After Many Months of Reading Weird Stuff: Here’s the World’s Most Simple Guide to Men

The 4 categories all men fall into

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Two disclaimers:

• 99% of men will fall into ONLY 1 of these 4 categories. Inconsistencies will fall into one of the first 3 or they are outliers for other reasons, such as IDD.
• The how surrounding why men fall into a category is not covered in this story. Naturally that will require an individual assessment for each guy.

1. Quitters: You know, men who don’t flaunt (but try to convince people they walk in humility), but they quit on themselves and they will quit on you faster than you can say, “hey babe, check this article out”. Answer: Stay away. Tricks: This could be a jock, soldier, or a monetarily successful businessman.

Quitters can easily slip into weird places, psychologically and emotionally. Even if he is slower than average, he can learn, fight, and succeed. Successful men can also be quitters. Just because someone built something, got lucky, or inherited money doesn’t mean they had male development.

2. Dead: Someone who has been neglected or abused (but not to the point of being noticed, for the sake of the thousands of men who have fooled women) and has no wherewithal. You tell them you are going to the park and he wears a suit, while giving an irrelevant answer why he did. Answer: Unless you have the patience and the heart of a teacher (and probably do not have kids in the beginning), stay away. Tricks: This could be a jock, soldier, or a monetarily successful businessman. Most geniuses are this; the stupidity of normalcy we see in America just makes them go home. Most creepers are this, as well — no male development.

3. Wounded: Someone who could have been any of the other 3, but is now an emotional wreck. Answer: Stay away until they are healed. Tricks: This could be a jock, soldier, and monetarily successful businessman.

4. VICTORS: We show up and do our best in all situations. We own the situations we find ourselves and if they are negative we will work ourselves out of them. We experience moments of the other categories, but we fight. We are probably not the smartest, wisest, strongest men, but in life we are your only long-term option. We research when we need to, not when we feel like it.

We lead when we need to, not when we feel like it. We don’t put others down, we take them aside to see their reasoning first because their culture and experiences might differ. Doesn’t make them wrong, everything is seen as correct somewhere. Just as men in categories 1–3 are right at times, as a broken compass has its moments of grandeur. That is not something to defend.

We make stuff happen when other men attack even me for writing this or when we stand alone in not defending lying to women or faking it, just to leave her later. We understand where to put humans on our life list — and they belong before video games and sports. They take precedence. And we sacrifice to make it happen — you know, leaders.

Leadership is not given or taken, it’s tenure. Special Forces are more leaders than regular military, as Special Forces Cadre are more leaders than those who have not been chosen to lead their own training course yet.

With that said, and as made obvious by the previous statement, ALL victors have scars. Understand that — because real women understand that. Women understand that a man with JOY and scars is a winner. Men flourish when they win. As understood by winners and not by the others. People who climb the mountain only see what’s at the top and only have the inner reinforcement that they did. The other 3 categories will find a way to make women believe that merely obtaining 75% is good enough.

He is a man and there is a neurological structure to follow. Men who have scars, but hide them from women are category #3.

Victors are the lions with scarred faces looking life dead in the eye, not giving a sh*t what’s coming. We prepare like special operations and learn our craft. “If I die in the water — um, okay, yeah… that’s just part of being male. Mothers are the ones that need to survive the event. She needs to build my sons to follow my leading, to freely take a bullet in the head before I deny what I have tested and known to be truth.”

That is the only true father, everyone else are sperm donors. I will not teach my kids that quitters are fathers, dead men are fathers, or wounded men who are not seeking help are fathers. They do not have the capacity to teach and raise healthy minds or I can make the case that 2 fingers plus 2 fingers does not equal 4 fingers or that basic training makes special operators. Stop mislabeling them. A lion is a lion, a dead lion is a dead lion. If I am missing a limb I am missing a limb. The Bible defines fatherhood — and it aligns with ONLY Category #4. It’s a heart posture.

And, he hates your exes, too, because at some point, one of the other three sperm donors were inside you. That’s cringe and doesn’t really say good things about us. Or her, unless she was lied to.

