avatarJ & J (Jessica & Joshua J. Lyon, BSQP, ACNP)

Summary

The article discusses the perceived failure of women to discern genuine traits in men, leading to relationships with undesirable partners, and emphasizes the importance of proper male development and understanding of male psychology.

Abstract

The author of the article expresses concern over the prevalence of single motherhood, attributing it to women's poor judgment in selecting partners. The text suggests that women often fall for men who are deceitful and ultimately abandon their familial responsibilities. It criticizes the trend of women emulating men instead of embracing their unique qualities and calls for a reevaluation of how men are developed in society. The author also touches on the impact of societal trends on gender roles and the importance of recognizing and respecting natural differences between men and women. The article advocates for a return to traditional masculine and feminine roles, arguing that this will lead to healthier relationships and a more balanced society.

Opinions

  • The author believes that women are responsible for allowing deceitful men into their lives and must acknowledge their mistakes rather than blaming men.
  • There is a critique of the societal trend of feminizing boys and masculinizing single mothers, suggesting that these practices misrepresent gender roles.
  • The article posits that men and women have distinct, biologically determined roles and that deviating from these roles can lead to personal and societal issues.
  • The author argues that women's attempts to embody male characteristics or to lead without acknowledging gender differences are misguided and ultimately detrimental.
  • The text suggests that women are influenced by men in various ways, including the use of derogatory terms and career choices, and that this influence can distort women's understanding of their own nature and autonomy.
  • The author claims that only a specific type of man, as described in their writings, is suitable for marriage and long-term relationships.
  • There is a call for women to stop misinterpreting and misquoting men, and to engage with the author's words with humility and maturity, giving proper credit when quoting.

The Top 6 Traits Women Look for in Men

Read on for the plot twist

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If women DO, not fail at, looking for man-traits in men, then why is there an epidemic of single mothers who’ve married/slept with pathetic, lying, lazy, deadbeats stealing us good men’s women?

Just for him to dump the woman after they got what they wanted and the women thinking the men actually were “fathers”. They were never fathers, shall we move on with our lives?

Fathers, just like men, don’t quit or have to lie just to sleep with someone.

That fact, women, letting fakers in your life falls on your shoulders — even though you were lied to and duped. You fell for the slick tongue male-reject. All women can do now is own it. We (the male pool) already know it.

You responded to the man that would one day lie to you no more, but show you his real side. And you will one day take the microphone and “teach” as many women as you can a “better way” by just venting and thinking you know male psychology all-of-a-sudden now. It’s magic!

Please, go on. I’d love to hear you teach women what to look out for.

… And still not locating me over here.

Now it’s my turn.

Provided by yours truly

The 3rd article above is just part 1 (I think there will be 4 parts) and in it I explain the only men you can ever marry if you want a life. There is no man outside of what I say here that will last.

Just look around you. We came to a 50–60% divorce rate in America due to the failure of male development and the failure of women to see it.

Let’s not allow America’s daughters to follow the trend.

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And you can start by stop feminizing your boys and stop masculinizing your single mothers — they (women) do not represent us (men). Never will. No matter how many women you try to “accept their choice” in how they want to live. The development of men has nothing to do with you, men still need to be developed regardless. Live how you want — but men still need to be developed.

  • Men created the term bitc* and women use it to “empower” themselves or to tear down other women — I thought you did not follow men?
  • Men died in war by biological nature/anatomy and women followed just because
  • Men went into mundane sciences just for $$$ and because they were good at it and now women are forcing other women to “fill the gap”
  • Some women, not most, are hating the 85–90% nursing field that emotionally stable women are jumping right into in high numbers — that is called Statistical Significance. We can fight all we want, women are still going to go their own way — nursing, education, and mental health due to their biological nature/autonomy
  • Women are teaching women to quit on themselves and “truly” find themselves by making male choices just because men make them — resulting in degrading the value of the world’s most wonderful creation — women
  • Women quote men and they don’t even know it. I’ve had multiple women quote me (to me in a conversation) and could not tell me where they heard it — that is called female psychology. (side note, I never told them they got that from me, verbatim; I just gave them the credit — but, their reality is technically inaccurate). What has men told you that you forgot?
  • Men abuse women and women carry it with them forever and men move on to screw up another woman that could have had a good man
  • Men abuse women and women defend him

If you want to be leaders, stop following men and don’t “own” (more accurately “try to own”) my masculinity and pretend you’re being “your own person”. You can’t pretend to be someone and claim it’s yours — that’s women in marriage. We men are not stupid, we see right through that and just feel bad for you. Why are you being us? We will never be you, we know we don’t compare to and cannot duplicate your womanhood. We are equal in natural differences, not equal by forcing no differences like robots.

Are you letting women who fail by listening to imbalanced women? Are the 3% of women who have a chemical imbalance in the brain and gear more masculine, and who attempt to defy their neurons being the leaders? That is a great strategy. Follow the dead.

That’s like a football team following a meerkat. It sees the ball flying to it and quickly digs a hole. The rest of the football team catches the ball (as women dress attractive with feminine products, when the one digs a hole into the dirt and makes dirt angels) and she yells at the other women, “Stop letting your natural tendencies be influenced by a social construct — I mean, what you think your natural tendencies are, are actually social constructs! If you are a woman you will make dirt angels with me!” The rest of the world peers on, “STFU”.

You will only fail more. Don’t add to my words, I don’t need your help, we’re not married. Just share my direct words. And for the love of God, don’t misinterpret what I say like someone who wants me to be incorrect just because; ask before you assume. You can’t be a male engineer by being an idiot, don’t make your gender look stupid. Humility goes a long way.

And yes, you can quote any of my stories, just credit me like you have some maturity. If I wanted to not be quoted, I would not be writing on Medium.

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