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Summary

Anne Bonfert reflects on a week of contrasting emotions and activities, from the somber occasion of her grandmother's funeral to the joyous celebration of life, alongside her weekly skydiving adventures and nature observations.

Abstract

The week captured in Anne Bonfert's photo-a-day challenge is marked by a profound personal loss, the funeral of her grandmother, which is approached with a sense of celebration for a life well-lived. Despite the emotional toll, Anne finds solace in the vibrant memories of her grandmother and the colorful celebration of life, drawing parallels to a Ghanaian funeral she once attended. The narrative transitions from grief to the thrill of skydiving, as Anne returns to the skies, capturing the moment of parachute deployment. Her week is also filled with the tranquility of morning haze, the search for sunshine on a rainy day, and the simple pleasures of a riverside lunch. The theme of friendship emerges with the story of a lone swan finding companionship, mirroring Anne's own interactions with nature and people. The week concludes with the joy of sharing the skydiving experience with others, reinforcing her passion for her work. Anne invites others to join the photography challenge, highlighting the community and connection it fosters.

Opinions

  • Anne values the celebration of life over mourning at funerals, influenced by her experience in Ghana.
  • She prefers to wear colorful attire to funerals, reflecting a personal choice for uplifting remembrance.
  • Anne finds beauty in every day and every weather, emphasizing her positive outlook even in challenging circumstances.
  • She believes in the importance of nature's rain for its benefits to the environment, despite the inconvenience it may cause to her work.
  • Anne's encounter with a lone swan that found friends resonates with her appreciation for companionship and the natural world.
  • The joy and happiness of people she skydives with affirm her purpose and satisfaction in her profession.
  • She expresses a sense of community by welcoming new participants to the photo-a-day challenge and acknowledging previous contributors.
Credit: Anne Bonfert

PHOTO-A-DAY CHALLENGE

Raindrops and Haziness

Week 55 of the photographic documentary of my daily life

This week began with a very emotional and heart-breaking event. It was my grandma’s funeral. The final goodbye and celebration of a fulfilled life of an incredibly inspiring person.

I love the idea of celebrating someone’s life at a funeral much more than crying for one’s passing. I’ve first gotten in contact with it in Ghana when my host father invited me to the five-day-long funeral celebration of a chief from a neighboring village. I told him I had nothing black to wear and he instructed me to please put on the most colorful dress I owned. Which was much easier for me anyway.

And then there I was. In the middle of a funeral party of hundreds of people dancing, singing, and celebrating the life of the deceased. I enjoyed it a lot. It brought a different light to funerals for me.

I no longer feel forced to wear a depressing black suit for any funeral and try to look at the event as a celebration of this person’s life.

© Bonfert — 19/08/2021 — FAREWELL

Not saying it wasn’t a sad day. My look was just as blurry as this photo. I had endless tears running down my cheeks. I wrote about the passing of my grandma before and mentioned her health problems and how we cooped with it for weeks in my posts.

But it didn’t make it easier. The grieving. The crying. The tears about all the moments I shared with her. But in the end, we need to remember that she has lived a great life as an inspiring person.

© Bonfert — 20/08/2021 — OPENING

Well, and because my life is full of extremes I was back in the air the next day. Here again on a camera jump during the late afternoon capturing the very moment this tandem instructor opened the parachute.

© Bonfert — 21/08/2021 — MORNING-HAZE

When I got up today, morning haze was covering the airfield. It was such a tranquil atmosphere. Before all the busyness of the day would take over this place.

I still haven't seen the rabbits living at the airport again and start wondering if they are still alive.

© Bonfert — 22/08/2021 — SUNSHINE

I was looking for sunshine on a rainy day when I found this shining beauty. It should be more like looking for summer in a rain-filled season. But as you know me I am trying to find beauty in every day and every weather.

And the rain is great. Maybe not for me when I am trying to work and jump out of a plane but much more for nature!

© Bonfert — 23/08/2021 — LUNCHTIME

Monday, our first day of the weekend (usually we don’t work on Mondays and Tuesdays). We decided to grab some takeaway food and sit down by the river for lunch. The sky was rather cloudy but it didn’t rain.

© Bonfert — 24/08/2021 — FRIENDSHIP

Tuesday was time for our paddle session again. The sky looked like it could rain but I really wanted to go on the water and cloudy skies are actually better than the scorching sun when doing exercise in the outdoors.

On my last paddle session, I wrote about the lone swan looking for friends on the river. I didn’t expect to see him again but surely hoped for. And just as we were about to dock in front of the beer garden, we saw him. Swimming among a crowd of Egyptian geese and some local ducks.

I’m glad to see he did find some friends after all. Friends who were more reliable than us who only come to the river about once a week.

© Bonfert — 25/08/2021 — WINDY

Wednesday meant back to work again. First, about a four-hour’s drive to my workplace, and then I jumped 5 times out of a plane. One lady I jumped with was from India and she had such a blast. She screamed the entire time and laughed a lot under the canopy. That’s when I know why I’m doing this job. To make people happy!

This has been my week in photographs. 7 days. 7 photographs. Anyone can join. Once. Or weekly. It doesn’t matter. We welcome everyone! Dennett was the one starting this photography challenge sometime last year and many have participated ever since.

Erika Burkhalter / Eileen Vorbach Collins / Sasha Meyer / Tracy Aston/ Lisa Bolin / Juan O. Aguilera / David Wade Chambers / Mia Verita / Susan Alison / LensAfield / Barbara Radisavljevic / Diana Lotti / Barbara Dalton / Kim Zuch / Sandra Barrett / Shruthi Sundaram and new to the team came Ellie Jacobson with “A Week in Transition”.

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