Love | Relationships
The Relationship Link Between Love and Our Romantic Relationships: A Simply Told Story
Can we love and be in a relationship with anyone?

It’s no secret that so many relationships falter and become a stone ruin homage to our souls. But, what if, says the stars above, lies a life beyond the vast sea of hurricanes that all it takes is a little bit of knowledge? Would you go?
With every sports game, there is one team that attains fewer points than the other team in a certain amount of time. There are many people out there who feel like that team in a league of dating and love.
“What do the other teams have that I don’t?” we ask.
Well, even the other teams lose at some point. We may not see it. There are many reasons for losing. Same for relationships.
- a better team, at the time, we went up against
- we made enough penalties that gave them the advantage
- key players with injuries
- coach with no victory scars and championship rings
- used losing tactics
- our knowledge of the game (love and relationship) is flawed
So, let’s change all that.
Two Pieces of the Puzzle
Love
Love, is simply us being empathetic, caring, available, curious, passionate, and patient with someone else or something (such as a dog).
Someone who can’t love needs help, even a friend. We’re not here today to be ineffective, so let’s keep things real. Even a seasoned combat warrior like Special Forces Delta can love. A lot of us soldiers can keep a good poker face, but there’s a woman out there that melts us down. A man who’s not melted down by a woman, should probably not marry her. He won’t be happy.
Relationship
Relationship, simply is a connection between two complementary pieces.
The Link: A Romantic Relationship
The link is simply the combination of the two (love and relationship).
A romantic relationship is love being transferred between two complementary pieces of a human species, where sex and offspring are involved.
We will only pay any mind to the high statistics known as statistical significance, no outlier situations. There are three components to this romantic relationship:
- love
- sex
- complementary capacity
Love
Love is a choice in a romantic relationship. For success, love needs to be chosen, in FULL, by both parties.
You DO NOT want a relationship with someone who doesn’t love you.
And who would you choose to love above all else? Not settling or marrying them just because she’s pregnant (you shouldn’t be having sex anyways, because you never know how potent the guy is). That brings us to number 2.
Sex
Sex only exists through attraction, to men.
And for women, sex exists through attraction and a complex array of male attributes (such as all women find seeing a man doing dishes as an immediate turn-on).
Again, you don’t want someone who thinks you are a 3/10. I cannot express to you the grandeur of finding someone that makes you wild and them you. Settling will only make you rot. And without good sex, you will still rot.
Complementary Capacity
This is where most men falter. Think of this as storming the beaches of Normandy.
It’s not about men being ugly, having a bad vocation, or anything else aside from her believing he does not have complementary capacity.
Complementary capacity is his being able to complement her life, to a degree that she wants to be a part of his life. People think it’s complicated, but it’s actually not. Women who find a man they are madly in love with will deplete their life for him and have literally NO regrets to the day they die. But, this guy also has love and sex, too.
As we all know, millions of men think they are a good catch. But, that is not the case. For women to see value depends on two things:
- her
- and your level of understanding
You can meet a woman like this story cover photo in the United States and she will pay you no mind, but then you find almost the exact same person in India who is attracted to you. But, then again, neither might say yes depending on his level of understanding. She has to see that his life is busy with value. Not monetary value or she will not be a woman you want to marry, but life value that extends to you taking care of her heart and her needs.
There is a humility and some lion traits that a man must have. It’s not about being fake, it’s about showcasing you are the best you.
Conclusion
Love:
Artist: Motionless in White
Songs: Eternally Yours
“In the name of love
I’m ready to bury all of my bones I’m ready to lie but say I won’t So tell me your secrets And join me in pieces To rot in this garden made of stones
I’m ready to bleed to make amends And sleep in this dirt we call our bed So tell me your secrets And join me in pieces To fall and rewrite the bitter end
Eternally yours.”
Find your compliment and complement life love.
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