Why You can not find the Woman you want according to Jordan Peterson
Dr. Peterson spitting some cold hard truths…
I just saw a video on Youtube by a well-known clinical psychologist and professor Dr. Jordan Peterson talking about the dating problems of many men. He speaks the hard truth that is probably painful for many men.
But admitting it is the first step to improvement.
Nowadays a whole generation of men is in a real crisis as far as success with women is concerned. I recommend reading this article first, where I described the shocking dimension of this development before you look at Jordan Peterson’s advice.
Peterson reports, also from his own psychological treatments of men, that many men blame women for their failure in the dating game.
Peterson warns against this attitude.
Why should all women be wrong for finding you unattractive? They’re probably right. You are wrong. You need to level up.
One trend that shows that men need to improve is that significantly more women are earning college degrees than men. Peterson even calls this a failure of boys in education.
Another big problem is the consumption of pornography, which is an easy way out that more and more men are using. They deprive themselves of their motivation to approach women and work on themselves by crawling into artificial intimacy behind a computer screen.
However, most women are looking for a partner with at least an equal education. To judge women for this is absolute nonsense. After all, this tendency is in their nature. They have to be more choosy than men because there is so much more at stake for them as they can get pregnant.
Who wants to have to raise a child with a loser?
Ask the right questions
The only helpful attitude is, to be honest with yourself and try to level up if you have issues attracting women that you want to fix.
With the following questions, Peterson has nailed it, I think. Therefore, I will simply quote him at this point:
Have you paid attention to how you dress?
Do you have a plan?
Are you as educated as you could be?
Are you a liar?
Are you a rapid pornography user?
How many women have you actually asked out?
Are you trying to bat out of your league?
To sum it up
- Don’t blame women.
- Chances are, you are the issue.
- If you put in the work, results will come.
- Ask the right questions.
Be a little stronger, dress a little better, speak a little more clearly, aim a little higher- Jordan Peterson
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