Stop Chasing Your Twin Flame and They May Stop Running

At some point, it gets exhausting for both the runner and chaser

Streams of Souls

The moment I see someone take off chasing after me, my first human instinct is to take off running away from them because I don't know what they’re running from. Also, because I don't know what they want from me. I run and I don’t stop until they stop running.

You can’t be surprised that you chase someone and they run. It's how humans protect themselves. It’s a fight or flight, hoping you don’t freeze when it’s time to make a move.

The runner chaser dynamic puts beautiful twin flames in an endless game of cat and mouse. At some point, it gets exhausting for both the runner and the chaser.

Whenever you meet someone you believe to be the other half of your soul, it's also human nature to want to be whole again. It's human to yearn to be in their presence at all times.

Souls from the same soul stream may branch out to experience life in all of its forms. It's normal to want to be with the one that feels like coming home to a long separated version of yourself.

When you meet a person and they run away from you, understand that it's not the time to be. Chase or force it to happen and there’s bound to be resistance. With all your might, hold yourself back from chasing.

Let them go and remain in your core vibration. Become like water and flow without resistance. Flow against each other and you create a current that starts a tide that crashes on the shore.

A stream can have many branches, just like a tree. It won’t always work out romantically with every soul stream of consciousness you meet. If you meet and don't flow in one accord, it's okay. There may be another around the corner. All you need to do is to flow and remain deeply rooted within.

In the end, the little streams of water return to the ocean where they began. They run into each other and become one again.

This is why twin flames need not force anything.

Force it and it fucks it all up.

Flowing in One Accord

Streams flowing against one another will struggle to become one. A stream that runs into another crush and creates resistance and when there’s resistance, there's a big splash that separates them.

Don't chase after your twin flame. You only need to focus on yourself if you really want it to work.

Allow streams to flow in the direction they’re flowing. Let people go where they want to go. If it’s away from you, let them go.

Stay settled in your own stream. Remain grounded like the tree. Get yourself in flow states as often as you can by doing things you’re passionate about often.

The chase disempowers you. Your power lies in your flow state.

Chasing gives off an energy of unsettlement. It’s desperation and desperation is quite unattractive, which is why ‘want something too much and you push it away.’

You chase after the one you like and they will run not because you're not likable but because the chase creates discord. One is flowing and one is rushing into them. They’ll run because they’re naturally following a universal law.

The universe is a balancing act. It ensures there’s a balance where there’s unbalance. It’ll seek to settle that which is unsettled.

Reuniting with a soul stream is really all about obeying universal laws, and no harm will be done.

The runner runs because he’s afraid of or uncomfortable with something.

You run and the dog chases, but stop running and if you’re fortunate, it won't hurt you. If you’re bold and you stand right where you are, the thing moving towards you may stop because you're right there.

Twin flames who successfully reunite are both spiritually awake, aware, and aligned. Successful reunions normally happen after both souls have gone through a positive change in the way they see and relate to themselves.

Not every soul stream will be awake, aware, and aligned at the time you meet them. It's truly very rare for both souls to be in their core vibrations, but it's simply magical when it happens.

Making Magic in The Core

Humans put out a vibrational frequency. Souls have a core vibration. Based on our frequency, we attract souls that are a vibrational match.

We attract people who are equal to where we currently are.

If your frequency says you're incomplete, you will attract a person who also feels incomplete, but that doesn't mean you have what’s missing in each other. You will feed on each other’s energy, never feeling good enough until you've drained each other and you're both drained and left feeling empty.

Chasing will do just that.

The chaser chases because it lacks and wants something from the other person and the other person runs because they don’t have it to give. Force it and you may end up with something that's not a match that will only drain you and you, them.

Hold yourself back and let things be natural.

Let it flow.

Take a step back and figure out what's missing within you. If you can, give it to yourself and you won't need to chase after it. Cultivate it and you will have enough to give.

Set the intention to end the chase.

Return to your core vibration and start creating magic enough for you and the world. Enough for you and your twin consciousnesses so that when you finally fall into each other, you simply reignite an old flame. You can't be told apart because you've become one.

The magic is in your core.

In your core vibration, you become like the nectar that the birds are attracted to. They come willingly and you have an abundance to give. You have an abundance of it because you took care of your mind, heart, soul, and spirit.

When your spirit is settled and rooted deep within you, you lack nothing. You get extra because there’s so much of it already within you.

But of course, it's hard to let a twin flame go.

It's hard letting a familiar spirit flow right past you. You only truly want their heart because you love it so much. You want to have and to hold. Not having it eats you from the inside out. It’s unbearable pain that pierces the heart.

When they turn their back and walk out the door, they take with them your spark, and perhaps they have something that belongs to you and why you're inclined to chase. But you let them walk and you wonder how you'll ever get it back.

You can get your spark back. It originated from deep within you, remember? You can light it up again. All you need is to do something that starts a fire within you. Then you get your spark back.

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What can you do that can light you up?

Do it. Do more of the things that take your mind off of them and bring it back to yourself. Stay in your core vibration.

Your core vibration whistles to the bird like a call. Focus on making nectar and the birds will come.

If the tree or flower shakes too hard; the moment you move from your core vibration and chase, the bird flies away. But be still and they may stay.

Stop chasing your twin flame and they may stop running. Don't chase because of how much you love them.

Note: This article is only meant to provide spiritual guidance and lighthearted content.

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