#Dating #Relationship #Romance
My 10-Point Cheat Sheet to Test If a Girl Likes You
They say girls only give subtle hints when they are romantically interested in you because they are mostly shy.
But it has always been a problem for me to understand the subtle hints.
This is because I have never been good at understanding what a subtle hint is in the context of romance.
For me, understanding a subtle hint has been like trying to solve a jigsaw puzzle.
It has often happened that the more I tried to understand a girl’s subtle hints, the more I got confused.
Eventually, the series of confusions just drove me crazy.
For example, consider the following situations:
1. I noticed her repeatedly looking at me and smiling mysteriously. But when I smiled back, she looked away.
2. She said she would tell me something tomorrow. But when we met tomorrow, she did not say anything special. It was just a regular chit-chat.
3. She playfully touched my arm during conversation and said we should hang out someday. Two days later, when I asked her if she would like to go to the park with me, she said nothing.
Was there a subtle hint in any of these?
My frustration over not understanding subtle hints led me to extensively read about this subject, and also talk to different people to know their stories.
After a long time, I finally reached this conclusion:
You should not look for subtle hints if you want to know whether a girl is romantically interested in you or not.
Instead, you should look for what I call grand hints.
The main difference is that grand hints are more explicit than subtle hints. They help you gauge a girl’s romantic interest better.
In other words, they give you a clearer picture of what is going on between you and the girl.
Subtle hints are highly likely to mislead you. I have personally experienced that many times in my life. I have also seen friends and acquaintances experiencing the same.
But grand hints are less likely to be misleading.
Although grand hints are not foolproof, they produce far more accurate results than the ever-confusing subtle hints.
That, undoubtedly, will help you a lot in your romantic ventures.
I compiled the grand hints into something I call a 10-point cheat sheet.
The points are applied in a way that will draw a comparison between the girl you want to test and an imaginary girl.
But they can also be applied to two real girls if you are interacting with both of them and want to test which one is romantically interested in you.
Of the two girls, the one who will tick all 10 boxes is far more likely to be romantically interested in you.
I want to remind you again that grand hints are not foolproof but they will produce far more accurate results than subtle hints that regularly put you, and many others like you, in a state of confusion.
