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/iframe></div></div></figure><h2 id="c717">You Can Show Off Your Personality</h2><p id="c841">The video above details a simple three-step <a href="https://readmedium.com/a-simple-3-step-process-to-approaching-women-in-public-adc69645e64b">guide to respectfully approaching women in public places</a>.</p><p id="bdc5">When you do this, you don’t only put yourself to the front of the queue for a woman’s attention, you also make it easier to show her your attractive personal qualities.</p><p id="d501">You’ll show ambition, bravery and assertiveness just for having the balls to speak to her at the mall or in a coffee shop.</p><p id="3ae1">You should also find it easier to make her laugh and <a href="https://joeelvin.medium.com/how-to-make-an-emotional-impact-on-women-bae258d3b94b">leave an emotional impact</a> face-to-face, compared to over text on a dating app.</p><h2 id="2c65">She’ll Know That She Can Trust You And You Vibe Well</h2><p id="f837">Your appearance matters, but personality is INCREDIBLY important to women when choosing who to date.</p><p id="8d23">Women want to know they’ll have fun on a date, but most importantly, they want to know they’ll be SAFE.</p><p id="584f">If you have a decent interaction after approaching her in the real world, you’ll give her a great sense of how fun your date will be. She’ll have no reason to fear awkward silences or being chopped up and stored in your basement.</p><p id="fabd">A lot of women are too anxious about meeting strangers from the internet because the consequences of a bad date can be horrible for them.</p><p id="fd09">So, when deciding between meeting you again or rolling the dice on a Tinder match, a lot of women will choose you.</p><h2 id="4388">You Can Skip The Date And Head Straight To The Bedroom</h2><p id="d3bc">You <i>can</i> sleep with a woman on the same day you meet her.</p><p id="2ba6">If you hit it off and she’s not busy, invite her to your place for a drink. A lot of women will agree if they’re feeling a connection. Then, one thing can lead to another. This is especially common when you approach women in bars and nightclubs.</p><p id="a645">Maybe you’re not into sleeping with women so quickly. That’s fine.</p><p id="7d82">But, if you treat a woman well <i>and </i>you have great sex, she’s going to be more excited about seeing you again.</p><h1 id="1e08">The Odds Are Stacked Against Men On Dating Apps</h1><p id="94a5">A lot of men hate the idea of meeting women in the real world. Approaching women is nerve-wracking. Rejection can hurt.</p><p id="8b55">Still, if you’re only relying on dating apps to meet women, please know you’re playing a game th

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at’s stacked against you.</p><p id="0952">Even plain women are overwhelmed with attention on dating apps, which has led them to only swipe right on the most attractive men. Even slightly above-average guys are struggling to get matches on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and the rest.</p><p id="93ff">If they do get one, they’re unable to convey their personality as well as they’d be able to in a face-to-face conversation.</p><p id="dce3">By choosing to meet women in the real world, you’re taking your dating life into your own hands, rather than relying on an algorithm that solely exists to make the company money.</p><p id="df7e">You can learn more about this in my list of <a href="https://readmedium.com/10-secret-ways-that-online-dating-screws-men-over-7bbf7cc15b5d">10 Secret Ways That Online Dating Screws Men Over</a>.</p><h1 id="c39f">A Message For The Guys Who “Approached Women And It Didn’t Work”</h1><p id="93ac">The most common excuse among men who don’t approach women in real life is that they tried and it didn’t work.</p><p id="fee5">These men typically:</p><ul><li>approached only a small handful of women;</li><li>did it in a half-hearted manner where they were hardly acknowledged;</li><li>did it while they were sloppy-drunk at the club.</li></ul><p id="8d0b">A big reason why “it didn’t work” for these men is that they barely approached a woman who was single or available to talk. These guys also often <a href="https://readmedium.com/how-to-talk-endlessly-and-never-run-out-of-things-to-say-cee686c520">run out of things to say</a> or get so nervous that they make the woman nervous. My free e-book ‘<a href="http://www.gameglobal.net/conquer-social-anxiety">How To Conquer Social Anxiety</a>’ will help with that.</p><p id="cd34">Anyway, these problems disappear when you commit to <b>approaching more women.</b></p><p id="5bac">When you approach a lot of women, your nerves fade because you become used to it. What’s more, you’ll eventually find someone who is single and excited to talk to you, if only by the Law of Averages.</p><p id="4a43">The entire men’s dating coaching industry is founded on the fact that <b>you can get better at flirting with women with practice</b>. It’s a great form of self-development — and it should inspire you to improve your appearance as best as you can as well.</p><p id="9be9">So, it’s up to you to go outside and practice.</p><p id="e9ba"><i>If you want extra guidance, my book ‘<a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1974453308">The Thrill Of The Chase</a>’ explains how I learned to overcome heartbreak, enjoy the single life and start dating the women I really wanted.</i></p></article></body>

The Most Obvious Reason Men Can’t Get A Date That Nobody Talks About

It’s something you can change today…

If you’re a lonely single guy, all hope is not lost.

