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</div><p id="028a">Children are entitled to basic human rights such as freedom and autonomy.</p><div id="c5b7" class="link-block">
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<h2>Children Are Entitled To Autonomy</h2>
<div><h3>I choose joyful chaos over despondent deference</h3></div>
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</div><p id="e5c1">Expecting unquestioning obedience is downright dangerous to children.</p><div id="45cb" class="link-block">
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<h2>Demanding Unquestioning Obedience is Dangerous</h2>
<div><h3>Those who subvert authority change the world for the better</h3></div>
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</div><p id="827b">Compliance Makes Us Vulnerable</p><div id="a3f0" class="link-block">
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<h2>Compliance Makes Us Vulnerable</h2>
<div><h3>Neurodivergent people are often expected to show unquestioning obedience</h3></div>
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</div><p id="477a">Often what we label as “defiance” is a child lacking skills</p><div id="fe82" class="link-block">
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<h2>Punishments Don’t Teach Skills</h2>
<div><h3>Okay, maybe one: They teach people how to be better at avoiding punishment.</h3></div>
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</div><p id="c931">Or an underlying difficulty, even possibly a disability, that is impacting how a child perceives, processes, and responds to information.</p><div id="9986" class="link-block">
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<h2>“I Can’t Hear You!” (APD)</h2>
<div><h3>Neurodivergence, ADHD, and Auditory Processing Disorder</h3></div>
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</div><p id="4ef9">Okay, so if it isn’t O.D.D., then what do we do about challenging behaviours?</p><div id="0e16" class="link-block">
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<h2>Since O.D.D. Doesn’t Exist…</h2>
<div><h3>Oppositional Defiant Disorder doesn’t exist, but children needing connection do</h3></div>
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<h2>Help with Challenging Behaviours in Children</h2>
<div><h3>Expert advice for supporting our children and working through challenging behaviours.</h3></div>
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</div><p id="5ec9"><i>When you join medium, as a member you’ll have access to unlimited reads for only $5 per month. If you use <a href="https://twoemb.medium.com/membership">my referral link</a>, I’ll earn a small commission, and you’ll earn my undying gratitude.</i></p><figure id="9cae"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*CJSg24mr-ZlpyFoVl4nCig.png"><figcaption></figcaption></figure><h2 id="16c6">Instead of “defiant”, try:</h2><figure id="2d04"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*tFHb36nYx8T29H8VaovIdg.png"><figcaption>Created by author</figcaption></figure><h1 id="b6d7">More Stories</h1><div id="545c" class="link-block">
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<h2>Table of Contents for ADHD 2e MB</h2>
<div><h3>Organized chaos, a.k.a., an easier way to find specific topics</h3></div>
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</div><h2 id="8089">References</h2><p id="ee85">Markham, L. (2012). <i>Peaceful Parenting, Happy Kids: How to stop yelling and start connecting</i>. Penguin Books Ltd.</p></article></body>
