What Happens When You Reject the Twin Flame? Watch Out for These 2 Signs
Your light is very bright alone, but you came to this world to shine with another star
Although people are creatures born with a spirit, they also have many tangible features in the physical world that keep them away from their souls. In my previous articles, I talked about concepts such as ego, fear, and pride that drive twin flames away from each other. Today, I’m going to talk about a concept that looks physical but is purely spiritual in the twin flame journey.
Denying the twin flame.
Rejecting a twin flame does not mean that either party no longer wants the other. The issue here is not the separation of a couple on a physical plane. What I want to talk about is the twin flame rejection, the desire to put an end to this journey inside the person. Is it possible? How would we feel if we did? How can we avoid getting tired from this journey? In this article, we will look at the answers to these questions
What is twin flame rejection? How does it happen?
The twin flame journey is a heavy and arduous journey. On this journey, we first wash from scratch and begin to rediscover everything about ourselves as if we were building a skyscraper from scratch. No matter how old we are, destroying every thought or life we have become accustomed to is not easy. Our body wants to go back to everything it is familiar with. Our soul is strong enough to carry everything, but our body can resist the high energy coming from our soul. It is very difficult to drag a body that clings to the ego self to change.
Twin flame rejection begins to occur when one of the parties on the twin flame journey gets stuck in the ego self and feels unable to carry all the messages it receives from the core self.
We resist understanding and being open to the messages that the soul perceives and carries from our higher self to our physical self. In other words, twin flame rejection is actually a war we wage against our souls. Because rejecting a twin flame is not like breaking up with an ordinary lover. It is much more painful. You can’t forget your twin flame when you don’t look at its photos when you don’t see it. Their spirit lives within you, trying to break away from them will also unbalance your chakras.
In the runner and chaser phase, when one of the parties rejects their twin flame, they think that they can escape from it with all their being. But in fact, that person is only running away from themself the shadows they cannot bear to see and intense love.
How do we feel when we reject the twin flame?
I have often tried to reject my twin flame spiritually. Because I thought that all my efforts were in vain. But there were things I couldn’t understand. My efforts could not have been based on his noticing me. My efforts were built on everything I had ever ignored myself. In fact, with every step I took forward, my love for myself increased. I understood that I did not need any external factors to shine my own light, my talents. So why was I constantly trying to banish the presence of my twin flame from my soul and life?
Because I had a pain that did not go away. I was whole as one, but as I did not accept a part of my soul, it was as if my powers were suspended in limbo. You know that feeling. There will be a meaningless pain in your stomach and heart. It sounds like you are having digestive problems. But in fact, the unbalanced energy emanating from your heart chakra affects other chakras as well. So my spirit was warning me. “Your light is very bright alone, but you came to this world to shine with another star”
Our twin flame is our teammate. It is our mirror with which we share our life mission and soul. So to deny its existence (whether with or without you) is to betray your own soul. When you reject yourself, your body begins to react. Because the body cannot live without the soul.
How can we get over the feeling of rejecting our twin flame?
Not resisting ego death
We should look more carefully at the concept of ego death. The thoughts that cause us to reject our twin flame come from our injured inner child who is afraid of getting hurt. Our injured child can very easily be fooled by our ego self. Because the ego knows our most sensitive parts. Our ego self has brought us up since childhood. Now we are trying to declare our independence as adults.
Separating the feeling of rejection from ‘inadequacy’
Letting ourselves go to the love we feel will naturally dissipate feelings of rejection. The love in our hearts softens us. “Rejection” is a powerful stimulus that also triggers our worthlessness. That is why we must remind ourselves at every opportunity that we are already “complete”. When we reject our twin flame, we do not gain our freedom and end our suffering. Or vice versa, even if our hearts are torn to pieces when we are rejected by our twin flame, this does not make us incomplete. It all happens only within our universe. Overcoming this illusion allows us to progress more effectively on the twin flame journey.
As a result; Your twin flame’s ego is not something you can change. If you often tend to reject your twin flame within, you will need to look at how your own ego is holding back your ascension. Working for your awakening and self-happiness will raise your twin flame at the same rate. So the only solution is to keep walking the path to our authentic selves without complaining.
Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about mind, hard feelings and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams, you can start your medium subscription from this link:
