How to Plan for a Sexathon

Be prepared so you can go all day and all night

I miss having all-day sex.

I used to have it when I was full of feel-good new relationship hormones. All I wanted was to feel more connected to my boyfriend. And the best way to do that was to stay naked in bed, fucking him on and off from morning until we were both too exhausted to stay up.

It’s the kind of thing I thought I had outgrown. Something that’s fun when you’re young but isn’t as appealing once you have more responsibilities and feel tired all the time.

Lately, though, I’ve been daydreaming about it again.

I have the urge to spend a weekend locked in a hotel room with my husband, doing nothing but cuddling, fucking, and ordering room service like we didn’t have a care in the world.

Or better yet, renting a secluded cabin for a few days and fucking everywhere — in the bed, on the countertop, on the deck, against a tree.

That’s it. Nothing but the pure, simple bliss of pleasuring each other for hours on end.

But if I’m going to be really honest about it, it’s not my husband I was thinking of when I started having these fantasies.

I was getting flirty with someone who lived far away from where I do. Trying to uncover who he was felt exciting. Being vulnerable with someone new was even more thrilling.

And the phone sex was driving me absolutely wild.

Once in a while, he’d talk about having me fly over to see him in person. I spent a lot of my waking hours wondering if I’d actually do it and what that would be like.

Whenever I thought about spending a weekend with him, I pictured one thing and one thing only — sex and lots of it. I imagined dropping my clothes on his floor soon after setting foot in his apartment and not picking them up until I had to leave. In my fantasy, I stayed in his bed until I had to fly back home.

He didn’t stay in my life long enough for that to happen, but the desire for a day devoted to nothing but sex hasn’t left me.

Sexathons just happen. When you’re in a long-distance relationship and you haven’t seen each other for a while, or you’re meeting in person for the first time, you probably want to spend all your time getting physical.

When you’ve just met someone you have incredible chemistry with, the last thing you’ll want to do after fucking them is get dressed and get back to your everyday life.

And if you’re a couple who just found their third or found someone you can have incredible threesomes with, you’ll probably want to enjoy that dynamic for a long as you can.

But if you want an amazing sexathon without too many interruptions, you have to plan for it. These are the things you should have on hand so you can enjoy the non-stop action.

Water and Electrolyte Drinks

Even mild dehydration is going to fuck up your fuck plans, so make sure it doesn’t happen.

Have lots of water on hand and think about getting some electrolyte drinks, too. Sex can get intense and sweaty, so there’s no shame in pounding back a Gatorade after going at it for two hours.

Getting heat stress from having sex all day sounds like the kind of thing that will earn you bragging rights, but it won’t. It’ll just give you a mild headache, leave you too exhausted to perform, and might make you a bit too lightheaded to fuck on top.

Takeout Menus

Back when I first met Mr. Austin, I spent a lot of time watching him cook.

After fooling around for a few hours, we’d get hungry so he’d throw on some clothes and whip up something over the stove. Because he lived in a small bachelor apartment, I could stay naked under the covers and talk to him the whole time.

Most of the time he made me noodle bowls loaded with tofu and veggies that we’d eat while my tits were covered with a bedsheet.

It didn’t take long for him to cook it, but something even faster would’ve been better. I used to be annoyed at my hunger because all I wanted to do was pull him back in bed for more sex and naked cuddles.

You’ll probably feel the same way. And if you’re not in a tiny bachelor apartment, you’ll have to actually leave the bed if you want to hang out while your partner cooks something.

Get some takeout delivered instead. You’ll still have to stop canoodling so you can eat, but that’s it. No cooking. No washing dishes. Just eating and getting it on.

Which sounds fucking fun if you ask me. If I could arrange to have a whole day of nothing but sex and sushi, I’d drop everything and make it happen.

Snacks and Protein Bars

If you fuck hard enough, you’ll get really hungry. Multiple orgasms can really knock the energy out of you too.

The other night, I had some really fucking good, highly intense sex. We’d been at it for about an hour and I wanted to keep going as long as I could take it.

But I had to cut it short because I realized my blood sugar had dipped noticeably. I was feeling woozy and losing my gusto.

I had eaten too few carbs that day and it was catching up to me.

So, instead of the all-night sexcapades I was hoping for, I had to call it early so I could have a snack.

Lesson learned. Don’t let your macro nutrients get in the way of you having an amazing time.

Have a few things that are easy to eat and will fuel you quickly.

Make sure you’re getting enough carbs so you have the energy to get going and go as hard as you want.

