Black History Month Series Vol 4
Can a Black Person Be Racist against their Own Race?
A black man refused my family’s entry because we were black
What started out as a happy family fun day on the beach was the day I felt degraded by my own Caribbean people. This is a day I would never forget. You tell me if this is racist or just rude:
My family were the only black people on the beach and since we were from Montserrat, we had Caribbean accents. It wasn’t a beach open to locals or the public. It was reserved for hotel guests only.
My mother booked a hotel on a neighboring island from where we lived, Antigua. Obviously, their hotel beaches were packed with tourists who happened to be white from all over the world.
A black hotel employee saw us enjoying this beach among all these white people and assumed (just by the color of our skin and local accents), that we were trespassers not hotel guests.
This is an understandable misunderstanding, it was apparently rare for locals to book at this hotel.
What pissed us off though, is that the black employee brought security with him to question us on the beach before asking if were guests. My mother forgot to bring her room key with her to the beach. So we were escorted by the security officer to the hotel concierge to prove she was a guest, not a trespasser.
What was incredulous, is the black concierge didn’t seem to believe we were guests either. Apparently, it was suspected that we had all forgotten our room number and of course, go figure…our IDs were in our room.
Oh, what a nightmare, he kept repeating to us that locals aren’t permitted on the beach. Why didn’t he first take our names to check?
I bet if we were white these black hotel employees wouldn’t have treated us this way. I don’t know if I’m being closed-minded thinking this, but I definitely didn’t see anyone question the white people on the beach the way they did us.
Luckily, someone at the front desk recognized us. That person was so upset we were treated this way, she insisted on gifting us 2 free days and nights with comped meals. We didn’t even have to go up to our rooms for our IDs, she allowed us to continue enjoying the beach and sent us drinks and meals on the house.
But here’s the irony:
The hotel employee who defended us was white.
In my previous story, I mentioned that I have never experienced racism.
After that beach experience, it occurred to me that I may have by my own people.
Can a black person be racist against their own race?
A black man refused my family’s entry because we were black.

More from me:
Black History Month Series: Vol 1–10





