Do You Feel Like You Are Disconnected From Your Twin Flame? Check These 3 Signs
Your twin flame is mostly far from places you can see it often. This is not disconnection, it is introversion
Although our bond with our twin flame may seem like an intense and passionate love at first, it is the emergence of powerful energy within us. The twin flame bond draws its strength from the infinite divine source. Therefore, even the word “strong” will not be enough to describe the unbreakable of this bond. The twin flame bond is eternal even if you don’t care for it. Because you cannot live without your soul. Our soul is the source of our life spring and all our human characteristics. It means that a person whose soul is extinguished is no different from the new generation of robots.
In my article where I explained why the twin flame bond is unbreakable, I mentioned that the reason why this journey is special is because of the very strong bond between the two people. This bond comes from the source of the same spirit, mixes, and becomes solid by transforming into a single energy. This tells us that the love within us must be given to ourselves as well as to our twin flame. When you don’t give yourself love, your twin flame will move further away from you.
Don’t be fooled by the exhausting intensity of love you feel for your twin flame. It’s just our body’s reaction to the emotional chemistry we feel. In reality, the twin flame gives us the importance of self-discovery rather than physical passion. But if what we are looking for is only physical attraction and desire, we may not see what our soul is looking for. When we part with our twin flame, the passion continues, but the body seeks another warmth. When distance comes between feelings and passion, we feel as if we have been cut off from our twin flame. This is just an illusion inside our minds.
In this article, we’re going to talk about 3 things to check when you feel disconnected from your twin flame.
Where are you looking for your twin flame connection? What does this connection mean to you?
If we’re talking about the twin flame connection, it’s a very different concept than getting on the bus and seeing your barista crush working from any cafe. In this context, where you look for your twin flame is also important. Your twin flame is mostly far from places you can see it often. The universe has carefully designed this so that we can be alone with our own essence. In a way, this is a good thing if you live away from your twin flame. Constantly trying to see him, and having a lot of opportunities to communicate with him prevents us from taking care of ourselves. That’s why our twin flame may be closest to our hearts but physically farthest from us.
The place to look for our twin flame here is in our hearts. Look into your heart, feel your body. Sit in meditation. What does your inside tell you about your twin flame? At what point did you really break with them? Does this disconnection you feel come from your fear that you will never be able to reunite with your twin flame? Or do you physically desire your twin flame? After asking these questions to yourself, it won’t take long for you to get the answers. Your soul always gives you the information you need. It is your job to evolve yourself to perceive what is necessary.
Check out these 3 signs if you’re feeling disconnected from your twin flame
You are not looking at your progress in spiritual awakening
Our progress in our spiritual awakening is shaped by caring for ourselves, recognizing ourselves, respecting ourselves, and not accepting anything less. The twin flame journey starts with realizing that you neglect yourself too much. It is the sum of many events that show you that you are not living this life for yourself, but that you are striving to make others happy. Or, in my case, you find yourself avoiding people because they’ve always ignored you and now you’re burying your own worth. In both cases, the main message is clear. You must learn to care for and value yourself.
Learning to value oneself is one of the most difficult lessons. Because we spent a certain period of our lives acting in a conditional way. That’s how we treated ourselves. We said to ourselves, “If you have such a salary, you can do this”. Or we define our worth by our weight, the clothes we wear, and our success. We’ve never done anything to honor just who we are. Because we were nothing in society as we are.
On the twin flame journey, we take off our masks one by one. As we take off our masks, we turn inside. Here we disconnect from ourselves and reconnect to ourselves. Energy mirrors our unstable sides in our relationship with our very twin flame. We control our emotions. How do I feel toward my twin flame? But then we feel their absence because we sit alone at home. The point of disconnection with our twin flame is where we try to perceive it with our physical body.
Now we have to go back to our soul and feel that way. Because separation from our twin flame will never separate us from it. Bring your focus from your physical body to your heart to discover yourself. Turn your mind away from the life of your twin flame to yourself.
Your control habit is making things stagnant
It’s driving you crazy not hearing from them, isn’t it? I know this feeling. It’s a feeling of relief if I just know everything about my twin flame. We feel like we can’t move on with our lives if we don’t know everything. Something inside our minds is pressing us. Our heart begins to beat faster. This is not a curiosity. This is not love either. We know what this is. It is the feeling of controlling everything within us that drives us. And the one thing we can never do in the twin flame journey is to control the process. My control comes from the feeling of knowing everything. I want proof. Are you living well? Do you still love me? And my anxiety is getting more pronounced.
My mind tells me that if I don’t know everything, I will never be happy. I do not reject any of them. I stopped being mad at myself a while ago. But the important thing is to know that this is nonsense and does not come from our hearts. No, you don’t need to text or post a photo on Instagram to know that your twin flame is okay. Go to your heart, and ask your higher self before going to sleep. Or look at the masses of emotions that suddenly come into you. They describe how their twin flame feels. But do you really have to know that? This is the main question. We must accept that our twin flame is also a person with free will and remember that the only person we have responsibility for is ourselves. That’s why we should take care of our own mental health.
You have a resistance to feeling love
The twin flame journey comes from unconditional love. Unconditional love, on the other hand, is accepting someone as a whole with their faults and goodness. Even if your twin flame is not with you, it is simply loving its presence. Because the energy of our twin flame is inside us and it spreads throughout our body. To feel this love we have to let go of all our conditioning. But unconditional love comes from such a pure source that it is frightening for human beings trying to hold on to life with their ego
Because almost none of us believe that we can be loved just for who we are. We look in the mirror and believe that if we close our acne and remove our dark circles, we will be lovable being.
We avoid it when the twin flame journey shows us how lovable we are. I ran away. I still feel like I’m running from love. Although I have received the love in many different ways throughout my life, I never thought I could be loved romantically. I was thinking that I needed to have different features for this. And I didn’t have any of them. But then I felt the love of my twin flame. It was unlike any emotion I’d experienced before.
It was effortless, like feeling the warmth of a burning sun and the refreshing effect of the ice-cold sea at the same time. I felt that if I surrendered to this love, I would be shattered. So I tried to protect myself from the dazzling brightness of the sun.
Our resistance to love weakens us. We don’t have to do anything to deserve love. But we must tell ourselves that we deserve it. This means to ourselves “you are valuable”. You are valuable and deserve everything you want. It doesn’t matter if others give it to you. You grow up when you realize that the phrase “Give yourself what you want first” is not a cliché. Love is nourishing. Our first food from infancy is love. This does not change in adulthood. We still need love to be healthy enough.
Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about the mind, hard feelings, and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams, you can start your medium subscription from this link
