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The article discusses the importance of privacy in a twin flame journey, emphasizing the personal and intimate nature of this spiritual connection and the potential risks of sharing it openly.

Abstract

The article "Why Shouldn’t You Tell Everyone About Your Twin Flame Connection?" delves into the reasons for maintaining discretion about one's twin flame experience. It explains that the twin flame journey is a profound and unique energy exchange akin to a personal sanctuary, such as one's bedroom, which should not be openly shared. The author suggests that the emotional intensity and fragility of the twin flame relationship make it vulnerable to external misunderstandings and misuse. The article also touches on the potential for confusion and skepticism from others when discussing the concept, which can lead to unsolicited advice and negative energy that may hinder the journey. It is emphasized that the twin flame connection is a personal soul contract that should be nurtured and protected, with the understanding that not everyone will comprehend its depth. The author concludes that keeping the twin flame journey private is essential for its integrity and progress, and that the focus should be on personal growth and heart-centered interactions rather than external validation or labels.

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  • The author believes that the twin flame journey is a deeply personal and spiritual experience that requires careful consideration regarding whom to share it with.
  • It is expressed that sharing the twin flame experience with those who do not understand it can lead to misinterpretation, invalidation, and negative influences.
  • The article suggests that the feminine energy has a guiding role in the twin flame dynamic and that the masculine energy may struggle to comprehend the concept without proper heart chakra opening.
  • The author advises against openly discussing the twin flame journey with family and friends unless they have experienced spiritual ascension, as their advice could be detrimental to the journey.
  • It is opined that the twin flame journey is a private contract with the soul, and its true essence lies in actions and being rather than in labels or external acknowledgment.
  • The author emphasizes that the journey's progress can be slowed down or contaminated by the thoughts and feelings of others, which may not align with one's own spiritual path.

Why Shouldn’t You Tell Everyone About Your Twin Flame Connection?

Because twin flame journey is like our bedroom. We can’t let everyone in

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It is an energy that carries very rare healings in a twin flame. Energy is unique to us, but we transform this energy source and benefit people as well. My writing of this article makes twin flames feel relaxed while also contributing to those on spiritual ascension. I combine this great energy inside me, which I do not know where to put it, with my profession and transform it into something concrete. This is essentially one of our twin flame missions. Transforming the energy within us is an important contribution.

One of the things we need to pay attention to in the twin flame journey is where and how we pour this energy. That’s why we can say that our twin flame journey should be shared in a way that protects its privacy. I agree with this sentence, but I would like to emphasize some points. The intimacy of the twin flame journey comes from the fragility of the intensity of emotions within us. Emotions are so fragile that we cannot control them inside. This can increase the vulnerability of our emotions to outside influences.

Because when we don’t know what to do with our emotions, when we are confused, we want to gather information from everywhere. When we distribute our energies everywhere in this desperate mood, there will definitely be people who will not use them well and will give false information.

That’s why we need to be very careful with who we talk about our twin flame journey. In this article, we’ll talk about the reasons why you should keep your twin flame journey private.

Should we tell our twin flames ‘we are twin flames’?

I never did this because I knew that telling our twin flame that we were a “twin flame” wouldn’t mean anything to them. If they do not know the concept, they will look at the content of the concept from their logical inner voice, which will make it difficult for them to understand the connection. You can act however you want about it. All we need to know is that knowing the twin flame tag will not make this journey any easier.

It is more important to make sense of some situations, as the divine feminine energies stand in a more open channel to spiritual energies. What masculine energies need to do is open the heart chakras. But knowing this term can confuse them even more. The masculine energy, which has not opened its heart to twin flame love and is struggling with its ego, may see this information as “madness” and close itself further to the connection.

This is why I believe the primary purpose of the twin flame concept should be nurtured at the heart of feminine energy. The feminine energy is the guide. The feminine energy leading the path need not prove anything to the masculine energy. Because the divine masculine energy will increase with the self-development of the feminine energy. We should try to move forward with the beauty in our lives and ourselves, without getting stuck with concepts.

