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7 Must-Have Qualities Of The Top Picks For Your Inner Circle

Curating that small, intimate circle that will come to exert considerable influence on your life and to some extent, your thoughts

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Definition

So we know who we're really talking about, your inner circle is that small, exclusive group of people who are not only very close to you but they are people that you accept, understand, trust, and are truly committed to, as they are to you.

This core group is said to best hold up to five people who will, by virtue of being very close to you, come to know some of the intimate details of your life -dreams, vulnerabilities, strengths, etc.

Why an inner circle is important

A solid inner circle is important for your peace, growth, and success in life. The people in it provide you with support during tough times even if it’s just a listening ear, and they will be a source of comfort and joy in the good times. They will also be a source of wisdom offering you guidance when needed.

Who makes the cut

Apart from being obviously true friends whose level of commitment to you has never been diminished by time or distance, the people you let into your inner circle must have the following qualities:

1. they should give you a sense of community with them and make you feel safe and comfortable enough to be yourself;

2. they must be people who can fearlessly hold you accountable and you can expect well-reasoned and unbiased feedback even if it contains uncomfortable truths;

3. they are loyal but not blindly loyal because their integrity will compel them to always address your shortcomings with the necessary feedback, and even if everyone abandons you (especially after a setback or disappointment), they will still be around to have your back and they will defend you even behind your back;

4. they are not threatened by growth and success,

5. they open your eyes to new perspectives or opportunities,

6. they will celebrate with good times and will support you during the bad, and finally,

7. having some older people in your inner circle is always a good idea because with age comes wisdom and experience which are invaluable qualities when it comes to giving you advice.

Takeaway

Having a strong and carefully curated inner circle is essential for all the reasons highlighted above. We all need support, advice, encouragement, and motivation from time no matter how independent or self-sufficient we may think we are.

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