Self-acceptance
You Don’t Fit in Because You’re Here to Stand Out
You are here for a bigger purpose
Nobody is wrong for wanting to fit in. As humans, we are wired for connection, so it’s okay to want to fit in. Everybody wants to feel like they belong. It's normal to want to feel seen, accepted, and loved by others.
It sucks feeling like you don't fit in when you really want to and feeling like an outsider is painful, but you don’t fit in because you are not supposed to.
Fitting in was never the plan for your life. You weren’t born to fit in and get lost in the crowd. You were born to stand out and stand tall.
Imagine this: Society is stuck in a big box blindly following strict rules with no inclination to change and evolve. Being in the box is all society is used to and known, and not everyone will want to get out. Others may want to get out but won’t know how to.
The universe moves you outside the box, and that's right where you are supposed to be.
You are here to help some people get out of the box. You are here to influence and free those who want out, and that’s why you were placed outside of the box — to break free and help others break free from strict societal rules, beliefs, and norms.
You are here to change minds and hearts on an energetic level and to uplift spirits and empower souls.
Being the only one outside of the box can feel lonely. I know this because, for most of my life, I’ve felt different. I struggled to fit in. I always felt like I didn’t belong here.
I still feel like that, but it doesn’t hurt or bother me anymore because I know why I don’t fit in. By standing outside of the box, I could focus on my life’s purpose and do what I came here to do.
Not fitting in only hurts when you don’t know who you are and why you are here.
It hurts when you feel disconnected from the whole. You can be different and still feel a connection to the universe and everything in it, and in that case, you’re never really alone.
If you don’t understand why you don't fit in, you can’t accept and love yourself. And if you can’t love yourself, you give your power away. If you give away your power, you feel disempowered. Then life becomes unnecessarily hard.
To be okay not fitting in, we must know ourselves on a deeper level. If not, we will spend our days trying to be like everyone else.
You must accept yourself for who you are. You don't fit in and that should be okay.
You don’t fit in because you are here for a bigger purpose. You are here to make a difference by being you.
Once you reach this level of self-acceptance, you will stop trying to win the hearts of men and you will love all of who you are. The more you love who you are, the less you care about what anybody thinks.
The moment you stop caring how those stuck in the box see you and you stop trying to go back in, something amazing happens. You attract your tribe. You attract those who get and understand you.
You attract those who are just like you, and then you team up to change the minds and hearts of those in the box. Some people in the box will break free and come and stand with you, and then you won’t stand alone anymore.
That's the big purpose. That's why you won't fit in because fitting in was never the plan for your life.
The moment you get this, everything shifts.