avatarYan Huang

Summary

The article "Why We Should Cry For Humanity’s Sake?" advocates for the emotional release and therapeutic benefits of crying as a shared human experience that connects us and aids in processing a range of emotions from pain to joy.

Abstract

The article emphasizes the importance of crying as a natural mechanism for emotional healing and expression. It suggests that tears can alleviate pain, celebrate goodness, and intensify the experience of love. The author encourages crying during moments of vulnerability, such as when receiving a comforting hug after a period of isolation, or when witnessing acts of kindness and beauty in the world. The piece also acknowledges the role of tears in coping with loss and finding hope amidst challenges. Crying is presented as a universal human experience that can occur at any significant life event, and it is described as nature's way of lubricating the eyes and releasing feel-good hormones. The author concludes by expressing hope that everyone will experience the cathartic power of tears and find support in genuine human connections.

Opinions

  • Crying is a beneficial emotional response that can carry away some pain from the soul without erasing memories.
  • Tears can be a reaction to profound experiences of love, goodness, or encounters with the divine.
  • The act of crying can be a response to both positive and negative extremes of human experience, such as the joy of reunion after social distancing or the sorrow of saying goodbye.
  • The author believes that crying is a natural and necessary part of life, akin to nature's best eye lubricant and a source of emotional comfort.
  • There is an appreciation for the community and the support it provides, especially in the digital age, as exemplified by the author's gratitude towards the founder of TBIN, Lucy Dan, for fostering genuine connections.
  • The author values authentic storytelling and aims to share truths with humility and thoughtfulness.
  • The article conveys a sense of optimism, hoping that those who currently do not

Why We Should Cry For Humanity’s Sake?

In sickness and in health, in joy and in sorrow, we cry together

Image cropped by author/ Photo by Sergi Montaner from Pexels

Cry, if you must,

As tears roll down your cheeks, they also carry some pain away from your soul, but never the memories.

Cry, if you must,

When touched by the goodness of an angelic spirit, by the goodness of God, or by something greater than us.

Cry, if you must,

When you feel a deep fuzzy oozy kind of warm love, the groovy kind of love;

When you see a litter of puppies making their way around Central Park or baby cubs learning to cross the road for the first time.

Cry, if you must,

When all is lost, and the guardian angel appears, showing you a glimmer of light to pave the way out of the maze.

When after a year of social distancing, finally, welcoming a hug of a real human. To remind you how wonderful being alive is, how sacred life is. And contrary to the popular saying, we truly live more than once every day, but only die once.

Cry, if you must,

Anytime, anywhere, anyplace. At the brink of death, At the brink of birth, At the brink of New Year’s when we all sing Auld Lang Syne, At the brink of each heartbreak, At the edge of saying goodbye, not knowing when you will see each other again.

Cry, if you must,

When you are at the ends of the Earth, looking back in life, taking stock of your accounts, looking forward to the future, marching on with hope and purpose.

Cry, if you must,

Bawl, if you need to, Shed, if you like to, It’s nature’s best eye lubricant and a feel-good hormone.

And even if you aren't, can’t, or won’t, It’s okay. Some day, you will experience it, that’s my hope for you. And someday, someone will be there to wipe those tears for you.

Author’s Notes: Thanks, Lucy for your prompt piece What Makes You Cry?

I ❤ TBIN and its founder, Lucy Dan 蛋小姐 (she/her/她) for her wonderful work in growing a true community. We all need more genuine connections in the digital world, it’s never too late to start connecting now.

Tagging some of my fellow TBIN writers whom I know and their pieces—

Hello there, Thanks for reading. I am honored and grateful for your time. I don’t claim to know everything, but I will always strive to share every single bit of truth with thought and humility.

If you like to read more of my stories and be inspired along the way, Let’s connect. One real story at a time, one practical move at a time.

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