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, but don’t do it all the time. The best combination to be tricky is to take advantage of one of the situations above to fit this technique.For example, compliment your partner and then be sly about how they didn’t reciprocate your kindness or something like that. Make him feel that you really still love him and that there is a chance that your relationship will work again. Something inside your partner will definitely move after this.Complimenting, showing jealousy, and being a little sly are techniques that involve people’s feelings. In other words, you will make her unconsciously remember the beginning of the relationship and feel again what she felt for you at the beginning of everything.<h2 id="771d">2. Learn to Listen, Have Priorities, Avoid Fighting Over Nonsense</h2>After the compliments stop, the partners reach a slightly more serious point: they stop listening to what one has to say to the other.Listening is a gift in a relationship. This is because, if you listen to what your partner has to say, you will most likely both be able to have a decent dialogue that leads to something other than getting slapped.For example, if your partner accidentally drops the dishes and breaks them, you don’t need to curse him immediately, let him talk about what happened.The dishes could have slipped out of his hands, and he could have cut himself and dropped the dishes — There are many reasons why this could have happened, and the same could have happened to you — However, if you start swearing at him immediately, he you won’t be able to explain what happened and you both won’t reach a peaceful agreement. All you will achieve without stopping to listen to what your partner has to say is resentment and hatred.That’s why having priorities is something important in a relationship you want to revive. In other words, prioritize what is really important to the point of leading to a couple’s fight — For example, set the priority levels to low/medium/high and avoid unnecessary stress. See how this works:<ul><li>He left the towel on the bed (low priority): Give him a verbal warning and talk about how it bothers you</li><li>He drank too much and came home late (medium priority): Invite him for a sincere conversation and establish points that you both agree to improve so that your relationship is fine</li><li>Cheated on you with your friend (high priority): Kick him out of the house and move on with your life</li></ul>Solving things based on priorities takes a lot of weight off your shoulders. Furthermore, this prevents you from starting to fight over any nonsense — In other words, it prevents small daily fights from continuing

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to fragment your relationship.<h2 id="2870">3. Try New Things, Make Memories, and Do Something Together</h2>Now that you’ve started praising each other again, you’ve learned that the best way to understand each other is by listening to what each other has to say, the time has finally come to start rekindling that burning fire that you have in both of you — It’s in time to take action!Try new things, get out of your routine, create memories together, and form a true connection by doing some activity as a couple. Doing this will create new experiences for you, it will make things feel beautiful again, and it will reignite the weak fire in your relationship like when gasoline and matches combine.<h2 id="7c1e">4. Give Space, Be Considerate, Build Trust</h2>Like a flower, a relationship also needs space to breathe and thrive. In other words, take one day a week so that you can both enjoy your own solitude.<a href="https://www.waldenu.edu/online-masters-programs/ms-in-clinical-mental-health-counseling/resource/the-benefits-of-taking-time-for-yourself">It’s important to take time for yourself</a>. The benefits of enjoying your own existence without someone to interrupt are phenomenal and healthy in any relationship. Therefore, take time for both of you to be away from each other, a single day is enough.But be considerate when necessary. Show your partner that even though you are far from him, you are there to support him at any time he asks you to.Make her feel confident in having you by her side, make her feel like you are one of the few she can trust, and show her that this is really true.<h2 id="0507">5. Talk About Your Feelings, Be Honest, Practice This Constantly</h2>Talk about your feelings, don’t keep them in your heart. If you feel like something is bothering you, don’t hesitate to call your partner for a frank conversation, throw your cards on the table, and get rid of the feeling of tightness in your chest.Be honest while talking about your feelings. You need to show your partner that everything that comes out of your mouth is the purest truth, he needs to feel that you are really serious about it and that it is not some paranoia created by his imagination.Last but not least: practice these tips constantly.After all, this isn’t something you do just once and expect to have incredible results forever and ever, this is more like a car that needs maintenance every 10,000 kilometers. In other words, always maintain your relationship, as this is what will give it more energy and useful life.Thank you for reading this far. To the next!</article></body>

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Techniques for an almost perfect relationship

Recently I’ve been reading some interesting articles about how to rekindle the cold flame of a relationship and I came across some very cliché facts and others not so much. In fact, there are more stupid things about this topic on the internet than things that could actually be useful in everyday life.

But by browsing a lot, I managed to take advantage of it all. I was able to understand what works and what doesn’t. I assimilated this with my life and the lives of many of my friends and came to the conclusion of what really works and what is just cheap speculation.

The crazy thing about it all is that I tested in practice whether this really works, and I also recommended that some friends also test this at home to see what would happen — The results were simply incredible. They simply said that their relationships with their partners evolved a lot after that.