Eat enough fats so that you can fuck longer — once your body goes through the fast-burning energy it got from the carbs you consumed, it’s going to use those fats as fuel. If you don’t have enough, you’ll start to feel sluggish after doing it for about an hour.

Protein’s also going to make a big difference. Not just because it will keep your muscles from getting sore, but because it’s going to keep you feeling fuller longer.

Plus, if you’re spending a lot of your day riding cowgirl, you might as well make some gains from all that thigh work.

I’m not going to fuck up my marathon sex again. I’ve got protein bars stashed in my closet just in case I ever need a mid-fuck pick-me-up.

Your Overnight Items

Some sex marathons are planned. Others happen a bit more spontaneously. If you think there’s a chance things could go in that direction, make sure you’re ready to stick around for all of it.

Bring your toothbrush and your medication so you don’t have to leave midway through to get them.

Pack a pair of clean socks and underwear so you can change and feel fresh when it’s all over.

And it might be smart to bring a little extra of everything. If the sex is good enough, you might decide to call in sick at work to make it last a whole extra day.

Lots and Lots of Lube

If you want to fuck and fool around for hours on end, lube is going to come in handy at some point. Trust me, you’ll be grateful you have it.

Have some water-based lubes to use with silicone sex toys or when you need a little help during penetration.

If you’re going to throw some anal sex into your day, I highly recommend using a silicone-based lube. It’s slicker, thicker, and lasts longer, which are all things that will work in your favor when anything is going in your butt.

Silicone lubes won’t be compatible with silicone buttplugs or silicone anal dildos. If you’re using one of those, make sure you get some water-based lube that’s designed specifically for anal. It’s going to be safe for your toys and work so much better than using all-purpose water-based lube.

And definitely have flavored lubes on hand for oral sex. It will make blowjobs easier, a bit sloppier, and much tastier.

Get multiple kinds and have fun with it. Every blowjob can taste different, no matter how many times you suck cock during your sexathon.

That’s not just novelty. I’ll go longer when the lube’s good. The other night, I sucked my husband off for an extra minute or two just because the flavored lube made his dick taste like butterscotch.

More Condoms Than You Think You’ll Need

I used to date a guy who was a quick-fire ejaculator and barely had a refractory period.

He could swap condoms so quickly, I would barely notice it. He would come, pull out, throw away the condom, roll another one over his cock, and start fucking me again before I could even catch my breath.

It was really impressive. But it also meant we went through several condoms every time we had sex.

You want to be ready for that. No, you might not go through a pack of condoms every time you bang, but you don’t want to run out before you’re done.

Buy more than you think you’ll need. Get really optimistic. You should have all the sex you damn please and still have a few left over at the end.

The Fun Stuff

If you’re going to fuck all night, you’ll want to keep things interesting. The more variety you can throw into it, the more excited you’ll be to keep fucking until you’re too exhausted to continue.

Whatever you love playing with, make sure you’ve got it with you. Your favorite vibrator should get to participate in your sex marathon. Even better if you use more than one.

Dildos are tons of fun, too. I’ve been using them more regularly and it helped me enjoy extra orgasms, lightning fast thrusting, and some incredibly pleasurable double penetration.

And if you’re at all kinky, make sure you have some bondage gear. There are times when I struggle to get in the mood, but tying me up brings me right where I need to be.

Even if you’re not the kinky type, experimenting with some simple restraints can be a good way to spice things up and make things interesting.

You can get some sex games, to keep things light and fun. There are some that are designed to help you get to know each other, which is a great way to take a break from all the fucking but do something that still helps you feel connected.

Then there are simpler ones like dice that tell you who should put their mouth where. Those are a good way to keep the mood playful or even to guide the action after you’ve felt like you’ve done everything and aren’t sure what to do next.

And if you don’t have a sex wedge, this might be the right time to try one.

I just started using wedges and the difference they make is unbelievable. It lets you have deeper penetration, easier pussy eating, and better doggystyle. But the real reason you should have one for your sexathon is that it makes everything so much more comfortable.

A wedge is such a simple thing, but it can help you go the long haul without leaving you with a sore back.

Go Big

Sex is fun as hell. It’s one of the best ways to connect with your partner and get the closeness you’re craving. And it’s the perfect way to unwind and release some stress.

Usually, a regular fuck will do the trick.

But once in a while, it’s nice to make it into an event. To block off a whole day in your calendar for nothing but sex and physical intimacy.

When you do, make sure you’re ready for the sexathon. That way, it will only end the way it should — because the sun’s come up or you’ve come more times than you can handle.

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