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ely-to-ruin-your-couples-game-nights-9a7217e7886a">night</a>.”</li><li>“I love the view and deep penetration of doggy.”</li><li>“I love the ease and closeness of missionary.”</li><li>“I love <a href="https://readmedium.com/the-oral-sex-roundup-2d1e546bfe39">oral sex</a>, giving and receiving from either gender. I’m also a big fan of rimming, swallowing, and <a href="https://readmedium.com/here-cums-the-sun-e8fe9db246f8">cum</a> play.”</li></ul><p id="5f44">I was also curious if this was all the sex the swingers wanted, or if there was something they hoped to explore. The following are the sexual positions swingers said they would like to try when <a href="https://readmedium.com/5-ways-to-experiment-in-bed-if-youre-fresh-out-of-ideas-stimulate-your-mind-first-9ced50d00080">experimenting in bed</a>.</p><ul><li>1. Lotus</li><li>2. Anal cowgirl</li><li>3. Anal reverse cowgirl</li><li>4. Using swings and harnesses</li><li>5. Sex in different locations of the house</li></ul><p id="53ef">And why are these positions on the swingers’ wish list? The following are the explanations they gave me.</p><ul><li>“I would like to try doggy because I like to spank her ass.”</li><li>“I would like to try lotus because it looks like it will be a good time.”</li><li>“I’d like to try cowgirl or reverse cowgirl anally because I enjoy <a href="https://readmedium.com/10-weird-objects-removed-from-peoples-butts-97bb5037c29f">anal</a> and haven’t tried it in those positions yet.”</li><li>“We would like to try positions with swings and harnesses because they take the heavy lifting out of difficult positions.”</li></ul><h2 id="374c">What Sexual Positions Do Swingers Like Least?</h2><figure id="00e0"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*AuEm1E3ujHu6KRmzk0vcLQ.jpeg"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://depositphotos.com/portfolio-1003697.html?content=photo">.shock</a> on <a href="https://depositphotos.com/87328902/stock-photo-handsome-man-in-bed-with.html">DepositPhotos</a></figcaption></figure><p id="0327">Just as I wondered what sexual positions swingers like the most, I also wanted to know which ones they like least. The following are the positions 3Fun users said they don’t want in their sexual repertoire.</p><ul><li>1. None, I like them all</li><li>2. Doggy</li><li>3. Positions that are too complicated</li><li>4. Positions that are not traditional</li><li>5. Positions where only one partner <a href="https://readmedium.com/common-reasons-people-fake-orgasms-a262f442f3b2">orgasms</a></li></ul><p id="4875">The reasons survey respondents gave for their answers were:</p><ul><li>“I don’t dislike anything because with each position, there is a time for it.”</li><li>“Doggy feels too <a href="https://readmedium.com/the-sex-context-the-sexual-disconnect-stock-photo-flash-fiction-cb90a606d854">disconnected</a>.”</li><li>“We don’t really like any position that is too complicated. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, not lifting and holding or anything strenuous.”</li></ul><p id="5048">I also asked 3Fun users if there were any positions they didn’t ever want to try, and the following are the most common answers they gave.</p><ul><li>1. None, I’m open to them all</li><li>2. 69</li><li>3. Blood play</li><li>4. Scat</li><li>5. Snow angel</li></ul><p id="0dc1">These positions made

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respondents’ sexual no-no list because:</p><ul><li>“Snow angel just seems weird.”</li><li>“There is no sexual position I try to avoid because each one will give a different pleasure, so I really like them all.”</li><li>“I think 69 sounds boring.”</li><li>“There is no sexual position I would not like to try because I want to do them all.”</li><li>“I’d probably have to say I’d avoid positions that require an extreme amount of flexibility or balance. While sex is always a good <a href="https://readmedium.com/what-is-a-coregasm-orgasm-during-exercise-78dba68c5c42">workout</a>, I don’t want to feel like I’m preparing for an Olympic tryout.”</li><li>“I <a href="https://readmedium.com/does-your-partner-always-forget-valentines-day-it-s-not-the-problem-you-may-think-it-is-efc4f426229b">think</a> I’m pretty open to try most things once.”</li><li>“I don’t think there is any position that we’re really completely against trying — unless you count using urethral sounding rods. They look way too uncomfortable.”</li></ul><p id="099b">So there you have it, the sexual menu of swingers — as well as the positions they don’t think sound appetizing. I don’t know about you, but my research made me feel a little less boring, since even swingers aren’t necessarily swinging off the chandelier after all.</p><p id="2cc7"><b><i>More from Kiki Wellington:</i></b></p><div id="f2cc" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/what-swingers-do-when-they-get-stuck-in-a-sexual-rut-18f70e693abd"> <div> <div> <h2>What Swingers Do When They Get Stuck in a Sexual Rut</h2> <div><h3>Because even swingers need to spice things up once in a while</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*SWQCuv6w47eiHg9PCYAxKg.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="8eb7" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/5-ways-to-experiment-in-bed-if-youre-fresh-out-of-ideas-stimulate-your-mind-first-9ced50d00080"> <div> <div> <h2>5 Ways to Experiment in Bed</h2> <div><h3>If you’re fresh out of ideas, stimulate your mind first</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*xDWBT1FCGvcx0XZm22fa7A.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="bcbc" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/which-zodiac-signs-are-most-likely-to-have-a-threesome-16f0c9558696"> <div> <div> <h2>Quickie: Which Zodiac Signs Are Most Likely to Have a Threesome?</h2> <div><h3>Survey shows non-monogamy may be in the stars</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*6CKrJwB3MlNGmOw2g3_gVA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

Do You Do It Like a Swinger? The Answer May Surprise You

Swingers reveal their favorite sexual positions

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When you think of swingers, you may think of a group of people swinging off the chandelier naked with a mastery of sexual positions that an acrobat or yoga instructor would envy. But how does this assumption stack up to the reality of what actually goes on in the bedrooms of swingers?

I asked myself this same question, and posed it to 3Fun, an app that caters to swingers. The company conducted a poll of its membership for me, and I have to say, some of the answers surprised me. According to survey responses, the following are the sexual positions swingers enjoy most.

  • 1. Missionary
  • 2. Doggy
  • 3. Cowboy
  • 4. 69
  • 5. Spooning

Suffice it to say, these answers aren’t quite the picture I had when I asked the question. When I asked why they liked the positions they did, the following are some of the responses I received.

  • “Doggy style gives me more pleasure.”
  • “I like the connection and angle of missionary.”
  • “I enjoy 69 because we can pleasure each other how we like.”
  • “I like the depth of doggy style.”
  • “I like cowboy because I can play with their cock and reverse cowboy because I don’t have to do much work.”
  • “I enjoy inverse missionary because I like to make out with my partners when I fuck them.”
  • “I love seeing my partner’s face in missionary.”
  • “My man loves watching my ass during doggy.”
  • “I love when he slides in from the side because it’s extremely low maintenance and feels amazing — especially in the middle of the night.”
  • “I love the view and deep penetration of doggy.”
  • “I love the ease and closeness of missionary.”
  • “I love oral sex, giving and receiving from either gender. I’m also a big fan of rimming, swallowing, and cum play.”

I was also curious if this was all the sex the swingers wanted, or if there was something they hoped to explore. The following are the sexual positions swingers said they would like to try when experimenting in bed.

  • 1. Lotus
  • 2. Anal cowgirl
  • 3. Anal reverse cowgirl
  • 4. Using swings and harnesses
  • 5. Sex in different locations of the house

And why are these positions on the swingers’ wish list? The following are the explanations they gave me.

  • “I would like to try doggy because I like to spank her ass.”
  • “I would like to try lotus because it looks like it will be a good time.”
  • “I’d like to try cowgirl or reverse cowgirl anally because I enjoy anal and haven’t tried it in those positions yet.”
  • “We would like to try positions with swings and harnesses because they take the heavy lifting out of difficult positions.”

What Sexual Positions Do Swingers Like Least?

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Just as I wondered what sexual positions swingers like the most, I also wanted to know which ones they like least. The following are the positions 3Fun users said they don’t want in their sexual repertoire.

  • 1. None, I like them all
  • 2. Doggy
  • 3. Positions that are too complicated
  • 4. Positions that are not traditional
  • 5. Positions where only one partner orgasms

The reasons survey respondents gave for their answers were:

  • “I don’t dislike anything because with each position, there is a time for it.”
  • “Doggy feels too disconnected.”
  • “We don’t really like any position that is too complicated. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, not lifting and holding or anything strenuous.”

I also asked 3Fun users if there were any positions they didn’t ever want to try, and the following are the most common answers they gave.

  • 1. None, I’m open to them all
  • 2. 69
  • 3. Blood play
  • 4. Scat
  • 5. Snow angel

These positions made respondents’ sexual no-no list because:

  • “Snow angel just seems weird.”
  • “There is no sexual position I try to avoid because each one will give a different pleasure, so I really like them all.”
  • “I think 69 sounds boring.”
  • “There is no sexual position I would not like to try because I want to do them all.”
  • “I’d probably have to say I’d avoid positions that require an extreme amount of flexibility or balance. While sex is always a good workout, I don’t want to feel like I’m preparing for an Olympic tryout.”
  • “I think I’m pretty open to try most things once.”
  • “I don’t think there is any position that we’re really completely against trying — unless you count using urethral sounding rods. They look way too uncomfortable.”

So there you have it, the sexual menu of swingers — as well as the positions they don’t think sound appetizing. I don’t know about you, but my research made me feel a little less boring, since even swingers aren’t necessarily swinging off the chandelier after all.

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