In fact, I’d argue your problem could be solved TODAY.

As a men’s dating coach and writer, I communicate every day with guys who are struggling to land a date.

The most common reason why is: they aren’t approaching enough women.

Mainstream media is beginning to discuss the male loneliness epidemic more often, but this obvious reason is BARELY EVER mentioned.

Men aren’t approaching women in the real world as often as in the past. Most of the guys who regularly do it are ‘players’, sociopaths or drunken idiots.

This might be due to reliance on dating apps, the rise of campaigns against toxic masculinity and #MeToo, or the fact that today’s young men are less masculine. Social distancing rules during the pandemic didn’t help either.

Either way, this trend presents a tremendous opportunity for respectful and charming men trying to land a date.

You can make a lasting impact on women and stand out over the hundreds of dudes in their DMs, just by having the courage to approach them in real life.

Why Approaching Women In The Real World Is Key To A Kick-Ass Dating Life

You Can Show Off Your Personality

The video above details a simple three-step guide to respectfully approaching women in public places.

When you do this, you don’t only put yourself to the front of the queue for a woman’s attention, you also make it easier to show her your attractive personal qualities.

You’ll show ambition, bravery and assertiveness just for having the balls to speak to her at the mall or in a coffee shop.

You should also find it easier to make her laugh and leave an emotional impact face-to-face, compared to over text on a dating app.

She’ll Know That She Can Trust You And You Vibe Well

Your appearance matters, but personality is INCREDIBLY important to women when choosing who to date.

Women want to know they’ll have fun on a date, but most importantly, they want to know they’ll be SAFE.

If you have a decent interaction after approaching her in the real world, you’ll give her a great sense of how fun your date will be. She’ll have no reason to fear awkward silences or being chopped up and stored in your basement.

A lot of women are too anxious about meeting strangers from the internet because the consequences of a bad date can be horrible for them.

So, when deciding between meeting you again or rolling the dice on a Tinder match, a lot of women will choose you.

You Can Skip The Date And Head Straight To The Bedroom

You can sleep with a woman on the same day you meet her.

If you hit it off and she’s not busy, invite her to your place for a drink. A lot of women will agree if they’re feeling a connection. Then, one thing can lead to another. This is especially common when you approach women in bars and nightclubs.

Maybe you’re not into sleeping with women so quickly. That’s fine.

But, if you treat a woman well and you have great sex, she’s going to be more excited about seeing you again.

The Odds Are Stacked Against Men On Dating Apps

A lot of men hate the idea of meeting women in the real world. Approaching women is nerve-wracking. Rejection can hurt.

Still, if you’re only relying on dating apps to meet women, please know you’re playing a game that’s stacked against you.

Even plain women are overwhelmed with attention on dating apps, which has led them to only swipe right on the most attractive men. Even slightly above-average guys are struggling to get matches on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and the rest.

If they do get one, they’re unable to convey their personality as well as they’d be able to in a face-to-face conversation.

By choosing to meet women in the real world, you’re taking your dating life into your own hands, rather than relying on an algorithm that solely exists to make the company money.

You can learn more about this in my list of 10 Secret Ways That Online Dating Screws Men Over.

A Message For The Guys Who “Approached Women And It Didn’t Work”

The most common excuse among men who don’t approach women in real life is that they tried and it didn’t work.

These men typically:

approached only a small handful of women;
did it in a half-hearted manner where they were hardly acknowledged;
did it while they were sloppy-drunk at the club.

A big reason why “it didn’t work” for these men is that they barely approached a woman who was single or available to talk. These guys also often run out of things to say or get so nervous that they make the woman nervous. My free e-book ‘How To Conquer Social Anxiety’ will help with that.

Anyway, these problems disappear when you commit to approaching more women.

When you approach a lot of women, your nerves fade because you become used to it. What’s more, you’ll eventually find someone who is single and excited to talk to you, if only by the Law of Averages.

The entire men’s dating coaching industry is founded on the fact that you can get better at flirting with women with practice. It’s a great form of self-development — and it should inspire you to improve your appearance as best as you can as well.

So, it’s up to you to go outside and practice.

If you want extra guidance, my book ‘The Thrill Of The Chase’ explains how I learned to overcome heartbreak, enjoy the single life and start dating the women I really wanted.