A Quick Note About How God Sees Fathers & Mothers

This may be unpopular… at least in America

A Quick Note About How God Sees Fathers & Mothers

The image above explains what God sees. Fatherhood and motherhood fall under just 1 item — the brain of a child. How many of you have seen a kid, heard a kid, or heard of a kid calling someone their single parent had been talking to “mom” or “dad”? Or asking if said person was staying? Did the kid hug them (a childhood sign of psychosocial trust & acceptance)? All the younger kids I’ve met slipped up and called me “dad” at least once. They knew I was there to talk with their mother. Even the brain of a child can subconsciously discern that common sense.

All of this is simple. The child knows they need to have a family. Even a child who does not have reasoning subconsciously longs for God’s design — because God is the only authority on what marriage and family is.

Which is why I have my stance.

The parents are the ones in the home, building the children. Everyone else is a babysitter or a homewrecker. I will teach nothing else to kids. Children are often scolded by their mothers if their child “slips” up and says “dad”, saying “you have a dad!”:

• which does a few things. One, it tells the guy that she’s seeing, in her eyes he will always be less than what God has made him to be in marriage. Two, her old marital covenant will always supersede yours, which is not marriage. Spiritual fatherhood is the only fatherhood. Anyone can be a biological donor. The Bible is ruthless; it doesn’t care if there has been a mistake sexually, a father is a man who walks in spiritual victory. Anything less than that, you are just setting your children up for failure. If you are divorced, you need to let God sever that emotion with your ex-husband — that doesn’t need to be there anymore. If you need someone prophetic to tell you that — okay — you don’t need that and your current man actually hates it, he’s just too nice to tell you. Although a man could be a biological father, more times than not he’s only hanging around because of her (psychologically known as oxytocin). Or he is a biblical father and will always fight for his children — which statistically is not the case.
• I say mothers and not fathers, because men usually have the same idea if their children accidently calls the woman “mom”. Men actually hope their kid does, to help put a ring on that woman’s finger.

The heart of the child is crying. They want natural and organic femininity and masculinity. Children want parents. They slip up and call other people “mom” or “dad” because they know that a father or mother should be in that position.

They are not confused, you are.

Just as nature will watch you and your child, just as the world did of that security footage of a mother repeatedly beating her baby in the car, nature will watch you and your child pass away without a care in the world. I need you to understand this, there is not one piece of sand in this world that cares about you. Every day people die before their time. Nothing will help you. Nothing cares about your feelings. A spiritual man with a heart of a lion is going to say just this: “I am the father or I recommend you marry your abusive ex again. This is nonnegotiable for me or my Father, God. It’s up to you on if you want a covenant or a business partnership. If you are truly divorced, then read the next paragraph.”

God does not see you and him as anything at all anymore. Hence, God separating you from them. Adultery is when you are married and you share oxytocin with someone else. If you are not married, there is nothing there. Are you saying that you are fine with committing adultery? Divorced is a spiritual PRINCIPLE, not a human document. Just as marriage is a union of mind, body, and spirit, divorce is the alleviation of all 3. The spiritual man concludes with this: “I am the only father of your children. Any other man that approaches what God has spiritually put under me will come in contact with the territorial lion.” That is, of course, he is not passive. God doesn’t like passive and never has.

God enjoys and loves some ownership. You can’t have ownership if someone else also has co-ownership or partial ownership or custody. That is a human construct based on feelings and in a passive heart to bypass a confrontation. Also known as cowardly. Which makes a lot of sense about Christians in 2020…

Take it or leave it. I’m good with whatever decision you make for your child. Time will tell if you made the right one.

A spiritual man says: “I do not co-father. GOD DOES NOT SEE YOU AND YOUR EX AS ANYTHING. I only say “ex” because I need a word to associate that stranger with you. And God is God and He’s not hiring. You and your ex are severed. Your kid is severed, too — from you or them. If your ex fights a legal battle out of despite, I don’t care — because I am 100% sure they will drop it when they only correspond with me (because you and I are married and they are nothing). Or, marry them, again! It’s really not brain surgery. Marriage is mind, body, spirit and over my dead body will I be good with a man who’s 'had’ you, corresponding with you. That makes me want to vomit. Read this"

“For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace” 1 Corinthians 14:33

So, stop harboring confusion. Parents are the ones who live in the home, are married (joined together), and teach truth. This is not my definition, this is God’s.

I understand that you tried to keep the family “together”, but technically was already divided and not together in the first place, for whatever reason, (whether from your Hallmark dream or you have not gained humility in admitting defeat of your ability to find a good person), but once it’s over, let the winter come. Winter will freeze everything and the spring will come soon enough — Joy comes in the morning. Stop holding on to the falling leaves of last season. Cry your cry, pray your last, and as Matthew 10:14 and Mark 6:11 speaks about your attempts to give God’s Word to hard hearts, “wipe the dust from your sandals as you leave”.

You are married to only one. And that is the father/mother of the child or children.

To understand more about why I and no other man, if they’re honest with you, don’t want to hear sh*t about your ex for any reason known to mankind (1. you say you want marriage, but you keep bringing up what has nothing to do with you anymore. 2. I want to move forward in marriage, too. You are forgiven, forgive yourself and move on):

To understand more about what I think about your ex:

My lovely take of love:

One of my personal favorite pieces: