This is Why You’re Alone No Matter How Badly You Don't Want to
You're being prepared for something
I. To Enjoy Your Self
Being alone when you’d rather not be is no fun, but look around and you’ll see it’s a common theme among many spiritually awakened people.
You may have been a person with the entire world around you, but now, after your awakening, there’s no one there. This can be very difficult, but it's not without purpose.
Being alone forces you to learn to enjoy your own company and work on yourself.
There are many beliefs and ideas that shape your reality.
After living in the matrix and forgetting who you are, you’re forced to be alone so can relearn all about who you are. When you’re all alone and there’s no one to distract you from yourself, you go over all the things you’ve been told and taught and ask yourself if it’s actually true.
When you’re with others, they may force their thoughts, truths, and opinions on you and get you to go against your own truths. Someone’s truth may pull you in ways that may not feel right or authentic to you. Being alone teaches you to stand in your own truth.
It teaches you to be independent.
When you have no one there other than you, you have no choice but to rely on yourself. You learn to do things for yourself.
It’s not natural for man to be alone, but the universe isolates you so you can work on yourself and learn to enjoy your own company. You were created for companionship, but you get to truly enjoy the company of others when you can truly enjoy your own.
It may not feel like it, but being alone is preparing you for better, long-lasting relationships.
II. To Truly Enjoy Others
After you’ve been alone for so long, there will be a shift within you. Being alone for a while really changes you. It also changes how you relate to other people.
When you’re always with people, you may not really appreciate them, but when you’ve been alone for a while, it’s not something you take for granted when it arrives.
You value your relationships more after being alone and so you have more harmonious relationships.
In order to truly enjoy being with others, you have to understand them. You can’t understand another person if you don’t understand yourself.
If you learn to take care of yourself whilst you're alone, you can better take care of others. If you love yourself, you can love others better. That’s when you can truly enjoy your relationships.
When you can truly yourself and your relationships, it deepens your relationship with the divine in unimaginable ways.
III. To Grow Close to God
You awaken because you have a mission to complete. When you’re alone after awakening and have no one to help you do things, you reach out to God. You reach out to your helpers and guides in the spirit realm when you have no help in the physical.
Being alone deepens your relationship and your connection to God.
You can connect to those in the spirit realm much easier because you don’t have noise and people distracting you or telling you how crazy it sounds. When you're alone doing your thing, no one can come and tell you that God is not real or whatever else those who don’t believe say. You can follow your heart and do what you feel called to do.
When you’re alone, you’ll feel called to do things you wouldn’t otherwise do, like praying, meditating, and reading sacred books. Also, you can easily talk to your guides, and you can clearly hear them talk back.
It’s helpful to have a connection with God and divine beings that exist in different dimensions and to be able to receive signs and messages to help you on your journey. These signs aren’t always big and magical, but because you’ve grown a stronger connection to yourself and Spirit, you never miss a sign.
Being alone is no fun, but it is the best thing that will ever happen to you. It can even help you remove blockages in your life and create time and space for you to heal from all sorts of trauma.
IV. To Save Your Family
Trauma is something that can stay with you for a lifetime if you don’t take the time to address and heal it. Sometimes this trauma is ancestral or generational trauma from decades before you. It gets carried down bloodlines and, as the one who awakens in your family, you’re the chosen one.
You came to heal your family’s trauma, and you need to be alone to do that without distractions.
Other times, you may be healing from trauma from this lifetime or a past lifetime and all of it requires you to be alone so you can work through them.
You can’t heal or focus on these things when the people around you aren't at all spiritual and call you crazy for believing in such things.
By being alone, you can take care of your spiritual business in private and in peace.
You could totally do the healing work when you’re in a relationship, but the healing process may take longer. Healing requires you to go deep within, and it’s so much easier to do that when you’re alone. Your soul planned for you to be alone for a little while to get through the healing process faster.
Even though it may sometimes feel like you’ll be alone forever, it won’t.
You didn’t awaken just to end up alone. That would defeat the purpose of working and improving yourself. You work on yourself so you can work to help others.
Fear nothing and trust the process.
When this is all said and done, it will make sense to you why things are unfolding the way they are.
© 2022 Kimberly Fosu. All rights reserved.
Note: This article is only meant to provide spiritual guidance and lighthearted content.
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