articles! So whether you are new here or have been hanging with us from the start, thanks for joining us and enjoying all the amazing reads from our amazing writers. Follow them, drop some claps, comment, ask questions, grow, and smile!

Queerly Trans Doing a Thing
Did you miss any of these great posts? Well, go check them out.

WRITING PROMPT RESPONSE: “I Saw the Sign” I Didn’t See the Gendered Language Sign by KP_the_writer — 4 Min Read
As we’ve established, I didn’t see the signs. Any of them. Like driving down a highway of billboards while fishing by my feet for a dropped pen (because writer), I missed them all. But now that I’m sitting back up, because let’s face it, how often do I use a pen anymore, I can look back at the dashcam, and OMG, there they were. Just because I didn’t see them or acknowledge them, doesn’t mean they were never there.

WRITING PROMPT RESPONSE: “What Came First, the Trans or the Queer?” Coming Out Burn Out by Logan Silkwood — 7 Min Read
In the movies, and in the lives of many in our community, coming out is a dramatic moment… In many movies, coming out is a one time event. You get it over with, things fall apart, and then you rebuild, if you survive. This hasn’t been my experience.

Saving Women’s Sports from Trans Women? by Logan Silkwood — 6 Min Read
Pseudo medical professionals who clearly had no experience with patients on E (Estradiol) talked about “scientifically proven masculine level strength” remaining after medical transitions, while a fellow protestor who was a trans woman incredulously whispered from behind us: Strength? I can’t even open my refrigerator door at this point!

Never Let Trolls Stop Your Writing by KP_the_writer — 6 Min Read
Writing on here, can be scary. Putting yourself out there, opening yourself to criticism and judgment, can be scary. And for those of us in the LGBTQIA+ community, and specifically those of us willing and wanting to write about our own experiences as members of that community, the fear can be downright halting.

Beginning 2022 With Art & Productivity by Jymi Cliche — 4 Min Read
We’re off to another year in uncertain times. I got a lot done last year and set many goals going into 2022; but the main goal is always to keep going, and do my best, whatever that looks like.

Victorious Voicemail by Victoria Quinn — 2 Min Read
This marks the first voicemail I have received as Victoria. So affirming! Victoria, in Latin, means conquest, triumph, victory. Accepting myself as transgender and coming out certainly feels like a triumphant victory!

Driving Under the Influence of T by Logan Silkwood — 5 Min Read
My tank was almost full, and I wasn’t going to be one of those ridiculous people who waited in line for hours just to top off their tanks! I was so much smarter than that. Really. Don’t look at me like that. I had it together.

My Blooming Genitals (part 1) by Logan Silkwood — 8 Min Read
Nuns and transgender people are the only ones I know of who have ever referred to it as “down there”. My first doctor unfortunately preferred a more direct approach: “…and then there would be clit growth. It will ALMOST BE LIKE A LITTLE TINY PENIS!”

The Waiting Game by Victoria Quinn — 2 Min Read
We wait for inner acceptance. We wait for an end of denial. We wait for the egg to crack. We wait for identity. We wait for truth. We wait for self-love. We wait for happiness. We wait for pride. We wait for ourselves to shine.

Part 2 of Discussing My Genitals by Logan Silkwood — 7 Min Read
Have you ever specified to a cis man before a first date that he must have at least 152.4 millimeters of protruding genital flesh available to satisfy you?

My First E-gasm, I Think… by Jenny Starr — 6 Min Read
I don’t remember any parent lessons on masturbation, but since we were in a catholic home, maybe that was to be expected? All I know is once I ‘discovered IT’ I thought I had struck gold! I was going to change the world with my discovery — solo sex! IT would be the new hotness and I would be rich and famous.

Overflowing with Man Juice by Logan Silkwood — 2 Min Read
They explained that this was a little higher than the average cis male in my age range. It seems that my cells have been acting like little man juice vampires, sucking up every drop like their microscopic lives depend on it.

Paintings, Poetry, & Party Planning by Jymi Cliche — 4 Min Read
First of all, I don’t think it’s a great idea to be gathering for parties right now… It’s hard; and the world is struggling to hold on, which is why I was gonna throw an art show/open mic party on Zoom tonight, but now I’m having second thoughts.

Is the Protective Energy I’m Getting from that Man Juice Healthy? by Logan Silkwood — 4 Min Read
Though it’s probably healthiest and safest to imagine rescuing oneself, if I’m being honest, I see rescuing as a social act, something that plays out constantly in books, movies, and television shows.

A Time I Thought I Was Going to Die by Logan Silkwood — 3 Min Read
Hiding rainbows inside me in the Bible Belt had nearly killed me for the first time.

Introducing Our Writers

Shortforms

Kathrin’s Life
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Editor’s Writing

Queerly Trans Writing Prompt:
Writing prompt time. You can still submit to any of our previous prompts — simply include the tag WRITING PROMPTS.
Writing Prompt 16/1/22
What are you waiting for?
This prompt comes off the back of an amazing poetic piece by Victoria Quinn. I’ll let Tori explain.
There is no ‘guidance’ on this prompt, just share with us about whatever that phrase invokes for you.
Review, journal, creative non-fiction, fiction, memoir, choose your style, and have fun.
You do not need to post your story on Queerly Trans but if you do, tag your story with WRITING PROMPTS. If you post it elsewhere, tag QUEERLYTRANS so that I can read it and get all clappy for you!
Previous writing prompts (start here for article ideas):
What came first — the queer or the trans?
Your gender euphoria story.
That time my faith in humanity was restored!
Spotting My Queers
Happy New Queer

QUICK GUIDELINES OVERVIEW
Before you submit, check you have done these things:
- Included a title, sub-title, attributed image
- Proofread and submitted a clean DRAFT
- Followed Medium’s standard guidelines
- Included transgender as your FIRST tag
Read the rest of the guidelines for additional information.
If you are already a writer for Queerly Trans, please take a moment to check in with the updated guidelines and if you are not yet a writer — why not become one? Are you Queerly Trans? Then you have a story to share and this is the platform where we invite you to do just that.
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Kathrin Seiler, Jymi Cliche, Kristy Westaway, Ayven Alexander, Justice Faye Dazzle, Jenny Starr, Logan Silkwood, Victoria Quinn, Nova Grace






