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line.</b></p><p id="4fdd"><i>One I had moved tirelessly over our eight-year marriage.</i></p><p id="bc47">A year later, I pack up my three- and one-year-old little boys and head to my sister’s. I announce I am done to my townhouse buddies and say goodbye. I have no intention of returning.</p><p id="ded9"><b>I don’t have a plan but I also don’t have a fear.</b></p><p id="564e"><i>My mom raised her children alone, so can I.</i></p><p id="a913">A delivery man knocks on the door. As he hands me the flowers, I say, “If those are from my husband, he would need to buy the entire store for me to come back.”</p><p id="f935"><b>After three weeks, he wears me down.</b> He convinces me he is not only willing to go to marriage counseling, but he will also find one. I am resistant, but I cave. I’m not sure why.</p><p id="651d"><i>I am still young and possess the moxie my independent mother filled me with, unaware I will one day lose it.</i></p><p id="914d"><b>No one is going to mistreat me.</b></p><p id="67b5">And I have now identified the cycle.</p><p id="39b8"><b>The reason my loveable charmer turns evil twice a year.</b></p><p id="c0e7"><i>The switch flips around my needs.</i></p><p id="acdc"><b>Day to day, I ask nothing of him. </b>But<b> </b>if I need to be picked up from oral surgery anesthesia, ask for a room to be painted, a holiday to be special, get mad at him for staying out all night playing cards, or question him about anything.</p><p id="2497">All hell breaks loose.</p><p id="5e67"><b>The beauty bursts, the beast emerges.</b></p><p id="b2e3">Exactly the result when my doctor challenged him. She told him what to do. This is something you never do with a narcissist. Because no one tells them what to do.</p><p id="e081">They decide the outcome of their world.</p><p id="354c">Or you unleash their anger.</p><p id="7d9c"><b>And expose the cruel beast.</b></p><p id="59a6"><i>The narcissistic hunger won’t fade until fed.</i></p><p id="266b">My husband put me in my place because my doctor made him mad. Someone has to pay for making a narcissist do what they don’t want to do. They will exact punishing revenge to regain their control.</p><p id="3c94">They will get their way even if another tells them they can’t. He wanted to work, not cancel his appointment. So he showed me he could.</p><p id="d532"><i>We go to marriage counseling.</i></p><p id="8035"><b>It’s a bandaid.</b></p><p id="adbd">It takes a highly specialized counselor, psychologist, or psychiatrist to identify and diagnose Narcissistic personality disorder. That professional won’t enter our lives until years later.</p><p id="a180">But for the next six years, I feel as if I have my best friend back.</p><p id="4136"><b>It’s cycle-free.</b></p><p id="841f">Knowing what I now know, even I find this impossible to believe. I’m not exactly

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sure why. Either it was —<i> ‘narcissistic in it to win it,’ </i>mode or he wanted to retain a version of his world. The man with a successful career and a beautiful family.</p><p id="fbd3"><b>It was the first time I left.</b></p><p id="8419">But it wouldn’t be the last.</p><p id="3904">*HOW did your narcissist lack empathy? I’d love to hear your examples. I give further examples of mine in the following two articles.</p><div id="da96" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/3-words-i-repeatedly-said-to-a-narcissist-db968d1667bc"> <div> <div> <h2>3 Words I Repeatedly Said to a Narcissist</h2> <div><h3>A clue something was terribly wrong</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*F0iaOVPH3SkzSm-mU7LaHA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="c040" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/a-true-narcissist-lacks-empathy-ff7d6338843b"> <div> <div> <h2>A True Narcissist Lacks Empathy</h2> <div><h3>Unfortunately, I can tell you what that looks like</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*1MCOVBZOxxS6h5cbgOarLQ.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="fbb6" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/about-me-colleen-sheehy-orme-9b12658f5b9"> <div> <div> <h2>About Me — Colleen Sheehy Orme</h2> <div><h3>I have always been motivated by love</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*IZgS20QSDDgtFnXeCqBuFA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="f7a7" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/the-7-super-early-relationship-mistakes-i-made-ea5c833bc7be"> <div> <div> <h2>The 7 Super Early Relationship Mistakes I Made</h2> <div><h3>I gave away my power and became vulnerable</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*iLhKaJ2OvJrj114TsNKjtQ.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

How to Launch Your Career As A Prompt Engineer — A Guide for Creatives

New career paths in AI emerging for creative professionals

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One of these exciting new roles emerging in the field of AI is the Prompt Engineer, a position in which creatives with a strong command of language and a specific field of expertise can excel.

In this post, we’ll explore where you can find the necessary resources for your first steps to get your AI career off the ground.

So what’s A Prompt Engineer?

It’s true that the term “prompt engineer” is sensationalized and overused by so-called AI influencers promoting their expensive online courses (which are often nowhere near the quality of open-source learning environments, see below).

However, the demand for prompt engineers is real, especially in industries that are experiencing significant upheaval due to the transformative potential of AI.

The job of a prompt engineer sounds simple: they use their language skills to create prompts. What makes creatives particularly well-suited for this emerging profession: they often have mastered the language and intuition of their field.

For example, storytellers can instinctively tell when a second act is too short, when a midpoint is well-placed, or when a climax comes too soon. More importantly, they have the linguistic skills to communicate these insights.

In the past, they would communicate such ideas to their dramaturg or producer. Now, with the advent of AI technology, creatives are needed to guide AI language models in creating accurate and contextual responses. By crafting effective prompts, they can improve AI-powered applications' user experience and functionality.

Steps and Resources to Launch Your Career as a Prompt Engineer

Natural Language & Code

Prompt Engineers need a deep understanding of natural language as well as a very good understanding of programming languages. Not only would a Prompt Engineer profit from pseudocode commands and data structures, but they also needed to know about the programmatic possibilities and constraints of the AI systems they work with.

What to do:

  • Practice translating your field’s lingo into prompts and pseudocode, and think about how you could describe your field’s details to a machine. Systems like ChatGPT and GPT-4 come with vast knowledge, but you have to be able to explain to them what it is exactly what you want them to do.
  • Familiarize yourself with programming languages like Python, commonly used in AI and NLP applications, and Javascript, the language behind many web development frameworks. You don’t have to be a coding expert, but knowing how to spin up a demo app showing your client a specific workflow with GPT-4 definitely helps to get the gig.

Learn Everything about the Tech

In order to communicate with an AI system, you have to know how it works. In order to find solutions for clients, you have to know how their problems can be tackled and which tools are available to accomplish that.

What to do:

  • Write tools that use publicly available AI models to solve tasks. Having to deal with model documentation and interfaces will teach you a lot about the underlying technical processes.
  • Follow key opinion leaders and educators in the space. Twitter is a great place to find experts that curate the immense amount of AI-related research papers that are dropping daily.

Get Started!

You need to network and collaborate in your area of expertise. Find out what problems people in your niche have when it comes to AI and address them.

What to do:

  • Connect with professionals in your field, attend workshops, and participate in online forums to stay updated on industry trends and opportunities.
  • Organize free webinars to teach people a basic understanding of AI applications in your field.

List of Resources

Here are some more resources you might find helpful:

Prompt Engineering

Free resources and learning environments:

More:

https://www.learnprompting.org

https://www.youlearnai.com

https://github.com/dair-ai/Prompt-Engineering-Guide

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Free online courses:

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