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If it’s Your Calling, What I or Anyone Says will not Matter

Just don’t quit on yourself, or your calling will only be a figment of your imagination

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Identity

Your identity is wrapped up in you. Technically even your employer has no business with your validation.

There are a few things that a person needs in order for this to happen.

  • They need to be willing to face criticism
  • They need to tie a value to their identity

Their identity is the most important thing in the world. An identity is who you are.

In the military Special Operation assessment programs the candidates are told to leave, asked to leave, and after every mistake are verbally prompted to give up on on their dead dreams, being told they were “not going to happen.” And it’s true! So, who are these people who become Special Forces, SEALs, Marine Recon, etc.?

  • They were prepared before the assessment, as prepared as they could be.
  • They knew who they were going to be
  • They were who the Special Operation Community chosen, it had nothing to do with the lies we tell ourselves about how important we are while not doing anything

Successful and happy people do not care if they die. They died for who where they were or who they were going to be. Is there any other way to go out? It’s either we die of old age after we have lived the life we fought for or we died in the pursuit of it. Any other death is failure.

  • Failure to find who we are
  • Or failure to prepare

“What if my parachute doesn’t open?”

That’s okay. At least you did not die skydiving for fun.

Identity

Your identity is never something you can wake up and do. Your identity is calling out to stretch the limits!

This is in conjunction with the future stories:

  • The Saddest Story
  • The Success Pie of Life

And in conjunction with:

You will thank yourself when you are on a journey that you would not have believed.

Success can be a surprise or it can be expected. As long as you are prepared for the assessments to come. Enjoy the journey!

Thanks for reading! Thanks for the 50 claps!!

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