What if I tell my family or friends that I am a twin flame?

Another issue involves confusion about explaining the concept of twin flames to those around us. I had a very difficult time with this. There was a volcano inside me that was always burning and never going out. Since I couldn’t tell anyone what I was going through, I was so full that I was crying every day. The only person I talked to was my counselor, but I wanted to talk more often. But the twin flame journey was a spiritual phenomenon. People were confusing the twin flame journey with the toxic love stories from the movies. So telling people you’re a twin flame meant being prepared for anything you might hear.

When you tell people about a spiritual experience, they may tell you a lot that it’s all nonsense. Because people find common experiences “normal”, they won’t see how much effort you put into finding yourself, both emotionally, spiritually, and physically. When you tell your twin flame to your friends, you open your energy to theirs. Although this energy is conserved, it is quite sensitive.

They will often tell you to let go of the person you think is your twin flame. If you don’t have enough information and you still haven’t cleared who you are in your head, it can be difficult to set boundaries with what you hear. This means that 3rd person energies are involved in your twin flame journey. If you listen to the advice of others instead of your own heart, you will be stuck in the twin flame journey. Do not tell anyone who has not experienced spiritual ascension about your twin flame journey.

Because they will not understand you. This is a scenario of what could happen. You know the energies around you best.

Why shouldn’t I tell everyone I’m a twin flame?

1. Not everyone can understand the twin flame journey

Twin flame journey is an existence at very deep levels. None of the people around you have experienced a twin flame. Or they may not be willing to experience deep ups and downs within themselves. The twin flame journey appears on the surface as a psychological disturbance. Because this journey is the soul’s journey of healing. All the ailments that arise in our psychology are actually for the purpose of healing us. When you find people who understand twin flame travel, you shouldn’t miss this rare chance. But I see no harm in keeping the details of such a rare thing to myself. Because my twin flame journey is like my bedroom.

2. The twin flame journey is a contract between you and your soul

When we came to this world, we promised to touch the hearts of people and ourselves as twin flames. To do this, we needed a tender heart and a deep soul. We didn’t learn to empathize, we were doing it automatically. That’s why everyone wanted to tell us about their troubles and relaxed next to us. It is not “we” that makes people feel this effect. It is our soul. Our soul always knows its purpose and even if we don’t understand it, it reaches people in need. That’s why we can sometimes say how I had a relationship with this person or became a friend. But they all had a purpose.

The twin flame journey must be kept confidential as it is a contract with our soul. If you openly tell someone that I am a prophet, they will probably think that you are trying to get attention and that you are fake. Truthful things are not said openly. Because “how” we are is more important than “what” we are. Being a twin flame doesn’t matter. What we do as twin flames is important. We must first touch our own hearts. That’s why we shouldn’t tell everyone about our twin flame journey until we find ourselves.

3. Your twin flame journey may slow down

Opening the energy field of your twin flame journey to everyone can change the nature of the energy here. If there are 10 people in a room, there are more than 10 emotions, thousands of thoughts, and energies of many different dimensions. Do not bring the energy of the people you tell about your twin flame journey to your world. Because this is a flower that you have worked and grown. You do not want someone to water your flower without your knowledge.

This can slow the growth of the flower or rot it. So are the thoughts and feelings of others. After all, one of the purposes of the twin flame journey is to cleanse ourselves of beliefs that do not belong to us. Do you need new ones? You can think about it from this point of view. If you feel like you have to tell a lot about yourself, you may want to consider talking to a trusted counselor or someone you trust.

As a result, situations that require you not to tell everyone about your twin flame journey may include reasons such as the twin flame energy being a private space, your vulnerable emotions, and unwittingly affecting your twin flame journey. What matters is what you need in your heart.

Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about mind, hard feelings and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams, you can start your medium subscription from this link:

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