THE INNER WIRING OF A LONG-LASTING & HERCULEAN FAMILY

Part 1: Male Development

Keywords: Family, psychology, winning, lifetime-satisfaction, biology, gender science, history, neuroscience, & love

Disclaimer: I travel to wherever needed to find the purest form of truth about development. It is not a concern of mine if I disagree or hate the scholars or the peer-reviewed sources. I WANT EVERYTHING LIFE CAN GIVE. If I have to change my innermost being to make it a reality, I’m doing it; I will be the first one on that train. The freedom and the spiritual development that comes from that is absolutely surreal —and just maybe that can be our normal.

My emphases are in brackets. Additional note: Dr. Louann Brizendine author of the Female Brain has noted the same principles found here. Head over to her book if want to cross-reference. And every plausible psychological study from a successful and notable psychologist on the matter coincides with the findings you read here. Between Dr’s. Peterson and Brizendine, we range from clinical psychology to neuropsychiatry; also, schools range from Harvard Medical School, University of Toronto, Yale University, to University of California (Berkley, in neurobiology).

My University was Liberty University with a B.S. in Criminal Psychology, I’m a former member of the Christian Association for Psychological Studies and the American Psychological Association. To learn about me, go here:

The Inner Wiring of a Long-Lasting & Herculean Family Introduction

We each have to answer that for ourselves.

“In the aftermath of a losing battle, regardless of how aggressive a lobster has behaved, it becomes unwilling to fight further, even against a previously defeated opponent. If a dominant lobster is badly defeated, its brain will basically dissolve.” [for healthy human male-brain maturation and development winning must be in their vocabulary from a very young age. Encouragement via parents is pertinent! Learning from feminine and masculine authority is imperative, also] “Whether a lobster is confidant or cringing depends on the ratio of two chemicals that modulate communication between chemicals…” [as seen in lethargic people versus business-oriented people (whatever their business — sports, education, office, health, etc.)] “the chemicals are serotonin and octopamine.” (Peterson, 2018).

Dr. Peterson continues by stating lobsters who possess a high level of those chemicals are characteristics of victors. Lobsters who possess small amounts are those that just hangout in common areas not associated with success, also those that shrink into corners at the sight of the more masculine. Even certain reflexes are slower.

“When a defeated lobster regains the courage and dares to fight again it is more likely to lose again — as seen in human societies. That same brutal statistic of unequal distribution applies outside the financial domain–indeed, anywhere that creative production is required. Scholarly articles, authors, music (Bach, Beethoven, Mozart, and Tchaikovsky).”

Every group has a subconscious hierarchy if kingship, and it is not taught that often. It is a very sad reality for our next generation and our children — almost child neglect and emotional abuse.

“This principle is sometimes called Price’s law. Also, Vilfredo Pareto discovered this. This appears true for every society ever studied, including Capitalism and Communism. Even in language (90% of communication occurs using about 500 words). Sometimes this is known as the Matthew Principle (Matthew 25:29), derived from what might be the harshest statement ever attributed to Christ: ‘to those who have everything, more will be given; from those who have nothing, everything will be taken.’ You truly know you are the Son of God when your dicta apply to crustaceans.” [Here comes biblical relationship and statistical female attraction, which we will skip for now (but gravity is gravity, science is stable no matter where you get the information from)].

“His aggression has made him successful, so he’s likely to react in a dominant, irritable manner [sound familiar, Christians?]. Furthermore, he is large, healthy, and powerful. It’s no easy task to switch his attention from fighting to [“relationship”]. — when something evolves, it must build upon what nature has already produced. Considering nature as purely static produces serious errors of apprehension. Nature ‘selects’. The idea of selects contains implicitly nested within the idea of fitness. It is ‘fitness’ that is ‘selected’. Fitness, roughly speaking, is the probability that a given organism will leave offspring. The ‘fit’ in ‘fitness’ is therefore the matching of organismal attribute to environmental demand.” [This is also observed in spiritual circles, physical fitness circles, academic circles, and church circles. The SEAL/Special Forces of that field will get the perceived “greatest female” or “fit for good offspring” of that field who can lead, organize life, and build/sustain a traditional home].

“ ‘In my kingdom,’ as the Red Queen tells Alice in Wonderland, ‘you have to run as fast as you can just to stay in the same place’. The dominance hierarchy, however social or cultural it might appear, has been around [since the beginning of time, space, and matter]. It’s permanent. It’s real. When we are defeated, we act very much like lobsters who have lost a fight. Our posture droops. We face the ground. We feel threatened, hurt, anxious and weak. If things do not improve, we become chronically depressed. And we are no match.” [This is also a spiritual truth, too. Success in the spirit will be naturally observable]. “Low serotonin means less happiness, more pain and anxiety, more illness, and shorter lifespan”. Peterson (2018).

Truth has no bounds and preference about anything. Truth will live past my little life. Truth is not religion and not really a science, it is a law. Truth tells you to live by statistical significance unless you want to gamble that you are an outlier — less than 7% probability (the reason I say 7% has a multi-disciplinary critique). Special Forces has like a 3–5% success rate of those qualified soldiers who apply. Even a genius once said that God, if real, would be the scientific absolute.

Your gamble.

And to understand the science of life, regardless of which religious system we live by, YOUR belief system must add up to the common areas of philosophy, psychology, neuroscience, biology, earth science, theology, psychoneurobiology, physics, astronomy, astrophysics, reason, and mathematics. It must not miss any mark and be able to answer every question about time, space, and matter — to include ‘what is right and what is wrong, politically?’ Political science even ties in with all sciences. Since it is a fact that the earth is alive and functioning and earth science is so very specific and powerful, what you belief must hit ALL the points.

Reference

Peterson, J.B. (2018). 12 Rules for Life: antidote to chaos. Toronto: Penguin Random House Publishers, pp. 11–15.

Stay tuned for the continuation of these bitesize psychoneurobiological snippets of the whole healthy family and man.