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mudda fukkas who tried to step to me while my white man was holding my hand to FUCK OFF!</p><p id="515c">This made my white man nervous.</p><p id="200f">Ok, I was young and stupid.</p><p id="8abd">I could have handled it better but don’t step to me and disrespect my man in front of his face.</p><p id="fda0">No, no, no-no.</p><p id="3395">Fuck You!🤣</p><p id="6162">You better recognize or ask somebody! LOL</p><p id="d135">I’m not a hothead like I use to be now though.</p><p id="a11a">This story is in response to <a href="undefined">Julius Evans's</a> story <a href="https://readmedium.com/when-black-women-date-white-men-3c3657d2af84">When Black Women Date White Men</a>.</p><p id="cdbc">Thank you <a href="undefined">Julius Evans</a> for mentioning me :</p><p id="9405" type="7">I asked Jaja, a black woman who lives in Connecticut with her husband of more than 20 years if they faced any challenges in their marriage because of the cross-ethnicities?</p><p id="ad8c">You can read my answer to that question in his article here:</p><div id="95ec" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/when-black-women-date-white-men-3c3657d2af84"> <div> <div> <h2>When Black Women Date White Men</h2> <div><h3>Interracial Dating and Marriages are Here to Stay, even with the Challenges Mixed Couples Face Historically and Today</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*CqBjXtgoKHro8m5kn8QQCQ.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="4bf1">More comments I made from that story:</h2><div id="842a" class="link-block"> <a href="https://jajarequa.medium.com/ok-isnt-that-racist-d2ed897cac21"> <div> <div> <h2>Ok, isn't that racist?</h2> <div><h3>undefined</h3></div> <div><p>undefined</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h1 id="1a76">More from me</h1><div id="d64b" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/black-supremacy-against-white-people-is-on-the-rise-f596051fb1dd"> <div> <div> <h2>Black Supremacy against White People is on the Rise</h2> <div><h3>Everyone is acting like it's Ok to be a black racist. The goal is to create “discomfort.” Creating puppets from white guilt.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <di

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Black history month series Vol. 8

Black Racist Men, who have Problems with Me being Married to a White Man

When People Sleep on You…Let them Get Their Rest!

Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash

I can’t stand when black men feel they are entitled to interrupt my conversation with my white man because they think I have made some mistake. Frankly, I was shocked by their lack of boundaries.

I had to defend my position to black men before because other than being racist, it’s just downright rude. I haven’t had to deal with situations like that for years but Julius Evans wrote an article about me and other women he interviewed about interracial dating.

His story reminded me of when I used to get pissed off at black racist men. Here is a quote from his article I just read:

Brenda from Macon, GA, said none of the black men in town will date her now because she has dated a white man in the past. Because they went to several job functions together and to predominantly black functions together, she has effectively been ‘black-balled.”

My response?

Warning: I swear a lot

A yo, tell Brenda I said stop playing herself.

Being ‘Black-balled’ by complete idiots is a mudda fuckin BLESSING!🤣🙏

She’s playing herself if she thinks she’s missing out.

She needs to be celebrating and thanking God these fools are not stalking her.

*When people sleep on you…

Let them get their rest!

🤣

Sidenote for people who don’t know what ‘being slept on means’:)

No, I’m not talking about sex, ‘being slept on’ is slang for people who are not giving you any attention because they don’t value you for some reason

She went on to say, “If we were holding hands and were approached by a group of black men, I would drop his hand for fear of their reaction. — Julius Evans

Isn’t that a racist situation?

That is fucked up…I’ve been through it but I never dropped his hand.

I was more like “black men alert…don’t worry baby I’ll protect you” 🤣

And I did.

I told those black mudda fukkas who tried to step to me while my white man was holding my hand to FUCK OFF!

This made my white man nervous.

Ok, I was young and stupid.

I could have handled it better but don’t step to me and disrespect my man in front of his face.

No, no, no-no.

Fuck You!🤣

You better recognize or ask somebody! LOL

I’m not a hothead like I use to be now though.

This story is in response to Julius Evans's story When Black Women Date White Men.

Thank you Julius Evans for mentioning me :

I asked Jaja, a black woman who lives in Connecticut with her husband of more than 20 years if they faced any challenges in their marriage because of the cross-ethnicities?

You can read my answer to that question in his article here:

More comments I made from that story:

More from me

Here is an article by an African American Black Man that share my sentiment.

My newest story:

BLACK HISTORY MONTH SERIES VOL. 7 (Even though I don’t think we need a month:)

Ko-fi is an online tipping jar. If you like my stories consider buying me a coffee to sip on while I write for you. Thank you for your support.
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