3 Perspectives To Consider About The Notorious Twin Flame Phenomenon

It’s very nice but it’s the greatest spiritual distraction of all time

I. It’s The Biggest Spiritual Test

You woke up when everything in the world wanted you to stay asleep and plugged into the matrix because you were called. If you were called, then you are kind of special and so you are not of this world. If you’re not of this world, then you can’t get attached to the things of this world.

Attachment will always bring you great suffering, slowing down your spiritual journey and preventing you from doing the work you were called to do.

As you awaken, you cannot get attached to a person, place, or thing, and that’s what the twin flame test is about: to see how easily you get attached to the things that can be taken away in an instant.

This is why most twin flame relationship has pain and suffering at their foundation. There’s always an attachment and someone has to run.

The twin flame journey is a spiritual test of sorts.

A brutal one.

The result of the test is based on the way you act. If you hold on too tightly acting as if you can’t live without them, they get taken from you so you never see them again. If you hold on anxiously fearing they’ll leave, they run so far away from you you must walk alone. If you let them go, they might come back to you and stay because you let them go.

The twin flame test is a level that must be passed to progress on your spiritual awakening journey.

II. It’s The Greatest Spiritual Distraction

The twin flame journey can be incredibly difficult because many of us get attached and the moment you start getting attached, there is a test.

The test is to detach.

It’s painful to detach from a soul you’re entangled with, but it’s for a reason. You need that pain to get to know these things.

You need to know that twin flames can be the greatest spiritual distraction of all time because your mind is consumed with thoughts of another person.

When you wake up in the morning and they’re the first thing you can think of and you spend the day thinking about them wishing they come back and then you fall asleep with them on you’re mind, it’s clear that you’re distracted.

You’ve lost focus.

When you lose focus in that way, you miss the whole point. You get distracted and hung up on worldly things.

A twin flame relationship can become the greatest distraction on your spiritual awakening journey, holding you back from learning, growing, and evolving.

It can cause you months and even years of suffering and pain because you are attached to something that can be lost and distracted by something that is slowing consuming you.

III. It’s The Highest Form of Love

There aren’t many successful twin flame stories because of attachment.

When you refuse to let go of your twin flame and you keep holding on when they want you to let go, it creates resistance, and what you resist persists. If they are running, they will not stop until you stop chasing.

I have a twin flame story but I failed my test completely. I lost the one that I love the most. Non-duality will argue that I never lost him because we are one and he is me but no. He is not. He is gone and I’m human I feel his absence. When I’m dead and in spirit, I will see clearly how we are one but right now in human flesh, he is gone.

But it’s on me.

I see where I went wrong now. I love him so much that I grew fond of him and became attached and so he had to leave to teach me a lesson.

Knowing what I now know, I refuse to chase him and instead focus on the lessons.

The lesson is to learn the art of detachment and I’m still learning. He came to help me evolve. I still love him dearly, I can never stop. But he’s gone and might not return, so another test for me is to learn to accept whatever happens. Acceptance is a much higher vibration than desperation to change outcomes.

As you awaken, your twin flame comes to test you to see how you’re doing. It tests you to see what you’ve learned. It tests you to see where you’re at in your spiritual journey. Until you prove your detachment skills, that kind of love cannot last.

But it’s a test of true love.

It tests you to teach you to appreciate the people in your life when they are still around. It teaches you to love people regardless of whether they want to stay or run. It shows you how to love unconditionally and let go without holding on too tightly and chasing when they let go.

Whenever your twin flame appears in your life and you enjoy spending every moment with them, and if you acknowledge them as your magical twin and readily let them go knowing that it is only through letting them go that they will ever return to you, then you will be happy to let them go and you will love them unconditionally, and you will not chase them because they are not running away.

It will be clear to you deep down that they have to go and deliver the message that you are mature and ready for all that is being prepared for you.

You have to learn to let it all go and trust that it’ll all come to you when you do.

If you haven’t failed your twin flame test yet, the moment you recognize someone as your twin flame, know you’re about to take a spiritual test. Understand that this person isn’t here to stay. You can’t change the fact that this person has to go away for a little while and whether or not they return depends on how well you do on the test. It depends on how you master detachment. The moment you get attached, you ruin it before it has a chance to bloom.

For those of us who have failed the test, failing a test isn’t the end of it. You learn and then you retake the test and when it is placed in front of you again, you have the knowledge and the understanding to help you do better.

If you do the work on yourself and you can love yourself no matter what, then everything works out for your good.

So don’t hold on too tightly if your twin flame has to run. Let them go and love them while they’re gone. Wish them luck and pray for them. Send them the love that’s overflowing in your heart and wish that everything goes well with them and that they’re happy and you go be happy. Live the life you were living before they walked into your life. If you were okay before them, you’ll be okay without them and trust the process.

When you can gracefully do this, it shows you’ve grown in wisdom and you can discern spiritual lessons and work on passing them.

Trust that it will all work out for your good as you do good on your test.

And at that point, they just may return to you or another one may come to stay because you learned your lessons, passed the test, and so you deserve to go on to the next level which is a magical kind of love.

And this love is the greatest of them all.

© 2023 Kimberly Fosu. All rights reserved.

Note: This article is only meant to provide spiritual guidance and lighthearted content.

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