How to Need Nothing So You Get Everything You Want

That is just how the universe works

You are naturally in opposition to anything you have a strong need for. Anything you really need, you’ll be in resistance to it. That strong need separates you from the thing. You repel it with your own energy. When you want it so badly, so much so that you need it to feel okay, you’re in an energy of desperation that drives the thing you want further away from you.

When you have a deep fear of not having something, you push it further and further away. When you want it too much, you push it away from you. It’s a rather unsettling thing to consider and quite unfortunate that it’s that way but that’s just how the universe works. It’s a law. The law of vibration. But the good thing is that the opposite is also true.

It’s easy to get the things you don’t need. The things we don’t care for seem to gravitate to us with a certain ease. It flows effortlessly with no resistance. You are provided with everything you need when you need nothing at all and it’s crazy how that works. It’s due to the vibrational nature of the universe.

We attract things we are a vibrational match to. When you feel lack, you attract more lack. When you have all you need and you feel abundance, you attract an abundance of everything. This is the reason why those who have are given more and those who lack continue to struggle and suffer.

Desire will always cause suffering and so will attachment. When we desire something, we need it so badly and so we become attached to it, and the attachment is what causes suffering and not really the desire itself.

When you want it but you don’t need it, you’re not attached and so you don’t care whether you get it or not. When you don’t care, there’s no suffering.

This isn’t to say there’s something wrong with having desires. There is nothing wrong with having a desire. You can want something but not need it. You can want something and not be attached to the outcome. You can want a man or woman but not need him or her. This typically happens when you already have everything you need and so there’s no strong need.

We tend to struggle in those areas where we have a strong need. When you do the spiritual work, you will find that you have a strong need for something that was not given to you as a child. Whenever a person needs love so badly, it only means they did not receive it as a child and so there is a lack. It’s only natural for such a person to deeply crave love because there is a strong need there. The subconscious mind will try to fill up that need through external means but when you are relying on the external world to give you what you need, then you are in for a rude awakening.

The universe doesn’t give you everything you need. It gives you everything you are or more of what you already have.

The person who has it will attract more of it. The one who has a strong need for it will struggle to get it. It’s why a single person may struggle to find a partner, but the moment they find a partner, then everybody seems to want them. It’s only because they have it and so they are now a vibrational match.

A person will struggle in the area of their life where they have a strong need if they do not learn to give that thing to themselves. Until a person learns to love themselves, they will struggle to find love.

As spiritual people, we must strive to avoid getting attached to anything in this world. If you are going to attach yourself to something in this world, it should be a cause, a mission, or a calling, because these are not physical things that can be taken from you. Anything that is of this world can easily be taken away or that thing can energetically move away from you. But when you are unattached, you do not care and so there’s no suffering.

This is why spirituality and spiritual awakenings often take you from the external into the internal, so you can see what you need and how you can provide it for yourself. That way, you won’t need it and so getting it will be easier. It is for this reason that solitude, isolation, and a void stage where nothing seems to happen are crucial parts of the awakening process. It helps you learn how to give yourself the things you need.

When you do not need love from the outside because you have love to give to yourself but you believe that love is the greatest of them all and you wish to experience it with another person, then it actually becomes possible to find it. It becomes much easier.

It is just how the universe works and why it’s so hard for many of us to attract what we are looking for. Knowing this, it becomes a choice to give yourself the things you wish the world would give you. That way, you won’t need anything from the world. And when you get to the point where you need nothing, that’s when everything comes to you.

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