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I Gained 80% Desire After Doing This

Women: It boosted my relationship by 80%

A woman’s intimate life is like a roller coaster that goes up, down, loops, and repeats all over again. But what if there was a simple way to break this loop and make it flow like a river? Well, there is and I’m going to tell you how it improved my relationship from water to wine.

It all started when I did some searching online and found the excellent work of sex therapist Emily Jamea, where in a nutshell I learned something valuable that would boost my relationship by more than 80%. That’s because everything she says impressively improves your intimate life.

You must be wondering how miraculous it must be to be able to accomplish such a feat. But this has nothing to do with miracles but with the human mind and the infinite ways in which it works.

Crazy, right? I know.

I also used to think to myself, “Oh, taking care of my thoughts isn’t going to change the fact that my relationship is going from bad to worse.” But apparently, I and thousands of other women were wrong about that.

The fact is that before I read about this therapist’s work, my relationship with my partner was not at its best. Of course, it wasn’t something so serious that it could lead to a breakup, but I was already starting to feel the wear and tear of time on our relationship.

Therefore, when I read her work and started to apply everything she talked about in my daily life, I was able to realize that a simple change in mindset can boost not only the relationship but also sexual health and love between couples.

If you are also curious to know what “miraculous” advice I learned after reading the articles published by sex therapist Emily Jamea, come with me and I’ll tell you below:

1. Stop, breathe, and focus

There is nothing more annoying in a relationship than having intrusive thoughts when it comes to “action”.

“Do I look good in this position?”, “Is my partner enjoying this?”, “Is my cellulite showing?” — Intrusive thoughts are, as the name already describes them, they are forms of thought that invade our minds at times when they shouldn’t and make everything seem so boring.

I know that many women suffer from this, and I am part of this group, but it is important to create constraints to control this. It is these types of worried thoughts that give rise to unnecessary fights, unnecessary anxiety, etc. And this all affects the relationship on a critical level.

Therefore, whenever this type of thought appears in your mind, do the following: take a deep breath, do a light meditation, relax, imagine the current of a river flowing, and calm down — This will definitely help you take control over the situation.

The best thing is that this technique can also be used during “action”, as it makes you increase your senses and feel more pleasure, trying less hard. Try experimenting with this next time.

2. Have days off

You may be together now, but you weren’t born together. Therefore, make space for both of you to breathe fresh air — Take days off from each other.

It’s not healthy to be glued to your partner 24 hours a day, seven days a week, as you both need space to discover yourself and grow. You see, a rose cannot bloom in a place where the sun doesn’t shine. The same happens with a relationship, if there is no space to breathe fresh air, eventually the love will wither.

For this reason, create a day off for both of you. It could even be on a Saturday, as it is usually a day when both of them will be free from work.

In other words, take this day to have fun with some friends while he takes this day to enjoy with his friends. Both are happy and at the end of the day, there can still be a night of love to make the mood lighter. Try it!

3. We are one, not two separate parts

A couple is a pair of people who decided that being together in a relationship was the best way to enjoy each other’s love and company. So tell me why do you still act like you’re two parts of an apple separated in half?

A relationship should be like a magnet: either the two are together for everything, or they both move away from each other and move on with their lives.

I know there is an issue of pride and selfishness in all this, but a relationship is not made to go through that. A couple should be like a single person who makes their decisions together — Therefore, talk to each other more, tell the other what is wrong (when you feel that something is not as it should be), and leave your mind open to accept opinions that overlap yours. Make sure the relationship is lived as a couple, that is, don’t be so strict about everything.

Final Thoughts

Once I started having these small mindset shifts, I started to see positive results in my relationship. I started to understand my partner better, our casual fights reduced, my excessive jealousy was controlled, etc. — It was like the train was back on track, lol.

I hope this article was useful to you at some point. I’m still inexperienced with relationships, but I’m still doing my best to learn more and more about the topic.