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Summary

Chelsea Marie reflects on her gratitude for divine providence, her husband's support, and the unwavering support from friends and family during a challenging period following her abrupt job resignation.

Abstract

In a recent article titled "This Is the Best Christmas and It Came a Little Early," Chelsea Marie shares her feelings of gratitude amidst a difficult year. Despite the shock of her sudden job resignation without a backup plan, she expresses appreciation for the unexpected generosity of a friend who provided her with premium groceries. Marie also acknowledges the steadfast support of her husband, who has been a pillar of strength despite their occasional misunderstandings. Additionally, she highlights the collective love and assistance from her extended network of friends and family, which has been instrumental in helping her navigate the tough times of 2023.

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  • Marie views her decision to quit her job as a necessary step, despite the lack of a clear plan and the surprise it caused among her acquaintances, including her husband.
  • The author is deeply moved by the generosity of a friend who provided her with high-quality groceries during her time of need, seeing it as a reminder of the spirit of giving during the holiday season.
  • She expresses a renewed appreciation for her husband's quiet, action-oriented support, contrasting his reserved nature with her own tendency to communicate verbally.
  • Marie emphasizes the importance of her social support system, noting that the collective efforts of friends and family have significantly eased the burdens of the past year.
  • The article conveys a sense of optimism and gratitude, despite the challenges faced, with Marie focusing on the positive aspects of her life and the kindness of those around her.

This Is the Best Christmas and It Came a Little Early.

2023 was rough and yet...

Photo by Valerie Elash on Unsplash

Chelsea Marie asked that we do a gratitude list of 3. If she asked me 2 weeks ago to make this list, I probably wouldn’t have been able to. I had just broken up with my employer and my head was all over the place. My head is in a better space now so…

Divine Providence.

First, I am thankful for divine providence. I quit my job 2 weeks ago with no backup plan. It didn’t matter that my employer had repeatedly said I would take over his business. I just knew in my heart it was time to go after giving sweat, blood, and tears. Everyone was shocked, especially hubby. I doubt he had ever associated me with unemployment.

While adjusting to my new normal, a friend stopped by my place to drop off boxes of dry groceries. These were premium stuff. I shop frequently, so I have a pretty good idea of how much each cost.

That day, I was so overwhelmed with that gesture of generosity that for a long time, I couldn’t think of anything else.

I am grateful for people like her who make life a little easier for others. These people inspire and remind me that this is the season for sharing.

Hubby

I am thankful for hubby. Sometimes when you have repeated misunderstandings with someone, it is harder to remember their good side. At the moment, I appreciate hubby’s love, support, and loyalty. He does not talk as much as I do [unless angry]. He is the quiet barrel taking action without needless talk.

Hubby and I

Friends and Family

In the last few months, I have received all-round support from friends and family. Growing up, there was always a culture of interdependency. That hasn’t stopped. 2023 was a tough year for me. My people made the pinch of 2023 less painful.

When I wouldn’t show up to family gatherings despite needing a desperate break, everyone pulled cash together so I could subsidize my flight and travel expenses.

And if I couldn’t fly, they would send stuff across at just the right moment. They would pray with me and they reminded me many times that I wasn’t standing alone.

friends and family
friends and family

Chelsea Marie, I have a longer list. But since I got the memo, I’ll stick to 3.

Relationships
Gratitude
Friendship
Life
Providence
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