A Spiritual Explainer
21 Versions of Your Ultimate Purpose for Living This Life
[Updated June 19, 2022] How to find your own purpose in life among the 4 major types of life purposes.

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CONTENTS
[0] The Purpose of Life [1] Type 1 — PERSONAL GROWTH & ASCENSION (Life as a School) — 7 purposes: Who am I?, to Ascend, to Develop Psychic Energies, to Remember our True Self, to Transcend Duality to Oneness, to Escape the Matrix [2] Type 2 — CELEBRATING LIFE (the Ultimate Playground) — 7 purposes: to Be Happy, to Celebrate Creation, to Experience Duality, to Integrate the Physical & Spiritual, to Just Be [3] Type 3 — CREATING A BETTER WORLD (Creating Our Reality) — 4 purposes: to Create, to Love Unconditionally, to Bring Light to Darkness, to Serve [4] Type 4 — NO PURPOSE PURPOSES (Beyond the Ego-Mind) — 3 purposes: We Give Life Purpose, Life is Already Perfect, There is No Purpose or Meaning
[5] Needs, Wants, & Purposes — [5.1] Hinduism’s Purusharthas & Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs [6] How to Find Your Purpose — [6.1] Excitement with Discernment & Integrity; [6.2] Harmonizing Multiple Purposes; [6.3] Purpose, Synchronicities, Luck, & Karma; [6.4] Am I On the Right Path?; [6.5] Dharma & Archetypes: Fully Living Your Purpose [7] Related Resources
[0] The Purpose of Life
I have collected many suggestions for the ‘Ultimate Purpose of Life’ from both teachers and students of spirituality. I summarized those into 21 distinct ways of wording “purposes of life”.
After compiling that list, I found we can group the 21 purposes into 4 types:
- Type 1 — Spiritual Ascension Purposes (Life as a School)
- Type 2 — Celebrating Our Life Purposes (in the Ultimate Playground)
- Type 3 — Creating a Better World Purposes (Creating Our Reality)
- Type 4 — No Purpose Purposes (Beyond the Ego-Mind)
They are all good and are all equally valid. They overlap because they are all related to one another. And because of that, if we realize one purpose, the others are readily at hand.
But first, why do we need a purpose for life? Most New Age spiritualists say we chose our individual purpose before we were incarnated in our present life. It was the reason we even bothered to come into this existence. Hinduism calls that our “dharma” (discussed more below). For both, past life incarnations and karma influence much of our personal purpose in this life.
Another view (from Matias De Stefano, YouTube link) says our purpose comes from our being a biological system that is moving forward by adapting to our environment. This is a lot like Darwin’s original concept of evolution, which was based on adapting to changing ecosystems. But from a spiritual perspective, we are adapting to an environment/ecosystem that is the entire multidimensional cosmos/universe we exist in. This applies even for the “No Purpose Purposes”.
The most common teaching is that to find our purpose, we should follow our joy and excitement — what makes us most happy. Some add the comment “with integrity” or “with discernment” so it will not be entirely hedonistic. (See section [6.1] for more on that.)
I have also heard that we all have 3 types of dharma/purposes that we need to address simultaneously:
- pursuing our life passions,
- meeting our life responsibilities related to who we are now, and
- dealing with our life challenges that arise often unexpectedly.
The most common responses I have seen on spiritual Facebook groups to questions about our life purpose are:
- To learn to love myself and express peace and love to all others
- To help/guide, teach/inspire, heal/serve others to overcome their challenges and learn to love themselves and the world
Your purpose is unique, as is everyone’s. No two people have the exact same purpose or path in life.
Follow what resonates positively for you. Avoid anything that resonates negatively. Be careful following what others say and anything your ego has internalized to be your purpose.
Take suggestions you hear, including those given here, with a grain of salt. What works well for one person could be a spiritual disaster for another. But even mistakes are perfect in a perfect universe.
You have multiple purposes, and they will change with time. And you might find that you share paths with other like-minded souls in one or more of the categories below.
*** With that in mind, I have heard that the purpose of life is…
[1] Type 1 — PERSONAL GROWTH & ASCENSION (Life as a School)
This first set of purposes sees life as a “school”. They all reflect “learning” and one often builds upon the previous. But they are still distinct in emphasis, and we can approach each separately.
[1.1] To Answer the Question: Who Am I?
