Ejaculation Control Master Class (#2) — You Aren’t a Premature Ejaculator. You Don’t Know the Big Draw Technique.

Learn the big draw to manage your sexual energy

People use to gossip about how every time they saw him he was interacting with a female.

Five years ago I was living in an ashram in Rishikesh, India. An ashram is like a monastery, with similar rules. Celibacy was enforced.

There was one Indian guy who found this particularly difficult. He opened up to me one day about how he felt horny (a lot.) I could see how it troubled him deeply.

The cold water afternoon dips in the Ganges river just didn’t do the trick.

I wish I couldn’t have taught him this technique to assist with managing his sexual energy so his reputation wasn’t ruined.

In the previous master class, the Cool Draw was explained. It is to use manage your sexual energy so you don’t get too aroused.

This technique, the Big Draw is used when you do get highly aroused.

Why you need to practice the Big Draw:

• So you don’t suffer the humiliation of premature ejaculation.
• Increase intimacy with your partner.
• If you practice non-ejaculation, to stop you from ejaculating.
• Be able to direct your sexual energy to creative pursuits.

The theory

From the cool draw, you learned how to circular your sexual energy. When your sexual arousal level is very high, your whole being is consumed. If you are unable to manage your sexual energy you will drive straight for reaching orgasm and ejaculate.

Ejaculation is an involuntary muscle spasm, which through these techniques you are learning to make voluntary. This enables you to ejaculate, if at all, when you decide. You will become the master of your domain.

The big draw stops the ejaculatory spasm. You squeeze the PC muscles, especially around the sperm ducts, and ‘pump’ (ie: a continuous squeeze and contracting) the large buttocks muscles. The process of engaging these larger muscles in this area draws the blood away from your groin.

Like any method, it takes practice and time. In a short amount of time, the process will feel natural and you will use it for short amounts of time whenever required.

Cautions

The Big Draw is a dynamic practice and there are a few guidelines to follow.

Circulating. When circulating the sexual energy don’t leave it in your head. Remember to take the tongue to the top of the pallet to assist with bringing the sexual energy down to the belly.

Relaxed approach. Some men can be too aggressive in “getting” the technique. So relax and let the technique evolve. Be gentle with yourself.

Preparation. Practice on an empty stomach. Allow 2 hours after eating to practice. Wear loose clothing. Avoid drafts in the room. Breathe through your nose at all times.

Body Position. When you start the practice don’t lie on your back. Begin in the standing position. Once you are persistent then you can lie on your back.

Herpes. If you have any herpes sores, wait until they are healed.

Once you know the Big Draw you will be able to draw up your sexual energy in any situation not just during sex. Such as at work, driving the car, and in social situations.

The Big Draw Technique

Follow the instructions below to practice the Big Draw method.

1. In a standing position, pleasure yourself (masturbate) until you have a full erection. Well before the point of no return.
2. Stop for a moment and rest to ensure you have full control over your sexual energy. Contract your PC muscles firmly around your prostrate and grip your toes on the floor.
3. Take a breath in and draw your sexual energy from the perineum towards the anus and spine by squeezing the buttock muscles.
4. Like a pumping action engaging in this process. With each pumping, motion take a short inhalation. Rock your spine back and forth as if you were riding a horse.
5. Like you learned in the Cool Draw move the energy from the tail bone up the spine.
6. When the energy reaches the top of the skull, tuck your chin into the throat.
7. Look up, as if looking to the top of your head.
8. When you have pumped the sexual energy up to the head. You have done the Big Draw. Success is measured by your arousal level lowering and less tension in your erection.
9. Repeat steps 3 through 7 ten more times.
10. With the energy now in your head, visualize the sexual energy spiraling around in your head. One way then reverse the direction. Do this 9, 18, or 36 times.
11. Rest, then draw the energy down to your belly. Remember to touch the tongue to the top of the pallet immediately behind the teeth.

The Big Draw is best practice in the morning and afternoon. If you practice this at night you may find it hard to sleep.

What you may experience

When you start a strong practice like the Big Draw, there will be different sensations and responses from your body. Below is a guide on how to deal with different reactions to practice.

You don’t feel anything. If your arousal level is too low and you don’t feel much happening. Self-pleasure more to increases sexual energy but doesn’t get too close to the point of no return. The closer you get to the PNR the harder it is to manage your sexual energy.

To much. If you are too hot. Arouse yourself less. If you are very sensitive you need to find that point between being not too aroused but enough to get the energy moving. At the start, though play on the side of caution and have less energy.

If there is too much sexual energy do the following exercise.

Venting

1. Lie on your back. Bend your knees and place the soles of the feet on the ground.

2. With fingertips touching, place your hands across your mouth. With the palms facing down toward the feet.

3. Close your eyes and inhale.

4. With a smile gently exhale making the sound “heeeeee.” As you are having slowly press your hands down towards your feet extending your arms.

5. Repeat the sound and movement 3, 6, or 9 times. Imagine you moving the sexual energy down from the upper part of the body to the lower.

Keep ejaculating. If you keep crossing over the PNR and ejaculating keep contracting your PC muscles firmly to stop the ejaculation spasm. You can try to keep PC contracted as your pump the buttock muscles.

Back pain. Some men can experience back pain. If this is the case, gentle self massage the area and allow the energy to move.

Sore eyes. If your eyes hurt or you start getting a headache, this may be to you over-straining when you look up. Gently take the eyes up and don’t go beyond what you are capable of at the time.

Giddy. If your head hurts or feels “strange” there may be stagnant energy in your head. Continuing to move the energy down is the best remedy.

Irritable and angry. You can start to feel frustrated and angry if the body overheats from the amount of sexual energy. I have had this happen many times. The best practice is to continue to draw the energy down. As a last resort, you can allow yourself to ejaculate

Through consistent practice, you will experience wonderful whole-body orgasms. This has been the case for many men and can be for you as well through consistent practice.

Be the man you were destined to be. Full of confidence and fulfilling all your ambitions. The Big Draw allows you to embrace your masculinity.

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