This is Why Highly Awakened People Struggle to Find Love

If you’re a lone wolf, you will attract no one

The High and Mighty Feeling

When you wake up, there’s often a sense of pride that comes on you. You’ve managed to escape the matrix and the others are unware of what's happening.

When you have this mentality that everybody is asleep in the matrix but you woke up and you walk around feeling all high and mighty, you’re passing judgment, and that will stop and block you from attracting anybody.

This superior mentality is a box highly awakened people place themselves in without even knowing. I know it because it happened to me.

An awakening completely changes the trajectory of your life. One day you're heading in one direction and the next you have turned completely around, going a new way. You're learning new and exciting things that are helping you grow and evolve and you know without a doubt it can help others grow too, only to share it with them for them to reject it and tell you to stop with the craziness.

That’s very discouraging.

This leads to many awakened people creating an identity for themselves. They feel like they've changed and now people don't get them. No matter what they do, they can’t fit in and they start to feel like an outsider.

This really hurts the spiritual ego.

The ego then tells you to not worry about them. It says, “Forget them. They’re asleep in the matrix and unaware of what’s going on.”

Then you listen and start to feel all high and mighty.

You feel superior and so you leave people alone to go be alone. And that begins the lone wolf journey where you think you don’t need anyone.

If you’re a lone wolf, there’s nothing wrong with it, actually it’s very cool, but according to the laws of the universe, you get a reflection of your own energy. In other words, you attract what you are.

So if you’re a lone wolf, you will attract… no one.

The Silly Labels and Concepts

Another thing that will block you from attracting love is certain labels and concepts like twin flames and soul mates.

You see someone you're insanely drawn to and you go, “Omg, this is the other half of my soul. My soul was completely cut in half and I recognize them. They are my other half and I desperately need them to be with me so I can feel whole, complete, and happy again.”

Think about how disempowering that is.

The moment you get yourself in this energy, that relationship will never, ever work out because of your desperation. You ruin everything before it has gotten a chance to be something.

This person you're going crazy over will see or feel how much you’re lacking. You’ve placed them on a pedestal, which implies that they are higher and above you, so it gives them no choice but to look down on you.

These twin flame ideas will block you from ever finding love.

That’s because you fix your gaze on a person who has shown you over and over again that they don’t want you and constantly turn their backs on you. Instead of letting them go, you hold on tight and chase after them, trying to force something that was never even meant to be.

Love becomes a thing you’re trying to force and control, and it ends up doing more harm than good.

I hate to tell you this, but your twin flame is not the person meant for you. They’re just someone you want so badly who doesn’t want you back. It’s someone who will never see your value. It’s someone who doesn’t love you back but always seems to return, not because they finally see your worth, because you're always available when they're bored or lonely.

If a person won’t make up their mind to be in a relationship with you after years of trying to make them see your value, then that’s your answer right there.

Forget them.

They don’t want you as much as you thought they did.

The truth hurts, but it frees you. Cut your losses and walk away with the little respect you have left. You were doing okay before them. You’ll be okay.

The Solution is You

If you want to attract new people into your life, you have to let go of your superiority complex. This superiority complex will make it very hard to attract friends or your soul family or love into your life. Stop thinking you’re so much better than everyone because you're awake. Remain humble. Don’t judge other people’s processes. Trust the universe to help everybody when the time is right.

If you really want to find love, stop labeling relationships when they come in. A person is not your twin flame or soulmate until you are in a harmonious relationship. If a person keeps running away from you, you have to have some love and respect for yourself to stop running and chasing after them like a beggar.

You’re no beggar!

Stop giving your power away in this way. If it’s so hard to do, you can learn something from plants.

A tree doesn’t uproot itself to go looking for birds to come and build nests in its branches. The flower doesn’t get up and go looking for birds to come and taste its nectar.

The tree just focuses on itself. It focuses on growing to become green and vibrant and the birds just come. The value in is the tree.

The flower already knows its beauty. It knows what it’s value. It has what the birds need, so it focuses on growing, blooming, and being beautiful and the birds just come.

Become like the tree.

Or the flower.

Focus on yourself and on your growth. Instead of focusing on attracting love or getting your twin flame back, take your mind off of love and bring your awareness on the inside.

Making it more about you by being in your own frame and not needing anything outside of yourself to feel whole and complete. You are already whole and complete and can be happy all by yourself.

Let go of the silly labels and ideas. Your soul was never cut in half.

If a person is running from you, let them run and you stay where you are. Let them go and don’t let them in until they are ready to commit to you.

The person who commits and marries you is your twin flame or soul mate, not the one who constantly rejects and runs away from you as if you’re unworthy of their love.

Forget about who’s going to come into your life and follow your passions. As a natural reflection, you will attract people who will come into your life and resonate with you a hundred percent. If you love what you do, you will attract those who also love what you do.

You attract people that are an equal reflection of your energy.

When you get into your own energy and in your own frame, it completely changes your energy field so you can attract love, friends, and your soul family easily.

The key to this is to heal yourself. It's to cultivate a love for yourself and accept where you currently are.

Let go of needing love from outside of you by knowing that it isn't even outside. It's within you, so take it from within you and give it to yourself.

You deserve this sweet love you keep trying to give to others.

Note: This article is only meant to provide spiritual guidance and lighthearted content.

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