Ejaculation Control Master Class (#3) — You Don’t Lack Control. You Don’t Know the Finger Lock Technique

She laughed when she saw the length but then I learned this technique

I heard a couple of sniggers. But it was really cold, ok. Thanks to George Costanza, I thought all females know it shrinks in the cold. Apparently not. Thanks to feeling so self-conscious, the session didn’t last too long.

If I had only known what I know now from a maverick Israeli Tantric Master, it wouldn’t have ended so fast.

The Finger Lock is an essential technique to add to your repertoire for a powerful non-ejaculation practice.

Using The Finger Lock will send her to 7th heaven.

Whip it out, big boy

The Finger Lock is used when you have crossed the point of no return (PNR). The PNR is when your sexual arousal level has gone past the point when you are no longer able to stop yourself from ejaculating.

When you have passed the PNR, you can apply the finger lock to the Million-Dollar Point. The Million-Dollar Point is located immediately in front of the anus. It’s the area the size of a dime coin. The area feels very spongey when you put pressure on it.

You use The Finger Lock in those situations when you allowed your sexual arousal level to escalate too fast or you forgot to use various other techniques such as The Big Draw or The Cool Draw

The Finger Lock will stop the semen from coming out of your penis, you will also lose your erection. However, with this technique, it will not take long for another erection to ignite.

Got my fingers ready; how do I do it?

There is a space between when you feel you are past the PNR but haven’t ejaculated yet. This is the time to use The Finger Lock, as this is when the semen hasn’t left the body yet.

This can be awkward at first but after some time, like learning a lot of new skills, you will be able to know when and how to use it like a pro.

Technique

1. When the sensation arises that you are about to ejaculate, press the 3 middle fingers (middle, ring, and index fingers) of your dominant hand on the Million-Dollar Point. The pressure must be hard enough to stop the flow of semen.
2. For ease of access to that area, let your fingers be slightly curved and the middle finger pushed directly against the urethral tube. This tube will be expanded when you are about to ejaculate so will be easy to feel its location. The other 2 fingers will sit on either side of this tube.
3. You can also contract your PC muscles (the groups of muscles that sit around the prostrate) and pull up your perineum.
4. When you are more familiar with this technique, use the micro orbit to draw the sexual energy away from the groin area.
5. Hold your fingers on the Million-Dollar Point before, during, and for a few seconds after the ejaculatory phase has taken place. That is when the muscles engage to carry out the ejaculation.
6. When the pumping sensation of the ejaculation phase has completely stopped then you can remove your fingers.

Use this a few times during self-cultivation (masturbation); only then, when you can comfortably, it can be employed during lovemaking. Be sure to talk to your partner first.

Trouble Shooting

If semen does come out of your penis, then you haven’t pressed down on the Million-Dollar Point. You will be pressing down on the point where the ejaculatory duct and membranous urethra come together. Try moving your fingers closer to the anus and free them firmly.

Ensure you have cut your fingers nails, so avoid any uncomfortableness.

Because there is a lot to think about at the start of your experience of orgasm will be decreased but as you become more familiar with the technique, you have less to think about and the full enjoyment will return.

If you are wanting to know if you did it correctly, you can urine after into a cup. If the urine is clear, then you have performed it correctly. If the urine is cloudy, then semen went into the bladder retrograde ejaculation. As mentioned above you will need to find the correct area.

When you stop the semen at this point with your fingers, the fluid returns to the epididymis and the seminal vesicles. The tissue is very soft and elastic so you will not do any damage to this area by applying pressure.

In saying that, don’t apply too much pressure. If the area feels sore after you have taken your hands away, then you have applied too much pressure. Something when your arousal level is high, you may lose your self-awareness. Remember to adjust the pressure for next time.

If you feel any pressure around the groin area, massage your pelvis to release any pent-up sexual energy. This includes running your fingers gently along your tailbone. This can be particularly soothing.

Conclusion

Remember why you do your non-ejaculation practice. Most men do it to embody their masculine energy. This then translates to how you project yourself out into the world.

Are you looking to be the first in line for promotions, be a more compassionate and longer-lasting lover, or develop mastery over your emotions? If yes, now is the time to delve deep into the hidden mysteries of non-ejaculation.

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