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The article emphasizes the importance of pursuing one's dreams from an early age and the role of family and education in facilitating this pursuit.

Abstract

The article "Why you have to follow your dreams" discusses the significance of personal aspirations and the factors that influence one's ability to achieve them.

Why you have to follow your dreams

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What does it mean to follow your dreams? Do what you like and what you want in life. Many parents give such advice to their kids, and it is true. In this life, you can be what you want from many points of view.

  • You can choose who you marry. Who to be with.
  • You can decide where to work and for whom to work.
  • You can choose what type of job you want to do.
  • You can choose who you want to be.
  • Help or don’t help people.
  • Be kind or evil.
  • Be given or a taker.

Our values and opinions we take them from two parts of life, the first and the most influential is family, and the second in school. Third and Fourth are friends and experiences in life with other people.

Many people have dreams, but they don’t always achieve what they want.

They don’t teach either family or school how to do what we want in life, and the most important is

they don’t teach us to find out what we want to do with our lives.

So how can we start doing that from an early age?

It is kind hard to answer because you have to be lucky.

If you are born to an emerging country, you don’t have many choices. You will do what others tell you, and do what you have to do to survive. You can dream, yes, of course. But it will be highly unlikely to achieve it.

The problem is with the developing countries where they have all the midpoints and comfort to achieve it and teach it, but they don’t do it.

To choose what you want to do in your life and follow your dreams, you must start at an early age.

You can’t suddenly at the age of 30 to do what you dream.

This idea has to structure from an early age and developed. You can be persuasive in different things and from that to chose and adjust. It’s hard to do it when you are at the age of 30 to decide that you don’t like your job and want to be a pilot. It is hard to achieve, not impossible, but hard.

When you are young, you can make varied opinions.

You can choose to be a pilot, have an airplane experience, and don’t like it and choose to be a doctor.

At the age of 30, you can’t finish medical school and have a job, kids, and a wife.

So what this tells us. That first, the family has to take care of the child. Not only his need and his health but also the psychological aspect. They have to communicate and find out what he wants in life to start to experiment with books and school and education, and arts find a niche where he is good at where he is not.

The school system has not only do math and history. We have to change the school system to help our kids find out what they like and what they want to be. Even if one kid is good at math, and he loves it, the school system doesn’t help him be an astrophysicist or a math teacher.

The family has to be persuasive with the kid’s needs and help him achieve what he wants to be. Help him decide what he wants to do with his life and help him straight his compass in the right direction.

It is tough work to do.

Is why families fail to make it because they only see the superficial things that mean health and needs and items.

They don’t search deep inside to every kid’s heart, mind, and desire.

Help people around you

Help your kids

Help your partner

Support them to

Achieve their dreams.

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