This question is fundamental to all other purposes in this section. We can also state it as What Is My Purpose? Some say that from our 3rd Dimension perspective, life will always be a mystery, and only our soul knows the purpose of our life. That purpose seems unique to each person. Others say that we each define our own purpose. (Type [4.2] below is also about defining your purpose.)
The only purpose in life is to be totally who you are. — Rhonda Byrne, The Greatest Secret
[1.2] To Expand, Grow, Evolve, & Ascend
toward Self Realization, Awakening, Enlightenment, Truth, a Higher State of Consciousness, a Higher Dimensional Reality, or a Lighter Density of Being. Some people add the verb “to Heal” to the first part of this purpose. Others relate this to “Ending Your Karmic Cycle” and “Learning to Accept and Love Yourself”.
[1.3] To Learn and Develop our Subtle Energies & Psychic Abilities
This is often part of the ascension process [1.2], but not always (see article above). We do that to expand our connections and relationships on Earth and to other planets and other dimensions. Everything, including the past and future, is a variation in vibration, frequency, and energy. The purpose of our 3rd Dimension (3D) life is to learn to work with the non-physical energies of the universe.
Now. In your system of reality, you are learning what mental energy is and how to use it. You do this by constantly transforming your thoughts and emotions into physical form. You are supposed to get a clear picture of your inner development by perceiving the exterior environment. What seems to be a perception, an objective concrete event, independent and apart from you, the perceiver, is instead the physical materialization of the perceiver’s own inner emotions, energy, and mental environment. —Seth/Jane Roberts, The Early Sessions, Book 9, session 469 on March 19, 1969
[1.4] To Remember that We are Not our Thoughts, Emotions, Body, and Actions
We are our consciousness, Soul, or Higher Self, creating our world with these aspects (or “tools”) that the universe has given us. Knowing this is Liberation and Freedom from the limitations that we associate with the 3D physical world aspects of us. This purpose relates to [1.2] and [3.1]. We sometimes see it as transcending (or killing) the ego.
[1.5] To Remember that We are God/Source/All-That-Is/The Absolute
which we forgot just so we can have this amazing remembering (awakening) experience. It is all a divine plan by Source to experience itself inside and out. Some say that when we remember we are Source, we are fulfilling our Soul’s desires for our life (see also [1.1]), and we are finally understanding the “cosmic joke”. The saying that “love wanted to experience itself” relates to this, as well as to [3.2] below.
A slightly different take on this is to become “God” in the 3rd Dimension. This means our purpose is to be a vehicle for our Soul to be manifested as God/Source in physical form. Some say God/Source wants to “enjoy” 3D reality and our purpose is to do that (like [2.1] & [2.2], below). Others say that, as an aspect of God/Source, we are here to be creators also — to create the universe that we (our Soul) desires.
Your human purpose is to live as your soul in this human reality. Your purpose is to live aware of yourself as this eternal light of God. Your purpose is to awaken. To know yourself as the light. Your purpose is to become enlightened, to feel yourself as the bliss, and to know everything as God, everything as one. — Lincoln Gergar, Channel for Higher Self (quote from the Higher Self Inner Circle)
[1.6] To Transcend the Duality of Thoughts & Forms to Reach Oneness with Our True Reality
This means coming into union with “God”, Source, or the Quantum/Unified Field of all existence. We often refer to that as ‘God Consciousness’. It is the goal of non-dual philosophies, such as the Advaita Vedanta school of Hinduism. It is like [1.5], but with more of a focus on consciousness. It is also a foundation for [2.5], [2.6], [3.2], and [4.3], and probably more below.
Never forget that the universe is a single living organism possessed of one substance and one soul, holding all things suspended in a single consciousness and creating all things with a single purpose that they may work together spinning and weaving and knotting whatever comes to pass. — Marcus Aurilieus (121–180 CE)
[1.7] To Escape the Matrix
Some believe that we have no “free will” and that everything in life is pre-determined either by God/Source or by higher intelligence extraterrestrial beings. For some, the lack of free will only applies to the 3rd Dimension. Escaping the limits of 3D frees us from The Matrix and gives us free will. In that case, all the purposes listed above, [1.2] to [1.6], would do that. Others, however, see no possibility of expressing free will in any of the spiritual dimensions. This purpose may relate to [4.1] below.
For my view of free will, see:
[2] Type 2 — CELEBRATING LIFE (the Ultimate Playground)
This second group of life purposes focuses on our relationships with other people, our environment (social and physical), and our World. Our 3D world is the “ultimate playground” for creating and experiencing being.
[2.1] To Be Happy, to Laugh, to Love Unconditionally, & to Have Fun
as expressed through our physical body (forms of movement), our emotions (reaching higher vibrations), and our mind (through intellectual stimulation) as we interact with others on the 3rd Dimensional planet that we incarnated on.
You created the Earth you are currently experiencing. You will create the next reality if/when you leave this Earth. To ascend to another dimension, you need to be fully aligned, fully connected, and fully “happy” with your current dimension. Otherwise, you will not be welcomed in the next dimension. That is why we are on a spiritual path — to reach that alignment. — (I posted this in a Facebook group discussion about wanting to leave this problematic planet we are on.)
[2.2] To Experience & Celebrate the Universe, Creation, & Our Life
including both the good and the bad. We can think of this as:
- Seeing and experiencing the world exactly as it is, and
- Using the unique skills this incarnation has given us.
When we accept everything as it is, and when we follow our uniqueness, we are living in the flow of existence. We are pursuing our life passions (with integrity and discernment), and we have the full support of nature and Source in everything we do. (That is closely related to dharma in section [6.5].)
This is the idea behind the philosophies of ‘Be Here Now’ and to know and live the ‘Tao’ and the ‘I Am Presence’.
“Always want what is happening now and you will always have everything you want.” — anonymous
An expanded version of this is to seek and experience everything that our universe has to offer. According to Matias De Stefano, for beings in the Sirius star system, the purpose of life is “to experience every time and space reality in the universe and to bring them all into oneself”. (I discuss this view more in section [7] below.)
Seth/Jane Roberts says that the purpose of life is to express all the physical and mental capabilities that we brought into our present incarnation. This is being our true self to the fullest extent possible.
“In physical reality, if you will forgive me, life is the name of the game — and the game is based upon value fulfillment. That means simply that each form of life seeks toward the fulfillment and unfolding of all of the capacities that it senses within its living framework, knowing that in that individual fulfillment each other species of life is also benefited… Life is sacred — all life — and again, all life seeks value fulfillment, not simply physical survival.” — Seth/Jane Roberts, Dreams, Evolution and Value Fulfillment, Volume 2, session 910 on April 23, 1980
Also related to this:
[2.3] To Realize our Inseparable Connection & Oneness with our Physical Reality
our Human Life, Mother Earth/Gaia, and our Physical Universe. This is often called ‘Unity Consciousness’. We are physical beings as much as we are spiritual ones, and what we do to our physical environment, we do to us. (Related to [1.6] and [2.2], and also to ‘Deep Ecology’.) Related to this:
[2.4] To Deeply Experience and Suffer Duality, Separation, & Diversity
because Earth is an especially good place to do that, compared to higher dimensions of reality [1.7]. That deep experience of separation is a catalyst for growth, which then moves into even higher states of happiness [2.1] and oneness [2.2]. See, for example:
[2.5] To Integrate Our Physical Self with Our Spiritual Self
To be both a physical being and a spiritual being. Maharishi Mahesh Yogi liked to call this living 200% of life. I see it in my yoga asana practices (at my local yoga studio), and as the goal of karma yoga (the yoga of action and right livelihood). (See section [6.3] for more on karma.) Spiritual teachings can be overwhelmingly mental. Bringing them back to earth can be as difficult as the mental challenges.
[2.6] To Know the All Beings are Always Performing at their Highest Capability
at each moment in time. We can approach this purpose and [2.5] from an intellectual understanding. But to know this fully requires a degree of “Unity Consciousness”. When we realize the oneness of all creation, then we cannot but see the perfection of ourself and everything else. That is not an intellectual, ego-based realization, but a deeper knowing within us. That knowing seems to come more naturally to some people than others. This purpose is also related to the purposes in section [1] above and to [3.2] below.
[2.7] To Just Be.
There is no other purpose than to just live and exist. Also included in this is “It is Impossible to Know Our Purpose” because the result is the same. Related to [2.6], we can also tweak this idea a little “To Just Be” the Best Version of Yourself That You Can. We do what you do, with no purpose. The universe will define our purpose — it is not our job to do so. That leads directly into the next group of life purposes.
“The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves.” — Alan Watts
and
“Always want what is happening now, then you will always have whatever you want.” — anon.
⬇ Elan is an Essessani ET channeled by Andrew Bayuk in the early 1990s. In this 17min recording (on YouTube) he discusses his society’s view on the purpose of existence, which is so Source/God/The Absolute can have the joy of experiencing something “for the very first time”.