If you are also interested in making that weak flame strong, if you are interested in rekindling the passion that once existed between you two, if you want your relationship to become the wonder it was and last for the next 50 years — Try these things I will comment on below and draw your own conclusions.

1. Compliment, Show Jealousy, Be Sly

One of the first things to wither in a relationship that’s going downhill is compliments. You may notice that partners stop praising each other over time and this ends up generating that horrible feeling of: “Is nothing I do useful for him/her?”

Therefore, for those who want to rekindle the flame of passion, it is essential to praise your partner. Talk about how he dedicated himself so much to something and managed to get there, compliment his hair, steal, smile — Anything you think he’s really good at, compliment him.

Also, show a little jealousy with everyday things. Don’t exaggerate and don’t chase your partner like a maniac, be light and discreet. Show that you care about that person and that you are afraid of losing them to someone, but don’t do it in an obvious way, make it sound sublime.

Sometimes it’s also good to be sly, but don’t do it all the time. The best combination to be tricky is to take advantage of one of the situations above to fit this technique.

For example, compliment your partner and then be sly about how they didn’t reciprocate your kindness or something like that. Make him feel that you really still love him and that there is a chance that your relationship will work again. Something inside your partner will definitely move after this.

Complimenting, showing jealousy, and being a little sly are techniques that involve people’s feelings. In other words, you will make her unconsciously remember the beginning of the relationship and feel again what she felt for you at the beginning of everything.

2. Learn to Listen, Have Priorities, Avoid Fighting Over Nonsense

After the compliments stop, the partners reach a slightly more serious point: they stop listening to what one has to say to the other.

Listening is a gift in a relationship. This is because, if you listen to what your partner has to say, you will most likely both be able to have a decent dialogue that leads to something other than getting slapped.

For example, if your partner accidentally drops the dishes and breaks them, you don’t need to curse him immediately, let him talk about what happened.

The dishes could have slipped out of his hands, and he could have cut himself and dropped the dishes — There are many reasons why this could have happened, and the same could have happened to you — However, if you start swearing at him immediately, he you won’t be able to explain what happened and you both won’t reach a peaceful agreement. All you will achieve without stopping to listen to what your partner has to say is resentment and hatred.

That’s why having priorities is something important in a relationship you want to revive. In other words, prioritize what is really important to the point of leading to a couple’s fight — For example, set the priority levels to low/medium/high and avoid unnecessary stress. See how this works:

He left the towel on the bed (low priority): Give him a verbal warning and talk about how it bothers you
He drank too much and came home late (medium priority): Invite him for a sincere conversation and establish points that you both agree to improve so that your relationship is fine
Cheated on you with your friend (high priority): Kick him out of the house and move on with your life

Solving things based on priorities takes a lot of weight off your shoulders. Furthermore, this prevents you from starting to fight over any nonsense — In other words, it prevents small daily fights from continuing to fragment your relationship.

3. Try New Things, Make Memories, and Do Something Together

Now that you’ve started praising each other again, you’ve learned that the best way to understand each other is by listening to what each other has to say, the time has finally come to start rekindling that burning fire that you have in both of you — It’s in time to take action!

Try new things, get out of your routine, create memories together, and form a true connection by doing some activity as a couple. Doing this will create new experiences for you, it will make things feel beautiful again, and it will reignite the weak fire in your relationship like when gasoline and matches combine.

4. Give Space, Be Considerate, Build Trust

Like a flower, a relationship also needs space to breathe and thrive. In other words, take one day a week so that you can both enjoy your own solitude.

It’s important to take time for yourself. The benefits of enjoying your own existence without someone to interrupt are phenomenal and healthy in any relationship. Therefore, take time for both of you to be away from each other, a single day is enough.

But be considerate when necessary. Show your partner that even though you are far from him, you are there to support him at any time he asks you to.

Make her feel confident in having you by her side, make her feel like you are one of the few she can trust, and show her that this is really true.

5. Talk About Your Feelings, Be Honest, Practice This Constantly

Talk about your feelings, don’t keep them in your heart. If you feel like something is bothering you, don’t hesitate to call your partner for a frank conversation, throw your cards on the table, and get rid of the feeling of tightness in your chest.

Be honest while talking about your feelings. You need to show your partner that everything that comes out of your mouth is the purest truth, he needs to feel that you are really serious about it and that it is not some paranoia created by his imagination.

Last but not least: practice these tips constantly.

After all, this isn’t something you do just once and expect to have incredible results forever and ever, this is more like a car that needs maintenance every 10,000 kilometers. In other words, always maintain your relationship, as this is what will give it more energy and useful life.

Thank you for reading this far. To the next!