Energetically

Want Something Too Much and You Push It Away

The universe sometimes takes too long

When You Want Something Now

I like a man. Like really, really like him.

I want to be with him so badly, so I sent my request to the universe. The universe asked if I was sure, and I said yes. The universe said it would go to work right away.

I started getting signs that my order was being processed.

There were dreams of him. There were the times I would think of him and he’d text me. I’d see 11:11 on my laptop while he crossed my mind.

I knew we would be together, but the order was taking too long!

I wanted what I wanted, and I wanted it now. But he and I are in two different spaces spiritually. I’ve been through traumatic experiences and I’ve healed most of them. He’s been through traumatic experiences and is in the process of healing them.

I truly respect that, but I hate waiting!

Force creates resistance. Life is all about letting things flow naturally.

Wait. Don’t Create Resistance

As a student of the universe, I know that to attract the things I desire, I must make it natural and let it flow to me without forcing it.

The people that are abundant and have everything they want don't try too hard. They don't try to be abundant, they just are. They make it natural and abundance naturally and effortlessly come to them.

Magnetic people don't try to be magnetic. They don't force being magnetic. They just are. It comes naturally to them.

When I told the universe what I wanted, I knew I must relax and let the universe process my order. But humans are impatient!

I’m human.

I knew I mustn’t worry about how I will be with this man and when. The signs said it was possible. Every time I woke up stressed about it and started going crazy and freaking out about the fact that I'm not with him yet, I placed him on a pedestal.

If something is on a pedestal, it would be so great if it happened soon enough, but vibrationally, that not natural. The people we place on a pedestal are the hardest to reach.

Pedestals create a distance between the person up there and the person down there.

The people that are abundant and have everything they want don’t try too hard. They don’t try to be abundant, they just are.

You Get Extra When You Wait

When it comes to vibrational resonance, it’s all about alignment and the awareness of the energy dynamics at play.

Insisting on outcomes infuses resistance into the equation, and resistance leads to blockages and delays.

Want something too much and you push it away energetically. The best thing to do when you want something too much is to chill out.

When you go into a restaurant and you place your order, you relax knowing your order is coming. You don’t go crazy waiting for your food to come. You sit back and you sip on your water while you wait.

Yes, sometimes the food takes too long. Sometimes the order gets mixed up and that sucks! But what typically happens when the food is too late? The waitress comes and says they will give you something else in addition to your order and it’s on the house. They give you extra.

That’s what happens when you place your order with the universe. Sometimes it arrives quickly but other times it’s late but you always get extra.

You get extra love, extra care, and extra joy. When it takes forever, you get forever. You get happily ever after.

I woke up from the autopilot mind that says if it’s not here then it’s not coming. If it’s not here, it’s just late.

Make It Natural and It’ll Come

The key to being patient and making it natural is first off the awareness that your old way of attracting love and abundance is outdated.

If I don’t have what I asked for, then that means something is wrong. I won’t get it. It’s not coming, and then I start to freak out.

I woke up from the autopilot mind that says if it’s not here then it’s not coming.

If it’s not here, it’s just late.

Maybe the car broke down. Maybe there’s trauma on the highway causing traffic. It may take a while for the trauma to clear and they’ll be on their way to you.

Late doesn’t equal never.

I made a new choice about “who I am” and that changed everything. I don’t chase. I sit back and wait. The people and things I really, really want flows to me effortlessly when it’s ready to be served to me.

That’s the key to making it natural when you want to attract love and abundance.