Law of Attraction

3 Ways to Attract a Specific Person Into Your Life

#3. Forget them to get them

1. Bring Something to the Table

Oh, love.

When you really want someone, you want nothing more than to become a part of their life. You want to play a role in their movie and this movie isn’t always romance. Sometimes it’s horror other times it’s a thriller, but it doesn’t matter as long as you appear in it.

You place them on a pedestal and you do everything you can to get them to know you’re watching their every move in their movie in hopes that it gets you into their reality.

But here’s what happens: When you do this, you tell them you don’t have your own movies to star in. You say to them you aren't a star and how can you attract a star if you aren't a star? If you don't have your own movie, then what are they going to watch when they come into your life?

You must bring something to the table.

You must become the thing you want to attract. If the person you want to attract is super fun, you must become super fun. If they are super nice or super happy, you must be super nice or super happy. If the person you want to attract is an introvert, it makes sense to learn the way of the introvert or you’ll run them off.

You must embody what it is you want to attract.

If you want to attract the star of your favorite movie, you must have a few movies of your own and you must be the star. When you star in your own movie, you must be authentic playing your role. When you live in the authentic expression of who you are and act in that energy state, there’s something very magnetic and attractive about it.

A star will then naturally attract the star.

If you can envision it clearly in your mind; if you can visualize it vividly with your third eye, and if you can physically anticipate it day after day, there’s nothing that can stop those thoughts from becoming things.

2. Be in The Right Energy State

If you’re authentic and you start to become the best version of yourself knowing you are already whole and complete, there’s more likelihood that from that energy state you’ll attract others who resonate with you.

You must condition yourself to become what you prefer to attract. Use the last 20 minutes before you drift off to sleep to do this. It is the most powerful time to condition your subconscious mind.

If you learn to feel the feeling of what it'd be like to be with the person, what it'd be like to look into their eyes, and what it'd be like to hold them in your arms, you begin to condition it into a part of who you are.

You must be able to envision, imagine, and anticipate it.

If you can see it clearly in your mind; if you can visualize it vividly with your third eye, and if you can physically anticipate it day after day, there's nothing that can stop those thoughts from becoming things.

It’ll feel good when you start to visualize and feel those feelings. Then what you’ll do next is start to self-generate those same thoughts and feelings. You'll learn that you don’t technically need that person in your presence to feel those good feelings. You’ll realize that even though you thought you needed somebody else outside of you to make you feel that way, you can actually do it yourself.

When you’re able to self-generate these feelings for yourself, that person you want to attract will feel it and they will gravitate towards you.

If you’re authentic and you become the best version of yourself, knowing that you are already whole and complete, there’s more likelihood that from that energy state you’ll attract those who resonate with you.

3. Forget Them to Get Them

I know this is not what you want to hear. This is hard for all of us, but it’s true. Want something too much and you push it away. If you really want someone, you must completely let them go. Release them. Let them fly away. Give them the freedom and the space to go do their thing.

Allow them to miss you and let them think of you randomly. It’s more special when they reach out first.

You must leave them alone and go about living and enjoying your life. When you let them go and you're not too focused on how the union is going to happen, you release the resistance. You release the resistance and you let them come to you.

The moment you let it go is the moment it comes to you.

I’ve seen this many times when people let go of the person they want so much and start going out with their friends and having fun and all of a sudden that person reaches out. It’s almost as if subconsciously they can feel if you’re dependent on their energy and when you withdraw, they can feel that too.

That's the energy state you have to be in to have the most probability of attracting that person into your life.

The moment you let it go is the moment it comes to you.

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