This Is the Best Christmas and It Came a Little Early.
2023 was rough and yet...
Chelsea Marie asked that we do a gratitude list of 3. If she asked me 2 weeks ago to make this list, I probably wouldn’t have been able to. I had just broken up with my employer and my head was all over the place. My head is in a better space now so…
Divine Providence.
First, I am thankful for divine providence. I quit my job 2 weeks ago with no backup plan. It didn’t matter that my employer had repeatedly said I would take over his business. I just knew in my heart it was time to go after giving sweat, blood, and tears. Everyone was shocked, especially hubby. I doubt he had ever associated me with unemployment.
While adjusting to my new normal, a friend stopped by my place to drop off boxes of dry groceries. These were premium stuff. I shop frequently, so I have a pretty good idea of how much each cost.
That day, I was so overwhelmed with that gesture of generosity that for a long time, I couldn’t think of anything else.
I am grateful for people like her who make life a little easier for others. These people inspire and remind me that this is the season for sharing.
Hubby
I am thankful for hubby. Sometimes when you have repeated misunderstandings with someone, it is harder to remember their good side. At the moment, I appreciate hubby’s love, support, and loyalty. He does not talk as much as I do [unless angry]. He is the quiet barrel taking action without needless talk.

Friends and Family
In the last few months, I have received all-round support from friends and family. Growing up, there was always a culture of interdependency. That hasn’t stopped. 2023 was a tough year for me. My people made the pinch of 2023 less painful.
When I wouldn’t show up to family gatherings despite needing a desperate break, everyone pulled cash together so I could subsidize my flight and travel expenses.
And if I couldn’t fly, they would send stuff across at just the right moment. They would pray with me and they reminded me many times that I wasn’t standing alone.


Chelsea Marie, I have a longer list. But since I got the memo, I’ll stick to 3.





