Quickie: How Distracted Driving Can Cause Bumps in Your Relationship

Summary

Distracted driving, particularly through phone use, can lead to both traffic accidents and relationship conflicts.

Abstract

The article "Quickie: How Distracted Driving Can Cause Bumps in Your Relationship" emphasizes the potential negative impact of using a cell phone while driving on personal relationships. It suggests that the distraction caused by phone conversations can result in delayed reactions to important discussions with a partner, potentially leading to misunderstandings and conflicts. The article cites Paul Rosenblatt, a professor at the University of Minnesota, who explains that the same factors causing road accidents due to phone use can also harm relationships. These factors include slow reaction times and the inability to pick up on nonverbal cues during phone conversations. The article highlights that for couples already experiencing difficulties, these communication issues may exacerbate existing tensions and could be the tipping point for a relationship in jeopardy.

Opinions

Paul Rosenblatt believes that the distraction of a phone conversation while driving can cause a delay in reaction, leading to relationship misunderstandings.
The lack of nonverbal cues during a phone call can result in misinterpretation of the conversation, upsetting the partner.
Noise from the road or phone can contribute to the difficulty in communication, further straining the relationship.
Relationships that are already struggling may suffer significantly from the consequences of difficult phone conversations while driving, potentially leading to a breakdown of the relationship.

Pay attention to the road…and your partner

Just as talking on a cell phone while driving can cause accidents, it can also create a bump in the road of our relationships. Paul Rosenblatt, professor at the University of Minnesota, says that the reasons for these problems stem from the same causes: the slow reaction time and distractions that arise when we use a phone while driving.

For example, when you’re having an important phone conversation with your partner while driving, a slow reaction to what you’ve heard may lead to misunderstandings in the relationship.

“Problems arising from a difficult phone conversation may push their relationship to the tipping point.”

“A delay in the conversation could be a problem if the person (spouse or partner) on the other end of the conversation interprets the delayed reaction as an indicator of ambivalence, of not having a ready answer or of hiding something,” said Rosenblatt. “This all leads to upsetting the partner.”

If you’re talking to someone on the phone while they are driving, similar conflict can arise because you can’t see the other person’s nonverbal cues, so the meaning of what they say may get lost. Also noise — from the road or from the phone — can contribute to these problems.

Like how the traffic accidents caused by using cell phones can be serious, the relationship problems that distracted drivers can create may mean dire consequences for a relationship — particularly one that is already on course to crash and burn.

“For couples in which things have been so difficult that they both are considering ending the relationship, problems arising from a difficult phone conversation may push their relationship to the tipping point,” Rosenblatt said.

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Source:

Talking on your cell phone while driving may be hazardous to your close relationships. ScienceDaily. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/06/100615105257.htm

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