We are your 1 man. In our mind, you have no ex — rather, you have been rescued from emotional abuse. You are severed by GOD from him or you are still married — because marriage is unity. You can’t have both, connection and severe, pick one. If anyone defends that I’ll will, without fail, tell a heart translate surgeon that life truth. I will quote whoever believes that.

If you want connection with your ex, marry him again. We have said before that women only defend who they love. (this is the part when a man who thinks his wife loves him disagrees). Therefore, pick a man. Hesitation about the health of a male is a red flag for healthy males. You can’t even see with your eyes, Mufasa versus Scar. And women don’t need to be perfect by any means, we don’t care. All we care about is, do you pick emotionally and spiritually large healthy males or do you chase after the ones who will not make it full-term? (I got this from a man who followed wolf packs for over a decade — while other husbands…).

A victor wants you and everything you come with. We don’t share women (your mind, body, or spirit). The other 3 deadbeats above do share you, not only because they are taking/receiving from other women also, but they don’t have the capacity to keep a huntress. TRICKS: This is not necessarily a jock, soldier, or a monetarily successful businessman. Ever. No exceptions (there obviously are always exceptions, but in your mind, think no. Let their heart pursue you. Only show that you are impressed AFTER they prove commitment).

A sport figure, solider, and businessman puts his everything to make something of 1 aspect of his life. You are looking for a wholesome man.

• someone who desires to understand the female brain
• someone whose words line up with Louann Brizendine, PhD.
• someone who desires to build an empire ALONGSIDE you, as a team. This will require him respecting the neuroscience and development of the female brain, in order to propel her into unity
• someone who never uses phrases or scriptural verses to shift your decisions, but talks to you in love
• someone who is correctible (and you must be correctible, too, or you are not a huntress. There are categories for you, too)
• someone who is humble, but will rumble to defend anything in his territory no matter what it means for him and does it with style and ruthlessness
• someone who answers to an incorruptible higher authority that he will never undermine. Modeling the generational pattern of incorruptibility
• someone who leads by example
• someone who meets your needs (and understands that when you “gripe” that only means “listen”)
• someone who sees value in nature, family, and humans (no matter the size or color)
• someone who is not swayed by popular opinion or takes ques from people who have not eared respect for us to follow

None of the above points to a man with:

• all his limbs
• all his 5 senses
• operates in the median neurological range of men, he could have limitations and delays
• any specific skin color. At one time we were all round and yellow with no arms, legs, mouths, or opinions implanted by CNN instead of diligent research and experience

If you find a man that does not fall into any of these 4, you have a liar and a hider, statistically speaking. How can anyone say “a man can be a quitter and also finishes his mountains?” That is the textbook definition of backwards.

Remember, every man that you find yourself wanting, but doesn’t meet specs, has a better version out there. Don’t settle. You will be the only collateral damage.

If you want to help your fellow woman, share this. Don’t subtract or add to it, just let it land where it may. Let me know what you think needs to be added. I only read comments from those who give claps — you know, wherewithal. I get money for this, so be supportive. A response without claps is usually a negative comment anyways, and I leave it where’s it’s at. I’ll read the first comment on each of my posts, though. Last little tidbit, most comments are written before this part is even read lol (I look at my story stats).

To add or subtract from this, might add a virus to it. For example: if you say “studies show Chinese men usually follow this”, you are saying you know at least 93% of all Chinese men on earth — and you don’t. Instead, your article should read, “a Chinese study of 0.004% of Chinese men shown this ____”.

And women, men who disagree with these 4 categories of men probably disagree with everything I say about men and that’s all I need to know about them, to be honest with you. If they say quitters don’t quit, I question their whole point.

Healthy men are lions. They are pioneers. Healthy males cannot be anything less. Healthy Christian males will emanate Jesus: non-orthodox, believe in the Holy Spirit, operate in spiritual gifts, and can portray God’s love to all (even wen they disagree with me). Nothing less, women, nothing. Or you are gambling. Again, I’m not saying perfect, I’m saying a fighter or who will die trying.

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