Quickie: Don’t Have Time for Sex? Try Scheduling It
When partners can’t find the time, they find the calendar

There’s no doubt about it: People are busier than ever these days and as a result, they don’t necessarily have as much time to do the deed. In fact, according to a survey of 2,000 people conducted by EdenFantasys, 60 percent reported they simply are not having as much sex as they would like.
“Open discussions with your partner and planning are a solution for your long-term sex life staying fresh, exciting, and full of pleasant discoveries.”
Luckily, 52 percent of those surveyed have a remedy for this — scheduling sex.
“As Benjamin Franklin once said, albeit for a different occasion, ‘by failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail,’” said an EdenFantasys spokesperson. “Do not brush off or underestimate a planning part in your sexual activities. Be imaginative and loving, but also thorough and prepared.”
And 30 percent of them are so prepared that they don’t just schedule a day, they schedule their sex date for specifically on Saturday night at 10 o’clock. They also schedule what they’re going to do before they have sex, such as having a romantic dinner at home (45 percent), booking a hotel room (34 percent), and buying lingerie (30 percent).

Why do people go to such lengths to connect with their partner? Study respondents gave specific reasons for scheduling sex:
- Having children in the home (39.97 percent)
- Partner being too busy (36.12 percent)
- Respondent being too busy (32.36 percent)
- Desiring to have more sex (25.21 percent)
- Seeing partner infrequently (16.27 percent)
“Be imaginative and loving, but also thorough and prepared.”
Although these practices do take the spontaneity out of sexual encounters, and may not sound particularly romantic, scheduling sex is actually good for relationships.
“Open discussions with your partner and planning are a solution for your long-term sex life staying fresh, exciting, and full of pleasant discoveries,” the EdenFantasys spokesperson said.
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Source:
A lot of Americans Schedule Sex, Study Finds. Yahoo News. https://news.yahoo.com/lot-americans-schedule-sex-study-175200914.html





