Let Your Values be Your Guide and Other Interesting Stories
The 3X3 — Featured writers from ILLUMINATION
The beauty of being around others more is the serendipitous themes that reveal themselves throughout the week. It’s funny that even though these people are in different places and with different needs the patterns repeat themselves. So many people are facing similar hurdles to becoming better versions of themselves.
One such theme that kept recurring in the people I talked to this week was the improtance of having a core set of values. When you have core values, they serve as the rudder for keeping yourself on course. Likewise, not having these guiding principles leads to a state of confusion, especially when facing challenging dilemmas.
Here is how to create (or revise) your core values list:
- Get a list of values. Brene Brown has an extensive list on her website.
- Circle the values that relate to you
- Cut your list in half (you may have to use a dictionary or thesaurus in this stage to understand the nuanced meaning of the words and phrases)
- Cut your list to around 10 values
- Reduce your list to 4–6 values — These are your core values
- Post them somewhere you can be frequently reminded of them
Once you have completed your list, try using those 4–6 values the next time you need to make a tough decision. They will help you to see the situation with a broader perspective and guide you to a decision more aligned with the person you want to be, making your choice easier.
Selecting this week’s featured writers was not such an easy task. It seems that every week there are more and more quality stories showing up in the To Be Published tab of ILLUMINATION. These writers are a few I’ve been following for a while, and they continue to impress. I hope you like their writing, too.
Julfi likes to challenge conventional wisdom in his stories. Julfi even has a YouTube channel where he presents the ideas from his stories in video format. You can check that out here.
In 9 Concepts That Changed My Why, he writes about his personal journey to achieve a flow state, which is a super-high level of productivity.
Is Your Current Struggle Worth It? Is an exercise in reassessing the tasks, projects, and goals you are working on and their overall value to your life.
Nobody Fights For Good. Nor Evil considers if we are creating ourselves as angels or demons by the way we live our lives and what we value.
Julfi even has a YouTube channel where he presents the ideas from his stories in video format. You can check that out here.
Jules is a copywriter based in London that writes illustrative travel reviews, psychology stories, and whatever strikes her fancy.
If you’ve ever considered a vacation in the Galapagos Islands, Visiting the Galapagos: to cruise or not to cruise? Will help you to understand your options, including tips for seeing uninhabited islands. That would be worth the trip to me.
Sometimes, things are better left untouched. The more we tinker the worse it gets. And The Beauty of Leaving Things Alone is a photo essay that provides an escape to places that unlock the imagination.
Should You Give Your Ex a Second Chance? Discusses a dilemma many of us, or our friends, struggle with. From my experience, revisiting old relationships rarely goes well.
Agustín Muñoz-Sanz brings his lifetime of studying medicine and love of the theater to his writing. It is a combination that is philosophically deep with a dose of the attention to detail you’d expect from someone with a research background.
Letter from a Recent Deceased relates a memento mori moment from an elderly person in the throes of COVID. It’s a very moving piece.
Moral Ode For The People Of Good Will reminds us that, in the immortal words of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., “Only love can conquer hate.”.
Anna Karenina’s Principle And Some Non-Bach’s Fugues combines the expertise I talked about earlier, This homily compares ideas from classic literature with the balance of nature in the present day.
Thanks for sharing your time with me and these wonderful writers. I appreciate you.
I’d also like to thank Marcus aka Gregory Maidman for his ongoing support of this feature.
John
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