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Why Do We Jumble Our Life?

Our life in our hands

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Life passes just in the blink of an eye. In this brief time, we tie up ourselves with many aspects of living in the world of our own.

Simply, let’s divide life into three stages:

  1. Student age (Shishuvu)
  2. Youth (Paduchu)
  3. Old age (Vrudhabhyam)

Brain development starts from a young age. We are taught, trained, and educated with values embedded to grow into a learned man. We start earning our livelihood. And, with hormones creating a ruckus inside our body, we identify a girl, get married and make a family. We struggle for our family, physically as well as emotionally. We grow old and eventually wither out.

Image from Pixabay by Steve Mushero

Student age

When we are kids, we imitate our elders. We long to become youth as we pity ourselves that we cannot wear casuals like elders, we cannot ride our vehicle to school, and we cannot escape the dreadful homework!

One day you complete school and start going to college enjoying the initial spurt of freedom. Then comes the latest trends of side hustles, which we would like to try our hands-on and upon achievement feel very proud that we could earn. We try to find our girl early within the student age and cannot wait for it. We long for a girl-friend to move around succumbing to social pressure.

Don’t cave in to societal pressures. Being single during student age is not a crime.

Youth and mid-life

We get married and kids are born. Later, we feel bad for not educating ourselves well earlier in life and then we start giving more importance to education (thanks to MOOCs) and wealth generation (thanks to freelancing & gigs), neglecting our married life and kids.

We push our health and spirituality aside, neglecting it all throughout and focussing more once the health goes for a toss and your family indicates the distance created, every moment, back to you.

Try to juggle life in a balanced way. Every aspect has to be given appropriate weightage and then your attention, time and effort.

Old age

Eventually, we get old worrying about our family, wealth and health. We long for our children’s company but they have their priorities. We look back at our past and blame ourselves for the wrong happenings in family life. After suffering physically and mentally, one day we wither off.

Past is Past — Gatam Gatam! Stop worrying about what happened and start looking forward. Enquire about any pending matters and how to attain spiritual goals

Takeaways

  • Follow the rules of nature and do not jumble your stages of life
  • Wait for the time, your love and wealth will come searching for you
  • Keep enquiring if you are travelling in the right direction in life
  • Give your best in every stage of life. Remember that this time will never come back
  • Do not hover on your past wrong doings. Past is Past — Gatam Gatam !

Cheers !

If you enjoy reading my work and want to support me as a writer, consider signing up to become a Medium member. It’s $5 a month, giving you unlimited access to stories on Medium. If you sign up using my link, I’ll earn a small commission and you would have made my day!

If you like my work, please would you buy me a Ko-fi

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