Spiritual Bypassing

3 Things That May Happen When You Raise Your Vibration

People will not like you very much

1. You’ll Feel Misunderstood

Everything you do and say will look and sound crazy.

Your friends won’t understand why you won’t go out with them anymore. They’ll think, “What happened to you?”

You’ll think there’s more to life. People, places, and things you used to tolerate will no longer resonate. Old habits will no longer resonate. If you used to smoke, the thought of it will make you sick. Negative self-talk? Never! The news all day every day will no longer work for you.

You’ll quit everything that doesn’t serve you, including relationships, friendships, and jobs. You won’t look back.

Your family won’t understand why you’ve suddenly changed. You’re talking about writing for a living. They can’t understand. They won’t understand why you stopped doing certain things you once enjoyed doing like eating meat. You used to love meat and now you act as if people eating meat is a sin they are going to hell for. They won’t understand why you keep playing those weird spiritual music all day long when you’d normally be listening to hip hop.

“You are meditating and burning incense. There’s a candle burning that looks like you’ve been gazing at. Who are you?”

Your family and friends will look at you as if someone else is inhabiting your body. They will worry about you. Your friends will tell you to snap out of it already. They’ll think you are losing your mind. Everybody will wonder what in the world happened to you for you to change so much. Your mother will think you went and joined a cult or something. She will worry. Nothing you do will make sense. She’ll wonder, “Where did you even learn those things?” She’ll pray.

Nobody will understand you. People will talk behind your back. They'll look at you funny. You'll shake your head at them. If only they knew. If only they could see. If only they would wake the hell up. They’ll judge you and you’ll judge them.

Your ego will jump in the driver's seat.

2. Your Spiritual Ego Awakens

Your spiritual ego will come alive and you’ll roar. You’ll judge your family and friends for their ignorance. For their reluctance to open their eyes.

You’ll think no one understands you because you're vibrating way higher than them. You'll think you're only high vibes and everybody is low vibes. You're wide awake and they're fast asleep. Your eyes are wide open and theirs are shut tight. You‘re in the clouds and they’re stuck on the dense earth. You're not coming down.

You develop this perspective that you are better than everyone else.

Everyone else is just stuck in the matrix and refuses to wake up. You see yourself as the master. The teacher. You think you have it all figured out. You have the answers people need to free themselves, but they just don't want it.

They complain their lives suck, yet they don't want to do anything to actually improve it. They still party every weekend. They eat and drink junk food. They don't even know what the hell meditation is, and they still argue about the lies on the news.

“What's wrong with them?’’

You see people engaging in low vibrational thoughts and activities, and you point your finger. You judge them for the way they live and the things they don’t want to learn from you. It makes you sad, but it's their life. People can no longer relate to you, and you can’t relate to them. You won't allow them to bring you down though, so you put up a big wall to protect yourself.

You're weird, and they're asleep. That’s when the problems begin. People will not like you very much, and you’ll start to feel really alone.

As you raise your vibration, all the low vibrational things in your life will come up to be dealt with. They will come up for you to look at and process, including your ego.

3a. Things Begin to Fall Apart

The universe will slap you in the face. You got it all wrong! You’re supposed to raise your vibration, but this is not how it’s supposed to be. Everything will not go your way and people will not worship you just because you vibrate higher. You’re not high and mighty.

People won't do everything you say.

This will seriously bruise your ego. You thought you had it. You didn’t. You knew nothing. You take several steps back and you really look at things.

Things will start falling apart so you can get it right. Your old self-image, your old identity, and your old ways of looking at things will start to break down. Your self-destructive ways will also break down.

As you start to get it right, all the low vibrational things in your life will come up to be dealt with. They will come up for you to look at and process, including yourself.

You’ll learn that everybody is on their own path and what works for you won’t work for someone else. You can’t force people to like the weird things you like.

You’ll learn that spirituality is all about loving and accepting people for who they are. It’s about having compassion for those who don’t know the things you know. You’ll start all over again and this time you’ll do it right.

3b. Things Fall Back Together

You’ll stop looking at people as high vibrational and low vibrational. People are just people doing the best they can with what they have.

You’ll see everyone as equal and connected to you in one way, shape or form. You’ll learn that people are perfect just the way they are, and it isn’t your responsibility to change anybody.

You’re only responsible for yourself.

You’ll stop judging people who may not be on the same frequency as you, and you'll understand that everyone is in your life for a reason.

You’ll stop being bitter and angry at people for not getting you. When you cross paths with people who don't understand you, you’ll learn to be okay with it. It will not bother you at all. You’ll stop trying to get them to understand. You’ll learn to bring the focus to yourself.

You’ll let people be who they are. You’ll stop trying to get them to see the things you see. You'll see how that creates resistance because people don’t want to be sold to.

You may still want to help them, but you’ll do that indirectly by being yourself. By following the things you’re passionate about. When they see you living it, they want to live it too. They will come to you wanting to learn more.

You’ll attract others who really get you. You’ll no longer feel alone and you’ll have people in your life who will be the ones to start the weird conversations with you. They’ll be your people and you have compassion for everyone else.

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