3 Signs You Have an Unhealthy Soul Tie With Someone
The universe is in the business of healing and restoration
1. Your Thoughts are Consumed by This Person
A soul tie is a massively deep spiritual connection with another person. It’s a strong link that can be formed after two people have been intimate physically, emotionally, and spiritually. It’s a tie that’s powerful enough to have deep and negative effects if not broken.
When you have a soul tie with someone, your soul becomes intertwined with another person’s soul and you’re entangled on a much deeper level than just the physical.
This doesn’t mean a person with whom you have a soul tie is your soul mate or twin flame. No. It’s easy to fall into that trap and not want to let go.
You can have your soul tied with a random person who is not from your soul family and whose energy may be bad on you.
The souls of true soul mates and twin flames aren’t intertwined. They aren’t in a messy entanglement. They’re branches from the same soul stream, free to flow wherever they please because they know they can always return.
Souls aren’t meant to be tied. Souls are meant to be wild and free!
When you’re tied, you’re restricted in your expansion. It’s a problem because now you’re no longer free to think or move on your own.
Nobody is exempt from soul ties. Each one of us can so easily form a soul tie with a person without even realizing it. The first sign to help you know that you have a soul tie with another person is when your mind is consumed with thoughts of this person who may not even be in sight.
It’s not about them randomly crossing your mind and you giggling crazily but it’s when you wake up in the morning thinking about them before you’ve even had the chance to say a prayer and when you go to sleep at night with them on your mind.
No matter what you do, you’re internally centered and focused on them with your mental and spiritual being as if they’re you’re entire world. In other words, you can’t get them out of your head.
You believe they’re your everything and you can’t live without them. You think of them obsessively and compulsively, day and night, good times and bad times. You may even stalk them, just to see if they’re thinking of you, too and when you find that they’re living their life, you spiral down into a deep hole of despair.
This person seems to have some sort of power over you to where it feels like they’re controlling you, whether they’re trying to or not.
If another person has consumed you and your thoughts, you need to evaluate your spiritual state and take special care to bring your attention back to God, Source, Universe, the Divine or whatever it is you call it.
The first step to breaking a soul tie is recognizing there’s a soul tie and making room for Source energy to break this unhealthy mind consuming, life-draining, soul tying attachment, and replace it with freedom and life-giving connections.
The universe is in the business of healing. It specializes in restoration. It can break any unhealthy attachments and make you whole again. All you have to do is ask and believe it’s done and do your part to put your focus on what’s most important and it’s not that person!
When you have a soul tie with someone, your soul becomes intertwined with another person’s and you’re entangled on a much deeper level than just the physical.
2. You Make Every Decision With This Person in Mind
The most dangerous place you will ever be in is when you find yourself doing things just for the recognition of another person, whether you know they’re going to recognize it or not.
When you do things to please a person who may or may not care about you. When you act out of character. When you do crazy things!
Like posting certain things regularly on social media just to get their attention or going to certain places where you know you will bump into them. Or even stalking and harassing them.
It’s dangerous because now you’ve gone from being consumed in your mind to taking deliberate action to be seen or get their attention. They’ve taken control over your thoughts and your entire being. You’ve now lost every power and become a slave to them.
If you’ve been taking deliberate action for this person, there is action to be taken on your part to break free from this soul tie. You have to be serious about your freedom or you're stuck forever!
A soul tie is too powerful for you to break on your own. You will have trouble with it. It will most certainly be a fight, and you’ll need divine intervention. You will need to pray, meditate and fast, too, to cleanse your energy and body of anything that doesn’t belong there.
Acknowledge that you are weak and need help to be delivered from this spiritual stronghold.
Everything in the universe will conspire to help you when you ask with a pure heart, but it’s only if it’s your heart’s desire to break free.
A soul tie is too powerful for you to break on your own. You will have trouble. It will most certainly be a fight, and you’ll need divine intervention.
3. You Struggle Spiritually Because of This Person
Your spiritual life can be greatly threatened by a soul tie.
When the importance you give another person replaces or surpasses the importance you give to God; when you no longer feel like praying, reading scripture or meditating, you’ve made that person your idol. This person’s energy has now rooted itself deep in your heart as the object of your soul’s deep affection.
Anything you can’t stop thinking about is an idol. Anything you love with all your heart, all of your mind, and all of your soul is an idol. When this happens, a soul tie has been given unhealthy access into your spirit and will corrupt it. It sets up shop there and rules over your entire being.
This is recognizable because now the chief characteristic of your life is fear. The fear of losing this person. The fear of them never coming back. The fear of them with another person. You can’t handle that thought.
When your life is centred on an idol in a form of a soul tie, you become dependent on that person — in ways that you’re supposed to be dependent on Source energy.
If the bond is threatened in any way, your response is panic. You break down and you feel like you’re dying. You genuinely believe that there is no hope apart from the person and that losing this bond is the end of you.
A soul tie will keep you stuck in the same place the person left you. It’ll keep you stuck in a toxic relationship you know you need to get out of. It’ll have you begging on your knees for love and affection.
It’ll make you crazy!
Soul ties are distracting. They hold you back from advancing or progressing on your spiritual journey. They hold your soul back from growing and evolving.
You have to realize it to break it.
If you’ve identified that you have a soul tie, then do something about it. Command all fragments of your soul to return to you. Ask God to restore your soul (Psalm 23:3).
Capture those rebellious thoughts and teach them to obey you.
It’s okay to not be okay, but it’s not okay to accept not being okay as your state of being.
It’s good to be okay.
With the entire universe conspiring to help you, you can break a soul tie and take your power back, but you have to be willing.
Note: This article is only meant to provide spiritual guidance and light-hearted content.
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