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r definition of success is going to be different from mine.</p><p id="ed3e">There is one commonality on our paths to success.</p><p id="c4a9"><b><i>Learn our hard lessons and take lessons with us. Leave the emotional scars in the past. It has happened, and nothing we do today is going to change it.</i></b></p><p id="1866"><b><i>What we can do is to forge ahead mercilessly.</i></b></p><p id="2f10">The snail does not stop. We can do the same. The snail cannot abandon its heavy load (it is attached to their bodies), but we can.</p><p id="f280">That is one advantage we have.</p><p id="7ef1">We got to be smarter than them … am I right?</p><p id="bb47"><b><i>Stay Light And Be On The Strike!</i></b></p><p id="164c"><b><i>Aldric</i></b></p><p id="3a34"><b>Related Stories from the Author.</b></p><div id="4d6d" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/look-if-we-think-the-cup-is-the-problem-we-can-change-it-dabf0196d0e2"> <div> <div> <h2>Look, If We Think The Cup Is The Problem — We Can Change It.</h2> <div><h3>Are you unhappy over something? Do something about it. Sometimes, all it takes is to change the way we think and we get…</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*8rLPzTjMnpZCJ33c0x4-fA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="0e9d" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/you-have-to-think-like-a-termite-to-achieve-great-things-48890e27b4a5"> <div> <div> <h2>You Have To Think Like A Termite To Achieve Great Things.</h2> <div><h3>Bite one bite at a time and the entire table collapses. No matter how big the table is.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*_nsh_wGkxFP8Xe-sqg183A.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="0fd1" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/our-fingers-takes-4-500-actions-to-produce-a-3-minute-story-give-them-a-break-4b42c4cb81b6"> <div> <div> <h2>Our Fingers Takes 4,500 Actions To Produce A 3-Minute Story. Give Them A Break!</h2> <div><h3>If we write — Our fingers are our greatest asset. Do we give them the break that they deserve?</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com

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You Have to Jettison The Snail’s Burden to Excel in Life

Stay light to strike.

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Have you seen a snail? There is every reason they are slow. They are dragging a heavy load around wherever they go. Is that a problem? It is if you think it is.

Have you tried to carry a 10kg sack of rice from your neighborhood grocery store back home? How fast can you go? Are you still able to run 10 kilometers in 40 minutes? Well, it will take a lot to convince me.

And that is an important life lesson we have to learn, which most of us never do.

Here goes. Let go of your load. Let me be clearer. Let go of your emotional burden. What we cannot see kills us.

I repeated my A ‘Level’ during my Junior College years. It bugs me till today. Yet, I have to admit that I learned so much from it. The School of Hard Knock delivers the most valuable lessons via failure.

I learned that cheers and jeers are delivered by the same group of people when circumstances change. When I was the top student, they blow hot air up my ass. When I collapse, some flock away. Others turn around and step a few steps before going away.

That incident is now 20-years old. The wounds have healed, but the scar remains.

And to my point — This is a good thing. I see that side of human nature that I would have never seen if I continue my life trajectory of success.

I learned 2 things.

  • Lessons are there for a reason. Let them stick.
  • Battle scars are there for a purpose. They teach us to be humble.

We have to embrace humility to progress. The reason is simple. We fail our way to success. If we cannot deal with failures and start bailing out, we will never progress as an individual.

Make a trip to the gym, and we can this happening in a controlled environment.

Deliberately getting heavier dumbbells to lift creates immense stress on our muscles creating fiber tears. When it heals, they build more strength within the muscles. This explains why we can lift heavier loads over time if we keep pushing our envelope over time.

We pursue success in our individual way. That is the case because your definition of success is going to be different from mine.

There is one commonality on our paths to success.

Learn our hard lessons and take lessons with us. Leave the emotional scars in the past. It has happened, and nothing we do today is going to change it.

What we can do is to forge ahead mercilessly.

The snail does not stop. We can do the same. The snail cannot abandon its heavy load (it is attached to their bodies), but we can.

That is one advantage we have.

We got to be smarter than them … am I right?

Stay Light And Be On The Strike!

Aldric

Related Stories from the Author.

About the Author:

As a content contributor, I write my observations from daily life and my business exposure.

Because our life experience is the bedrock of our unique perspectives.

As a Consultant by training, I believe in making the complex simple.

Because simplicity adds value.

And with clarity — We grow.

Follow me for my stories on Medium!

This is more “About Me”.

Do reach out and say hi on Linkedin and Twitter!

Self Improvement
Life Lessons
Reflections
Self
Success
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