9 Uncompromising Artists Who Taught Me How to Unlock My Creative Potential
I found the secret to my success. Here’s what I learned from Marilyn Manson, Keanu Reeves, J.R.R Tolkien, and Nikola Tesla. And something they all have in common.
“I must be fucking cursed.”
The hard truth is, if I don’t love it right away, I usually won’t do it. I thought writing on Medium wasn’t for me, and I spent over a year convincing myself with endless justifications that this was the irrefutable truth.
Turns out I was dead wrong.
Now I am engaging with Medium every day and the community has been warm, welcoming, unique, and indispensable.
I’ve had many experiences like this before. Being obstinate and then mulling things over is actually part of my creative process, so I’ve learned to accept it.
I’m allowed to be a stubborn idiot, it’s how I grow, and I’ll own that.
I don’t put too much stock into personality types, but I think they’re an interesting way to explore our tendencies, so this little dilemma brought to mind an article I was reading a couple of years ago. It was a comparison discussing the differences between the “rarest” personality type, INFJ (held by lots of people I admire), and INFPs (that’s me).
It went a little something like this:
INFJs have outward organization, and they’re thinkers. This makes them appear more structured and allows them to present a more impressive show of their creativity. They are much better at judging a situation based on facts, and getting organized comes easier, so their resulting successes are more readily seen and felt. They are also more prone to utilizing facts, feedback, and real information.
INFPs, on the other hand, run into a big problem. We are feelers, and often aren’t living in “traditional reality.” Instead, we retreat to individual, inner worlds fueled by personal values, phases, inspirations, and moods.
We can be highly subjective and prone to idealism and fantasy, so we more easily and willingly become tortured artists, dreamers, and wounded healers. To complicate things, we aren’t always action-oriented. Our motivations come from somewhere deep within, and our closely held values might interfere with seizing opportunities that others would consider a “no-brainer.”
As an INFP I can confirm that this is dangerous when left unchecked, and these habits are unconscious tendencies that are best handled with a good dose of gentle self-awareness. This isn’t exclusively an INFP trait though; lots of creatives out there can relate to the struggles that come with being connected to a deep inner world.
It’s okay for creativity to be a messy, even emotional experience. I choose to contemplate my own “creative cycles” and try to harness that irregularity to my advantage. It’s actually quite powerful. Following your own lead is an essential part of creating your own type of success , and finding confidence in your creative style and capabilities is how you do that.
Sometimes there’s an air of certainty that exists within the bardo of creativity, but like anything in that space in easily subject to change or transformation. When Medium didn’t fit into my worldview, I quickly cast it away (or so I thought), but I’ve learned over the years to pay attention to the things I discard that continue to nag at me.
It’s sort of my failsafe.
And do you want to know why joining Medium nagged at me?
I was looking for a creative outlet, a place to share my work, and Medium was an unexplored sandbox. It still feels like a mysterious and fertile land where my creativity can lay down its roots, and then cross-pollinate in an enriching environment.
I needed Medium, and I knew it deep down, I also needed the time to come around. The timing was actually perfect, because when I decided to join I wasn’t just ready to write, I was ready to write honestly and bare my soul, which for me is the purpose of doing it.
When I started, I could barely get organized enough to write and plan a blog post without getting overwhelmed and mentally exhausted. Now, you know who’s the king of pacing himself and getting into the flow of things?
This guy.
At least, most of the time…
I share that just to illustrate that if you’re an emotional creator, like me, there’s a place for you at the table. Sensitivity, vulnerability, and depth may not appeal to every reader in our drive-by, smash-and-grab internet culture, but as my marketing coach told me a few years ago,
“You can’t talk to everybody at the same time online, you’ve got to talk to somebody. And it better be somebody who cares about what you’re saying.”
Marilyn Manson Actually Cracked the Code
In the article I mentioned earlier (which I couldn’t find, so I’m still paraphrasing here), they used Marilyn Manson as an example of the “rare” INFJ creative genius. He can read the people and he knows what they want, he also capitalizes on what they don’t.
Despite major opposition (and because of it), he created desirable and relatable experiences for a supremely niche audience, expressing his creative style in such a way that he formed a dedicated “cult following” (no pun intended).
Manson knew when to be edgy and how to grab people’s attention, and by doing so he got people talking, thinking, and talking some more. He immortalized himself in our society where he was on everyone’s lips, for a period of time.
