How To Make Your Penis Feel Bigger During Sex
Methods from a sex expert that actually work
The popularity of penis enlargement clearly shows how much penis size matters — at least to men.
According to Google Trends, Mississippi tops the list of US regions hungry for more size. The same data labels the following terms as “breakout searches" exploding with high interest:
- Penis enlargement surgery in the USA
- Cialix male enhancement
- Penis enlargement surgery in the US
How widespread is penis shame?
The British Journal of Urology compared 60 years of research and found that only 55% of the men in over 50 separate studies were satisfied with the appearance of their penis.
Notably, 85% of their female partners said that they were satisfied with the appearance.
Physically bigger is not always pleasurably better for a woman, but most men would still prefer their penis to extend further and/or wider. However, not everyone wants to pop pills or go under the knife to get there.
Luckily, I stumbled across a YouTube video from Caitlin V. Neal, a sex expert. In her video, she teaches men a few ways to make their penis FEEL bigger during sex.
The Friction Method
Most of the time, the go-to recommendation for sex experts is more lubrication.
However, there is a friction hack with using the right amount of less lubrication. Say again?
The key is to use enough lubrication so that your female partner is comfortable but not so much that your penis slips in and out of her vagina without notice.
A little bit of friction can actually make your penis feel larger when you’re having sex.
Why does this actually work?
When you introduce a comfortable amount of friction, you mimic the experience of a woman having sex with a man with a larger penis. In other words, even with lubrication, a woman is still likely to feel a larger penis penetrating her.
Of course, if you’re going to err on the side of caution, lean into more, not less, lubrication.
Takeaway: Introduce a small about of friction along with just enough lubrication.
The Robot Finger Method
Another method to make your penis feel bigger during sex is to use what I call the robot finger method.
It’s a strange name for two simple but effective strategies.
The principle behind the method is that a bigger penis takes up more space in a woman’s vagina. Duh, right? I know, I know. But stick with me for a moment.
This method uses your fingers or sex toy, a.k.a a robot, to give your partner the sensation of receiving a larger member.
You can insert one or maybe two fingers into her vagina when you are already inside of her. Likewise, you can approximate the same experience with a small dildo or vibrator.
To be clear, you insert your fingers or the sex toy into her vagina at the same time your penis is also inside of her.
Fisting, it seems, is an extreme version of this method.
Takeaway: Use a small dildo or your fingers to fill any excess space.
The BS Method
A third method for simulating a bigger size is to use the PS approach. PS stands for “B spot.”
If you don’t know where this is located it is because I made it up. The “B” stands for butt or bottom. To be precise, the B-Spot is the G-Spot accessed from inside a woman’s anus or butthole.
I’m talking about anal sex.
As an article on Yahoo.com eloquently put it, Butt Orgasms Are Real. When you stimulate the G-spot through anal sex, you can give your woman a powerful orgasm.
Quora user Ben Harrison put it this way:
Women who enjoy anal sex often enjoy it on account of the fact that it’s different yet the same. During anal sex its is completely possible (and rather easy) to stimulate the sensitive parts of the vagina through anal sex. Combining the pleasure of both areas can lead to….. let’s say nice results.
Not every woman is into anal sex and probably very few women are into anal sex 24/7.
So, as with any kind of sexual engagement with anyone, make sure that you talk about anal sex before you do it. Always get consent and definitely make sure that you have plenty of lubrication.
Since most anuses are tighter than most vaginas, you’ll quite naturally feel larger inside of her butthole.
It’s a simple method that people sometimes forget.
If you’re going to practice anal sex, be sure to follow the scientific best practices for better anal sex.
Takeaway: The smaller size of the anus makes your penis feel bigger.
The Old King Clancy Method
In one of my favorite sitcoms, How I Met Your Mother, the main characters find a book of supposed Canadian sex acts.
One of the most famous and mysterious was called Old King Clancy.
Since it was never fully explained in the show, I thought I’d borrow the term for this method.
I’m not referring to a single-sex position, but many.
Doggie style, missionary with her legs squeezed tightly together — in these types of positions, your penis will feel bigger to your female partner during sex.
Takeaway: The right positioning will make your penis feel bigger.
Is There a Legitimate Non-Scammy Way to Increase Your Penis Size?
Actually, yes.
The world of penis enlargement is rife with scammy products and snake oil.
The sad reality is that there is little a man can do about his penis size, at least naturally. There is, however, one method that research in the British Journal of Urology suggests actually might work.
That method? Penile extenders.
Penile extenders stretch the penis over time to extend the length.
The BJU review concludes:
We briefly analyze the efficacy and scientific background of such non-surgical methods of penile lengthening. It seems that penile extenders represent the only evidence-based technique of penile elongation. Results achieved do not seem to be inferior to surgery, making these traction devices an ideal first-line treatment option for patients seeking a penile lengthening procedure.
Follow-up research in 2011 and 2013 supports these conclusions.
It should be noted that the studies required men to use penile extenders for four hours per day for six months. The resulting length averaged right around .07 inches.
Final Thoughts
The male obsession with size might find its roots in an old novel.
Steven Moore, author of The Novel: An Alternative History: Beginnings to 1600, points out:
It's the first novel [Satyricon by Petronius] in which the size of a male character's genitals is noted, a detail you hardly ever get in George Eliot's novels.
I suppose, like most men, I’d like to be just a little bit bigger.
I find men tend to approach penis size the way billionaire John D. Rockefeller famously approached money. When asked how much money is enough money, he joked, “Just a little bit more.”
I’d like to end this article by reminding you that the vast majority of women are satisfied with the size of their partner's genitalia.
Especially if those men know the best ways to go down on her and how sex coffee can give her super intense orgasms.
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