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at situation. And she will probably not find another man in development within 2 years. Most men just don’t develop.</p><p id="03b6">A developed man does not care about either, bad boys or good boys, they just see men as pride members or strangers. A developed man looks for either a developed woman or a stable and faithful one.</p><h2 id="5f8a">Wreck</h2><p id="a59e">A man in development could even be in a wrecked life. That is because he is currently trying to fix himself — hence, “in development”. But, he still possesses development traits.</p><p id="7091">A perfectly developed man is not a robot, they are still humans. Gotta give room for humanity, unless we unwrap a perfect woman in all lights in the eyes of a victorious man. We are all still human.</p><h1 id="3812">How a Woman can Tell</h1><p id="c68b">All about the quiet. A developing man is a working man. Not a man that settles, but works — on himself, employment, the relationship, children, volunteerism, etc.</p><p id="3840">Incentives and proactive in:</p><ul><li>Employment</li><li>Relationships</li><li>Patience</li><li>Facing fear</li><li>Kindness</li><li>Weight loss</li><li>Credit recovery</li><li>Education</li><li>Vehicle repair</li></ul><p id="0332">No matter the situation he finds himself, he will be working towards its completion. He will always work on what is in front of him to get it going. A farmer will fix a tractor for a current job before either cutting corners or getting sidetracked on a new “lucrative” hobby.</p><p id="9d40">A developing man will have time for you and his development. You, and. Not you and you. A developed woman will desire a man to continuously grow. She is the type that understands a lazy man is a dangerous one. A man or woman who really tries to coincide with danger relationship-wise is not someone long-term.</p><h1 id="84cc">Conclusion</h1><p id="60e8">No one cares about bad boys, well, no one mature, that is. If they are not developing into greatness, give it 5–10 years and see them turn to junk. They won’t be the bad ones anymore. They turn into the bitter men who think they have an “experienced” past. There will be a new generation of bad boys or chemically imbalanced males that replaces them.</p><p id="0378">I wipe both, bad boys and good boys with my shoes. I’m a man that a woman can build an empire with. It’s a choice. You can find me anywhere and nowhere. Gotta know how to point me out and gotta not blend in the crap crowd yourself. I will not be doing blow in a club — could be in recovery, still with the development traits. A man who is not totally developing will still be wounded and not putting goals ahead of troubles. A Special Operator can be hurt, missing a leg, and would still be inquiring about the mission.</p><p id="aed6">No excuses.</p><p id="efea">Lastly, a developed and developing man can relevantly follow politely insinuated instructions respectably, too… <i>(see next).</i></p><p id="6d73">Thanks for reading!

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The Inner Wiring of a Long-Lasting & Herculean Family, Part III

Bad boys, good boys, and the perfectly developed man

Continuing with the series The Inner Wiring of a Long-Lasting & Herculean Family (also titled: is there a perfectly developed man), we come to this gem.

We have covered the 4 types of men in Relationship Frustrations, so I won’t get into that again. Please read through the 4 types of men. Our story today will detail what type bad boys and good boys fall into.

Bad boys

Bad boys fall into these male types:

Quitters: yep, believe it or not. Bad boys could be running from something, just like many men.
Dead: This is someone who has been neglected or abused and unfortunately has no wherewithal. You tell them you are going to the park and he wears a suit. He might even come up an excuse why he did not come prepared, which still details a lesser level of communication. It is possible for bad boys to only navigate their own little house pool.
Wounded: Someone who could have been any of the other 3 (quitter, dead, or victor), but is now an emotional wreck and has not completed recovery.

That is it. Bad boys are never victors. Just by the title, they couldn’t. Their empire always collapses at some point. Once they become obsolete, they fall, just like the false giant they were.

Good boys

Good boys fall into the same types as bad boys. And for the same reasons.

Every man is a man within himself.

Development

Development finds anyone in any situation. Bad boys or good boys, both are just as fragile in unfamiliar waters, the bad boys just jump in first, women get wooed, then duped by the BS — essentially. Which is why we have women talking about not finding anyone. Most women are either impossible or easy, just like most guys are either bad boys or good boys. Both, men and women have to fight not to settle.

A women can, in fact, find a man in development — there is no statistical look for this; bad boy, good boy, doesn’t matter. But, you cannot confuse a man in development for a man who is not.

Mistakes

A man in development can make relationship-ending mistakes, yes. My heart goes out to that situation. And she will probably not find another man in development within 2 years. Most men just don’t develop.

A developed man does not care about either, bad boys or good boys, they just see men as pride members or strangers. A developed man looks for either a developed woman or a stable and faithful one.

Wreck

A man in development could even be in a wrecked life. That is because he is currently trying to fix himself — hence, “in development”. But, he still possesses development traits.

A perfectly developed man is not a robot, they are still humans. Gotta give room for humanity, unless we unwrap a perfect woman in all lights in the eyes of a victorious man. We are all still human.

How a Woman can Tell

All about the quiet. A developing man is a working man. Not a man that settles, but works — on himself, employment, the relationship, children, volunteerism, etc.

Incentives and proactive in:

Employment
Relationships
Patience
Facing fear
Kindness
Weight loss
Credit recovery
Education
Vehicle repair

No matter the situation he finds himself, he will be working towards its completion. He will always work on what is in front of him to get it going. A farmer will fix a tractor for a current job before either cutting corners or getting sidetracked on a new “lucrative” hobby.

A developing man will have time for you and his development. You, and. Not you and you. A developed woman will desire a man to continuously grow. She is the type that understands a lazy man is a dangerous one. A man or woman who really tries to coincide with danger relationship-wise is not someone long-term.

Conclusion

No one cares about bad boys, well, no one mature, that is. If they are not developing into greatness, give it 5–10 years and see them turn to junk. They won’t be the bad ones anymore. They turn into the bitter men who think they have an “experienced” past. There will be a new generation of bad boys or chemically imbalanced males that replaces them.

I wipe both, bad boys and good boys with my shoes. I’m a man that a woman can build an empire with. It’s a choice. You can find me anywhere and nowhere. Gotta know how to point me out and gotta not blend in the crap crowd yourself. I will not be doing blow in a club — could be in recovery, still with the development traits. A man who is not totally developing will still be wounded and not putting goals ahead of troubles. A Special Operator can be hurt, missing a leg, and would still be inquiring about the mission.

No excuses.

Lastly, a developed and developing man can relevantly follow politely insinuated instructions respectably, too… (see next).

Thanks for reading! Thanks for the 50 claps!! Thanks for those who can give constructive comments!!! Thanks for sharing if you can!!!! Thanks for sharing your own experience in the same!!!!!

1st in the series (introduction)

The Ex Talk Breakdown: Start Your Engines!

It’s the moldy lettuce in the back of your fridge, it’s time to take it out.

medium.com

2nd in the series