Semen Retention: Your Ultimate Guide for Why to Control Ejaculation
Be the man you were born to be: powerful, creative, assertive, and compassionate.
Do you sometimes feel like you are not asserting yourself at work?
Are you ejaculating quicker than you would like?
Do you have a sense you aren’t as masculine as you feel you could be?
This may be due to a loss of semen through ejaculation.
When you start a non-ejaculation practice, like starting any practice, requires a big enough WHY. It’s your ‘why’ that motivates you to act.
Increase in Your Pleasure
When you learn to control your ejaculation you can have sex for longer. This is the precursor for experiencing various types of organisms.
From practicing ejaculation control I now experience whole body orgasms. Meaning the orgasm energy is not just located around the groin area. The whole body is engaged.
While it’s hard to explain this, you feel different types of sensations exploding inside the body in different areas of the body. This mainly happens in the trunk of your body.
Also, the orgasmic energy sometimes will move through my body in a wave type of experience. This wave energy physically moves my body in a wave formation starting at my toes and the energy rolls through to finish at my head.
Increase your Partner’s Pleasure
When you last longer or don’t ejaculate during sex you can have sex for longer. This translates to making it possible to have sex for longer periods. Which your partner will thank you for.
Instead of you and your partner only having sex once. You now can have sex with her multiple times she can experience multiple orgasms leading to a deepening of your connection and intimacy. Moving sex from a physical act to lovemaking.
Powerful Increase in Energy Levels
There is a huge amount of energy that is lost when you ejaculate. When you stop ejaculating the energy is no longer lost. Over a few weeks of non-ejaculation, you will have noticed higher energy levels.
After 3 weeks of not ejaculating, I can confirm this is true. This period can vary from man to man.
Health and immune system
When the body loses such nutrients and energy it’s more suspectable of illness and energy.
Discard of Porn
When you are in control of your ejaculation the need for pornography is not required. You may use porn as a way to help you get aroused. When your sexual energy is no longer lost, it’s much easier to get an erection. Hence the use of using porn becomes obsolete.
Testosterone Increases
There is a loss in testosterone when you ejaculate.
When you can keep this in the body you have the experience of feeling more masculine.
The way this manifested for me was by taking control of my career by being more assertive and being more proactive at work.
Virility
“(in a man) the quality of having strength, energy, and a strong sex drive; manliness.”
— Oxford Languages
There are noticeable changes in your staying power during sex and in other areas of yourself.
I was able to last longer during sex. Physically I was able to work for longer hours.
Increased Confidence
With internal power comes confidence. You will now have the power to assert yourself confidently in the world. Whether that be with amongst other males or females.
Emotional Strength
With this internal power comes an ability to feel more deeply into your emotions. You now can feel more deeply and feel emotions that you were not able to in the past.
Sense of Achievement
When you move more powerfully through the world you are better positioned to achieve your goals.
Mental Power
As there is no longer that drained feeling after ejaculation your ability to concentrate is greatly increased.
Self-acceptance and Self-love
A lot of doubt may arise in you from premature ejaculation and not being able to satisfy your partner. With these concerns removed, you can recognize and focus on who you are as a man without judgment.
Superior Will Power
Part of the practice with non-ejaculation is working with your need for instant gratification. With less of a tendency for seeking instant gratification for an orgasm. Your ability to control yourself increases immensely. This increased willpower will translate into other areas of your life. You will no longer be a slave to your emotions.
Creative Abilities
“Sex energy is the creative energy of all geniuses. There never has been, and never will be a greater leader, builder, or artist lacking in the driving force of sex.”
— Napoleon Hill
Sexual energy co correlates with your ability to unleash your desires thoughtfully.
Spiritual Development
Being a more powerful man allows you to focus on your investigation into who you are. This question is at the heart of all the great religions and philosophies.
What is expressed above is a result of my practicing non-ejaculation for 16 years. This is what I have experienced along with what I have seen and heard from other men’s experiences. The only way to experience these benefits is through your practice.
How to Make Your Whys Powerful?
Your ‘why’ needs to be strong and unshakeable. It’s your ‘why’ that will get you through the difficult periods. It’s managing your sexual energy and your emotions through the temporary difficult moments that will reap you the enormous rewards.
Reflection. I have kept a journal for 26 years. The latest part of my journal is 51,998 words dating back to June 2016. I use my journal to organize my thoughts, much like my writing.
Go through each why stated above. See how each point would be of specific benefit in your life. You will need to be specific and personalize each point to give it power and meaning.
Ask yourself questions such as:
1. How would non-ejaculation change my relationship with __________ (insert name of person) from my non-ejaculation practice?
2. What different emotions would I experience? What would be the intensity of these emotions?
3. How would have more intimate sex with _________ (name of your partner) change?
4. What areas of my life would change as a result of being more energetic?
Note of caution!
Not all changes will be positive. For example, I have practiced non-ejaculation with several women. Each time the woman felt by me not ejaculating that she had done something wrong. Or that she had not pleased me during sex because I didn’t cum.
Consider how are you going to handle this. Note this will change in time and she will accept it as you express to her the benefits you and her gain from you not ejaculating.
Also being a more powerful and masculine man will affect your relationships with men. Men that pushed you over before will come up against a more powerful man. This means you may clash sometimes with these more dominant males. Are you ready for that? How will you handle these situations?
This isn’t meant to be an article where you read it, think about positive things in your head, and walk away.
17 years ago when I first started this practice. I dedicated a lot of time, energy, and money to practicing non-ejaculation. I took several neo-tantric courses which included sections on non-ejaculation. I bought and read several books. The benefits were what was listed above. It’s through the actual practice that results manifest.
You will be a powerful masculine man that moves through the world with ease and a steady presence. You will now move and achieve those dreams that were nothing but unreachable goals.
When you do the practice of non-ejaculation and reflect objective on the huge impact this practice will have on your life. Your life will change. But you need to make your WHY powerful and embedded deep inside yourself.
