If You Don’t Like Watching Porn, Try Audio Porn

It’s the easiest solution for my low libido

I write about porn pretty regularly. When I do, I usually hear from women who have a hard time enjoying it.

They’d rather do more than just fantasize when they masturbate, but they can’t get turned on by any of the porn they’ve found online.

Whenever they load up a video, their heads start to swim with worries.

“That looks really uncomfortable.”

“Is this ethically produced?”

“I sure hope she got paid a lot to do that!”

I consider porn to be an ethical industry. The majority is produced under specified working conditions, governed by regulations and contracts, and the scenes are performed with consent and measures in place to ensure that things go as they should.

Outside the studios, the independent creators producing their own porn have as much power over their working conditions as any other self-employed person does.

But I completely understand where the women who write to me are coming from. The idea that porn is sketchy has been so deeply ingrained into us that it can be hard to shake it, even when you know intellectually that it’s all above board.

Other women find themselves in a bind because of bad personal experiences or trauma.

They’re not into lesbian porn, but they find it triggering to watch a man treat a woman in any way that looks aggressive.

And sure, there’s lots of erotic, sensual, gentle, and downright loving porn out there. But that’s not really how emotional triggers work. Stumbling on one aggressive clip or a screenshot of rough sex can be enough to completely kill your lady boner and ruin your plan to spend the evening jilling off in bed.

Thankfully, there’s a really good alternative for anyone who feels averse to porn. Ironically, I stumbled on it one day when I was looking for something to watch on Pornhub.

It was a video by Feel Good Filth. It didn’t have much of a thumbnail, but it had a hell of a title: Daddy Teaches you to Fuck (Erotic Audio for Women).

I didn’t have a choice. I had to click.

There were no visuals at all, only audio. I was disappointed at first, but I decided to give it a chance. I’m really glad I did because it was so fucking hot I immediately started looking for more.

Discovering Filthy Jim’s dirty audio taught me that porn without the visuals isn’t necessarily a compromise. It’s not disappointing the way porn on mute is. It’s a completely different experience that has its own advantages.

If you’re looking for an alternative to porn scenes, here are some of the reasons you should try audio porn.

It Guarantees Dirty Talk

Men being vocal and verbal during sex is such an incredible turn on.

Unfortunately, it’s a pretty rare feature in porn. There’s no shortage of women coming loudly, shouting in ecstasy while getting fucked, and demanding or begging for the pleasure they want.

But too many of the men they perform with act like stunt dicks. They’ll be getting deepthroated by an extremely cute girl or get to pound an eager hottie’s ass and somehow not a peep comes out of their mouths.

You would think they’d be a little more enthusiastic about getting to enjoy some fantasy-level sex, but nah.

Sometimes, you’ll hear a few groans or grunts when they come. But some of them still barely make a sound while they’re hitting a climax.

A lot of premium sites do a much better job of casting guys who know how to use their mouths for more than just eating pussy. But even that can be hit or miss.

But it’s always there in audio porn. In fact, it’s what audio porn is.

Recording audio porn is a lot like being on the radio — you want to make sure there’s no dead air. It’s hard to sustain the fantasy and keep jilling off enthusiastically when you’re getting a bunch of static silence.

So, audio performers fill the air with moans, groans, and grunts. Better still, with their words. They’ll paint a scenario, address you directly, describe what they’re doing to themselves, what they wish you were doing to them, and how much they love every physical sensation they’re imagining or experiencing.

But the best part is the praise.

You get to jill off to the sound of a man moaning complimentary things to you, calling you dirty names with a tone of admiration, and sounding overall impressed with you. If you’re lucky, he’ll even call you a good girl.

If the sound of a man talking dirty makes you shiver, audio porn is the most reliable way to hear it.

It’s Incredibly Immersive

Audio porn engages your imagination like nothing else does.

I do get some vicarious sensual pleasure from watching porn movies. Seeing wet, lubed up bodies helps me feel like it’s my fingers stroking up and down a hard cock or finger fucking a pretty pussy.

It’s one of the reasons I’m a big fan of close-up porn. Seeing the physical contact in isolation helps me imagine it even more vividly, like it was my body being pleasured.

But audio porn comes closest to making me feel like I’m actually part of the scene.

In most cases, the performer speaks to you directly. They’ll walk you through a scenario that really feels like a first-person experience.

You get to just listen, fill in the details with your mind, touch yourself, and then go to town on your pussy with your favorite sex toys.