They talked about him at church, we passed around his tall tales, and he proved time and time again that there is no “bad publicity.”
The Marilyn Manson persona may or may not represent who he is in his private life, and it probably doesn’t, but he can treat his passion and creativity like a means to an end without feeling a sense of loss or creating an ethical dilemma. He knows what works, and he’s even been willing and able to recreate himself.
And I respect the shit out of him for it.*
Even if I outgrew his music in middle school, I still catch myself humming “The Beautiful People” from time to time without realizing it, and during certain blockheaded political eras, I would love to wipe my ass with our flag if it was more hygienic.
Who doesn’t love a little dash of anarchy in their dull, repetitive life?
Here’s the problem though, Manson’s strengths are not my strengths. I only know how to create from an intense, passionate, and frenetic inner world. If I’m honest, I make most of my decisions using this process, so why would my artistic side be any different?
I’ve learned to temper the destructive nature of those tendencies, but I absolutely do not have my finger on the pulse of the people.
I can barely find a popular hashtag, even with the help of the internet.
What I care about or find deeply interesting, most others do not seem to care about, at least not in the same way. I’ve learned the proper way to do things, but I also resort to my own unique methods, sometimes even successfully. I highly value recognition and success, but I won’t cheapen or alter who I am to obtain it, and when I decide to do something it has to feel like the “right thing” at the “right time.”
Yes, I’m aware that these are highly idealistic values, but they actually allowed me to build a successful business as a professional psychic medium ten years ago, ahead of society’s spiritual boom, and develop a lasting reputation that brings clients in every month with virtually zero advertising effort.
Not bad, right?
I still battle with myself every day about doing things the “right way”, but I am quicker to remind myself that I have my own way of doing things, and it ain’t half bad.
Still, the second time around, while building a writing career, I’m making adjustments. Mainly, I plan to dial down the idealism just a tad and embrace a bit more convention.
Edgar Allen Poe, Keanu Reeves, and J.R.R. Tolkien Walk Into a Bar…
So, who do we, the wayward and chaotic people of this society look to as role models? On the surface, Marilyn Manson would be the perfect weirdo, and I mean that as a compliment, but I find myself taking inspiration from the likes of Edgar Allan Poe, Nikola Tesla, and Vincent Van Goh.
Also, from fellow INFPs like Tori Amos, Keanu Reeves, Helen Keller, and the uncompromising J.R.R Tolkien (who hated cars, and once referred to himself as “like a Hobbit in all but size”).
Much to my surprise, Google claims that all of these talented and successful people are INFPs, save for Tesla (who Google says is an INTJ).
These are creatives who connect with their souls, they and their works are immortal in the hearts of the people. I admire them as role models, not just for their creative products, but also for how they handle their struggles, stick to their ethics and ideals, or teach me what not to do by example.
I’m looking at you, Tesla, a fellow dreamer who may have trusted people a little too much. Also you, Poe, and Van Goh, who showed me that proper mental health is not an option, even if a bit of crazy makes for a proprietary blend of creativity that’s impossible to duplicate.
If you compare Marilyn Manson, a “rare” INFJ, to Bob Marley, a fellow INFP, there’s a striking and obvious difference. Manson may be a magnetic firestarter, but we love Bob Marley for his heart, and he lives on in ours. His suffering and joy, which he brought to life through his music, immortalized him.
Unlike Manson, he was probably very similar in real life to how he presented himself on stage. Rather than using an alter-ego, he likely entered a “creative zone” instead.
Marilyn Manson’s impact could slowly disappear from mainstream society just as he eventually did from the media and we may not even notice, but try imagining a world without Bob Marley. For me, that’s like imagining salt without pepper, peanut butter without jelly, or toast without jam.
I don’t just think his name will keep floating around, I expect that it should in a world that is right. He will always be on somebody’s playlist, even when we live in space.
Especially when we live in space, and we’re missing home.
(Very Guardians of the Galaxy, isn’t it?)
Bob Marley is a bard for at least 3–4 generations of people. We connect with him to feel more human, not to bring life to an angsty and repressed side of ourselves that’s only welcome in certain spaces. That’s why his impact is lasting, he was not the flavor of the week or a decade.
Listening to Bob Marley’s music makes us feel whole, and if he was anything like myself and the other INFPs I know, creating what he was passionate about, sharing it, and touching the lives of others made him feel whole too.