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Quickie: 3 Simple Tweaks to Add Variety to Your Regular Sex Positions

It doesn’t take much to make the familiar feel brand new

Like a favorite food, everyone has a favorite sex position that can be their go-to whenever they get intimate. However, even the spiciest of sex positions can lose their flavor after a while of doing them over and over again. While we often talk about spicing up our sex lives, sometimes it can feel like such a daunting task that we stick to what’s familiar, no matter how bland we may think it’s getting.

The good news is, you don’t have to buy a brand new sexual cookbook in order to get the spice you crave. In fact, according to erotic wholeness coach Darshana Avila, it only takes a few small tweaks to your recipe to freshen things up and make your sex life a feast.

“Go slower, then slower still.”

“There are some simple things that can be varied to create infinite combinations of sexual experience and regularly employing these will keep you from getting stuck in the same old rhythm each time,” Avila said.

One of the things you can do is change the speed of your lovemaking.

“Go slower, then slower still. Now try faster,” she said. “Whether we’re talking about how quickly you’re undressing, caressing or having intercourse, adjusting the speed of your encounter will have a big impact.”

In addition, Avila says that changing the pressure can also be a great way to create a different experience — no matter how often you and your partner use your favorite position.

“See how exquisitely gentle a kiss can be or how fiercely passionate.”

“Same as speed, this is a great dial to adjust,” said Avila. “Experiment with feathery light touches and firm grips. See how exquisitely gentle a kiss can be or how fiercely passionate. You get the idea.”

Also, Avila suggests that we make little changes where we have sex to transform it into a new experience.

“Lights on or off? Daylight or moonlight? Music — and what kind — or silence? Scented candles and massage oil or not? Leather or lace? This list could go on and on,” she said.