It’s even better with headphones on. You get to block out and forget everything except the fantasy. It’s just you and the hot and sexy voice that’s whispering and moaning directly into your ears.

You Can Indulge in Fantasies You Might Not Enjoy Watching

There are some fantasies that are really hot in your imagination but are a lot more awkward when you see them played out.

In some cases, they might even be disturbing.

Plenty of women have fantasies of ravishment that have elements of dubious consent. As fantasies, they’re extremely titillating, arousing, and can hit all your sweet spots. But seeing it played out can be a little too dark for some people’s taste.

Same with rough sex. It’s one thing to fantasize about getting face fucked, being choked or slapped, and just plain manhandled into super sexy submission. Watching it, though, can feel completely different.

DDlg fantasies can be tough for that reason, too. The experience gap element can be part of the appeal. So can the sexual awakening and loss of innocence. But those can be hard to depict visually in a way that doesn’t rub some people the wrong way.

There’s nothing wrong with any of those fantasies or the porn that depicts them — I’m a very big fan of consensual non-consent porn and performers who have a DDlg edge to them (whether they’re dominant daddies or women who can really pull off the cute middle vibe I love).

But the audio porn versions are perfect for anyone who finds the visuals too disturbing but still wants to enjoy those types of scenarios and the dynamics they depict.

You Can Get Off With Your Eyes Closed

I’m a very visual person. It’s part of the reason I love porn so much — watching the nudity, the sexual tension, and all the intense action unfold is extremely arousing to me.

But for whatever reason, I also tend to close my eyes during sex or when I’m masturbating.

I don’t know why it feels better to jill off with my eyes closed, but it just does. It’s like it helps me concentrate on my pleasure and keeps my mind from wandering.

It also means I don’t really get to fully enjoy porn once I really get going. When I’m turned on and ready to get myself off, I’ll leave it playing, but at that point it’s more like I’m creating a smutty ambiance instead of enjoying a dirty visual.

With audio porn, though, I get the full experience. I can ride my wand to a climax while still listening to all the dirty talk, sexy moans, and grunting orgasms that got me aroused in the first place.

It’s Great for Low Libido Days

If I’m listening to audio porn, it’s usually for one of two reasons.

Either Feel Good Filth releases a new audio, in which case I am definitely taking my vibrator with me to the bath.

Or I’m not super horny, but I want to be.

I have struggles with my libido. It’s not from a lack of interest in sex — I’m extremely interested in sex. It’s mostly to do with hormonal imbalances and anxiety issues blocking my arousal.

So, I often find myself wanting to be horny, but not even being close to feeling it.

When my sex drive is wonky, porn gets a little tricky. It’s the most reliable way to get me going and give me the urge to masturbate or fuck.

But I’m also more sensitive to the things I don’t like in a porn scene. Lots of things turn me off that normally wouldn’t.

A setup that’s too cheesy might do it. If the blowjobs get rough, it might keep the blood from rushing where it should. Anal that doesn’t look like it’s fully and completely pleasurable could spoil things, too.

I don’t have that same problem with audio porn. When it doesn’t work for me, it’s usually because I’ve stumbled on something that’s too boring, not something that actively tones down my arousal.

Because audio porn relies more on your imagination than on the creative direction of a production team, you get to soften the edges if you want. You can imagine that the rough parts aren’t as uncomfortable as they sound. You can fill in the blanks to help the scenario fit your kinks and your mood.

If you’re struggling to get turned on, it might be the perfect way to get yourself there.

Close Your Eyes and Enjoy Yourself

There are a lot of discussions about porn that treat it in very black and white terms.

People either talk about loving porn or they will tell you all the reasons they don’t care for it.

But it’s really a lot more nuanced than that.

Porn tastes are extremely subjective. I don’t like most of the porn that’s out there, and I’m sure most people are the same.

For people who find porn too cheesy, there’s some well-produced and skillfully acted content that feels a lot like watching a straight-to-video movie but with hardcore fucking.

For people who find it too aggressive or pointlessly athletic, there’s lots of erotic and sensual porn that would probably appeal to them.

And for anyone who just doesn’t find it all that appealing to watch bodies rub up against each other, there’s porn without any visuals whatsoever.

If you haven’t had any luck with porn, give audio porn a try. It can be hot as hell. Listening to it makes masturbating way more fun. And it can help your fantasies feel even more alive.

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